A woman who thinks this way must be seriously twisted.

All human beings have sexual desires; women are also human beings; therefore, women also have sexual desires. Based on this simple syllogism, we can say with certainty that women are naturally fond of sex, and the idea that they hate men's sexual demands does not exist at all. However, in married life, many husbands find that their wives are not very enthusiastic about sex, and when they make sexual demands, they often do not get a positive response from her. After making love, the wife often acts as if she is annoyed but doing it anyway, making the husband feel that she is not doing it for herself but to satisfy him. Although men are careless, at this moment, they are still good at observation and speculation. As a result, they have unconsciously formed the impression that women hate men's sexual demands.

In fact, this is a completely false superficial phenomenon. Women don't really hate sex; their disgusted reactions are often pretended, intentionally or unintentionally. Men would say that women’s minds are really hard to figure out; if you like someone, just like them, why pretend? After all, it's still men's fault.

In a masculine society, all social concepts are colored by male superiority. The moral judgments made by men not only have an impact on women, but also play a decisive role in them. Under the influence of traditional sexual concepts, men often use whether or not they like sex as a criterion to measure women. Deep in their consciousness, there is a strange idea that "good women don't like sex and don't desire sexual enjoyment, while those who don't are bad women." They would praise the good women in their minds as "dignified and quiet", but the implication was not to praise their elegant behavior, but to say that they were chaste and would not commit adultery. This mentality is most obvious among fans who are crazy about female movie stars. In their minds, those female stars are like the Virgin Mary, extremely pure and forever virgins. Not only do they not have sex, they don't even urinate or defecate. This kind of thing once happened abroad: a female star was about to get married, and her fans were extremely indignant. They took to the streets to protest on her wedding day, and some even attempted suicide.

When it comes to the bad women in their minds, men often use words like "flirtatious" and "lewd" to describe them. The implication is not to praise her for being good at sex, but to condemn and despise their behavior of seeking pleasure from sex.

To a certain extent, this kind of evaluation from men is equivalent to society's evaluation. Therefore, this kind of evaluation appears in front of women in the form of social behavioral norms. Even if you really want sex. In front of men, women should try their best to behave dignified and reserved, pretending to know nothing about sex. When they can't pretend anymore, they will pretend to be bored and accept the man's caress reluctantly. This series of performances by women is simply a reminder to men: I am not that kind of bad woman.

After all, there are only a few women who can consciously engage in this kind of disguise. Many women behave in this way unconsciously, while most of them consciously accept men's views of them and believe them psychologically, so they actively abandon their primitive desires and completely restrain their sexual behavior. When men make sexual advances to such women, they feel truly disgusted and may even fight back desperately. Such an outcome was probably beyond the expectations of the men.

Most women who deeply hate sex grew up in an environment full of wrong sexual concepts. Many women have learned since childhood that sex is a dirty and shameful thing, which is done by vulgar people but not by decent people. Some women also believe in exaggerated and one-sided propaganda, which leaves the impression deep in their hearts that sexual relations between men and women are violent. When they grow up, even before they have any real sexual experience, they already have an unnamed aversion and fear towards sex.

A few days ago, I heard about a story about a girl who lived in a big city and was a good student with excellent character and academic performance in school. The boy sitting next to her has always been in love with her, but she has always ignored him. Later, this male classmate was sent to a work-study school for participating in the activities of a gangster gang. This incident had a great impact on her, and from then on she formed an unchangeable idea: anyone who does that kind of thing is a bad person. A few years later, she got married. Before the wedding night, she made some preparations by tightly binding her lower body with cloth strips and sewing it up with needle and money. Despite this, when the groom came up to her, she couldn't help but get angry. She cried and called him a hooligan, and rushed out of the bridal chamber.

There are also some women who don't like sex or hate men because of the stimulation they received in this regard in their early years. For example, if a woman is molested or raped after she grows up, she will have a bad impression and behave abnormally. A psychoanalyst gave such an example. One day, a young girl came to see him for treatment. She said that she was very disgusted with men. When talking to men, she would not even turn her face towards them. When a man pulled her hand, she would wash it repeatedly many times after returning home. After the expert's guidance, she found out why she hated men so much. It turned out that when she was a child, an elder who liked her very much played with her sexual organs. From then on, this unpleasant experience remained in her mind, and that situation would come to her mind whenever she came into contact with a man.

In addition, the impression that women hate sex is sometimes due to a misunderstanding of the mechanism of sexual desire. Due to the different physiological structures of men and women, men have stronger and more vigorous sexual desire, while women's is relatively weaker. Men's sexual impulse appears faster, while women's sexual impulse occurs slower, generally lasting more than 10 minutes. This will easily lead to disharmony. The man is already sexually excited, but the woman feels nothing. Under the influence of sexual impulse, the man is eager to have sex, but the woman feels nothing, so she is indifferent. The above situations can easily make people feel that women don’t like sex.

Recently, some people have put forward a new theory that the reason why women hate sex and men is that women are inherently homosexual. From the moment a woman is born, she forms a symbiotic relationship with her mother. When a man tears apart this relationship and forces himself upon them, even though she loves the man intellectually, she will instinctively feel angry. When women are together, they seem to have returned to the days when they lived with their mothers. They are psychologically complete and can therefore experience selfless joy.

It is hard to say whether this statement makes sense or not. We can only take it as a guess.