"Bite" your girlfriend and make her scream "Ahhhh"

You probably know that most girls cannot reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone, but oral sex can greatly increase the rate of orgasm. This is probably why many women have no resistance to "tongue ballet". The following dark horse editor has practiced more.

Keep it clean

Before enjoying oral sex, it is recommended that girls take the initiative to wash themselves (of course, it’s also okay if you are willing to help her wash). Taking a shower before having sex can also help you relax. (Of course, some people prefer women’s original flavor, which is also fine. Just find an opportunity to communicate your preferences in advance to avoid embarrassment.)

Enjoy

If you really don't want to give her a blowjob, then gently ask her if she wants to try something else. If neither of you likes it, don't force it, otherwise both of you will feel uncomfortable. In fact, making love is a very flexible thing, and there is no necessary step. Of course, once you start tasting jade, just enjoy it! You give her oral sex with passion, and she will relax more as you do so.

Find the right place

Find a comfortable and safe place for her to lie flat on her back. Give her lots of compliments to put her at ease. The reason why a girl cannot enjoy oral sex is mostly because she feels nervous and insecure, and is worried that you will mind her body odor and figure. Say a few nice words to make her feel at ease. Spread her legs apart and the main area your tongue should explore is the clitoris, as this is undoubtedly the most sensitive part of her body. If you still don’t know where the clitoris is, then just follow me and remember: the clitoris is located at the intersection of the two labia minora above, where there are many nerve endings that lead to pleasure.

How to find the clitoris? Imagine a diamond: the clitoris is the small part at the top of the diamond, covered by a layer of skin. But please note that many girls prefer you to stimulate the area around the clitoris first rather than getting straight to the point.

The layer of skin that covers the clitoris is called the clitoral hood. The clitoris of most women is hidden inside the foreskin, which is somewhat similar to the relationship between the penis and foreskin. Like the glans penis, the clitoris can be extra sensitive, especially in the beginning stages of intercourse. So your tongue can freely explore the labia minora, moving up and down, left and right, or in circles, and then slowly and gently reach towards the clitoris.

It should be noted that since the female urethra opening is just above the vaginal opening, it is more susceptible to infection, so please pay special attention to hygiene. There are also girls who prefer this area, if that’s the case, then don’t hesitate to serve her!

Sufficient foreplay

Now you know what the point is, right? But if you just start giving a blowjob without doing anything else, that would be a bit unprofessional. If she's nervous, shy, or stressed, she won't be able to fully enjoy the process, and it may be more difficult for her to orgasm.

So, you can start by caressing and kissing her body, starting from her lips, cheeks, behind her ears, breasts or nipples, and then slowly, slowly move to the base of her thighs. As you move down, you can use your fingers to tease her vagina to make it warm and moist. When it is obvious that she is beginning to be unable to hold back and is craving your tongue, you can start by kissing her labia, licking it from time to time, and letting her feel your warm breath. You should pay attention to the signals she gives you. If she starts to moan or her body starts to move up and down, it's time for you to move the tip of your tongue towards her clitoris.

Stimulate the clitoris

When she is horny, her clitoris will start to swell and become extremely sensitive. You can circulate your tongue around it gently, very slowly at first, then gradually increase your speed and the force of your tongue. Observe her reaction carefully. If she is too sensitive, she may feel pain, which will affect the pleasure, so you should reduce the force appropriately.

Once the passion heats up, you can try wrapping your lips around her vagina and gently sucking on it while moving your tongue back and forth. As she gets more and more into the mood, you can change the way you kiss, lick, pat and press.

Some women also like you to put your tongue in their vagina. If she pushes you away slightly, that's her hint that she doesn't want this. But if she pulls you forward, it means she wants to continue. She may also move slightly herself to help you find the most comfortable position. However, body language is always less accurate than direct verbal communication. So, don’t be shy to ask if you are doing the right thing. Girls can also take the initiative to encourage and guide boys!

Once you find the right place, don't try too many tricks. Just keep repeating the action. If the girl is moaning and enjoying it, don't suddenly switch to using your fingers or directly using your penis. Let her have her fun first. (You also know that it’s not a pleasant feeling to be suspended in mid-air~)

If she's about to orgasm, you have to hold on and continue with whatever action turned her on. If you were going at a slow tempo before, slow it down; if you were speeding up, keep going fast. Changing the rhythm at this time is likely to make her lose pleasure immediately. Once she reaches orgasm, you'd better stop all actions, because the clitoris will be extremely sensitive at this time and it may hurt if you touch it lightly.

Explore more

Some women like the other person's tongue to gently and quickly flick the clitoris, while others like you to lick her vagina slowly, over a large area and with a little force. Some people also like to stimulate the G-spot at the same time. If this is the case, you can also use your hands and mouth to slowly insert one or two fingers into her vagina, stimulating her G-spot, or pumping back and forth. You may feel overwhelmed at first, but you will get used to it. The point is, you can treat sex as a game together, try different techniques, actively communicate, learn to read each other's body signals, and find ways to make her reach the peak.

Change body position

The common position for oral sex is that she is lying down with your head between her legs. But you can also spice things up by having her sit on the edge of the bed, leaning back, with you kneeling at her feet. Alternatively, you can lie down and have her kneel astride you while she confidently twists and touches her body - this position can be super sexy if done right! Alternatively, you can try the "69 position", which is oral sex between each other, either in a side-lying position or with both sides on top of each other. Although it is said that 69 has certain requirements for height difference, the editor has also met many girls who are very different from their boyfriends but are still not stressed about 69!