Which level of the seven levels of sex do you belong to?

In human sexuality, people's personality traits, self-perception, and the intimacy of their relationship are crucial. Maltz (1995) developed a hierarchical model of human sexual desire expressions that includes both constructive and destructive aspects, which is the standard sexual spectrum theory. Maltz viewed sexual energy as a neutral energy, and the intention and sequence of sexual behavior could lead the behavior in a negative or positive direction. That is, it develops from the middle zero to the two poles, with a total of seven points, or seven levels. The three positive dimensions of sexuality are based on mutual choice, care, respect, and safety.

+1 level is positive role practice

Reflects well-defined gender roles defined by social or religious customs; in which (heterosexual) men initiate sexual activity and women passively accept it, with mutual respect, no coercion or resentment, and a strong sense of security and predictability. Having children and releasing sexual pressure are the main purposes of their sex life.

+2 level is making love

Emphasis is placed on mutual pleasure through personal sexual creativity and experience. Traditional gender role behaviors are set aside and sexual behavior is expanded into exploratory practices of erotic entertainment. Sexual self-expression creates more intimate communication, allowing sexual partners to express themselves more deeply.

+3 levels are for true sexual intimacy

Sexual intercourse brings about a shared feeling of unity, a sense of connection between oneself and the other person, with a worship of the body in the emotional experience. The enjoyment of sensual pleasures includes rich expressions of love for each other. The sweetness and development of the relationship are the key, and both parties gain a deeper sense of wholeness.

Maltz also points out that sexual interactions can be upsetting or traumatic ordeals, often imposed by one person on another. Each level is more destructive in the negative order.

-1 level is non-human interaction

It is marked by a lack of concern, respect and responsibility for oneself or others. Perhaps he or she does not realize that this behavior brings negative consequences to himself or her sexual partner, including unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, HIV infection, etc. Tolerating unpleasant sexual behaviors or hiding things from sexual partners (about sexual health or sexual experiences) often occurs at this level, and these experiences lead to feelings of discomfort, unhappiness, or uneasiness.

-2 level is abusive interaction

The sexual behavior of one person forcibly controlling another person while being conscious. Non-violent acquaintance rape or incest fall into this category. It mainly refers to forced sexual behavior against the will of the sexual partner. Forced verbal communication or brainwashing also falls into this level. Through distorted thinking, the sexual exploiter rationalizes his or her harm to another person or refuses to acknowledge that the sexual behavior is harmful. This behavior or experience often hurts the victim's self-esteem.

-3 levels are violent interactions

It is the use of sexual energy to express hostility, with the sexual organs becoming weapons or targets. Serial killers or rapists, as well as rape in war, are typical extreme examples of this level.

To engage in sexual expression as an act of self-knowledge or relationship improvement, one should experience a level of positive sexual interaction that fits within one’s value system. The higher the level, the more mature and complete the sexual expression, and the more harmonious the sexual relationship.