Four ways to firmly capture a man's heart

Don't be careless on your first date with the one you like. You must get a good start and open the door to love. You must learn to grasp the details so that love won't slip away. So how do you capture a man's heart on a first date?

1. Make full use of body language

Experience shows that "body language" can often convey more information to the other person and express richer emotions. If you are not good at expressing yourself, you need to use your body language. It is estimated that on a first date, 55% of the first impression you leave on the other person depends on your appearance and "body language", 38% depends on your speaking skills, and only 7% depends on the content of your speech.

2. Laugh together

Love and laughter always go together. Among the factors that people traditionally believe will lead to love between men and women, a sense of humor always occupies a very important position. Experiencing laughter together creates a sense of closeness between strangers, and it's always a good idea to try telling some jokes on a first date.

3. Choose a restaurant with the right music

The first date is always a bit nervous, so choose a quiet restaurant and warm music! Experiments show that soft music is more likely to make women feel good about men, while jazz or a completely silent environment.

4. Good at texting

Texting is one of the important ways of communication for modern people. In some cases, using text messages does more harm than good and should be avoided as much as possible.

1) When there are differences of opinion. When lovers or couples have disagreements or conflicts, text messaging can easily lead to misunderstandings and even further deteriorate the relationship. The best way at this time is to communicate face to face.

2) The first date just ended. After a great first date with a guy, you may be eager to connect with him, but don’t text him right away. Sending text messages right after a breakup may reduce a man's interest in and expectations of you.

3) When drunk. When you drink too much, you may lose your mind. If you don't want him to see you talking incoherently, please turn off your phone when you are drunk, don't make calls, and don't send text messages on impulse.

4) After the man feels embarrassed. If he does something that makes him feel embarrassed, such as admitting he took the wrong road, was underpaid, or encountered difficulties at work, please do not send him a text message to comfort him immediately. This will make him feel that you remember his cowardly side. It's best to be around him or change the subject at this moment.