Men want this "feeling" from women

Everything is sweet when you are in love, with shortcomings minimized and strengths magnified. But after you get married and start a family, the opposite happens. The relationship between men and women has become complicated and full of suspicion. Women always complain that men love them less, while men think women do not give them face and make a fuss about nothing, so the conflicts become bigger and bigger.

1. Give him more respect

Women should not fight for power with men in the family. It is better to give the sovereignty of the family to men, let the husband have more self-esteem, and let him be an upright man in front of others, at home and outside. Let him feel like a man at all times, proud and glorious. Never let your husband lose his courage and become a "punching bag" or a "coward". Men are the sky above women's heads and the backbone of the family. This status cannot be replaced by women. Therefore, a good woman should always give her husband more self-respect, let her husband stand up straight and be a big man.

2. Give him more trust

The broader view is that men should have their own careers, while the narrower view is that men should support their families. For the sake of their family, they have to work hard outside all the time and deal with all kinds of people of different genders, ages and identities.

As a wife, you should fully trust your husband. Don't be suspicious if your husband has said an extra word to any other woman; and don't worry about why he never comes home. If he says he is busy, you should believe that he is really busy, and never doubt that he is lying to you. Even if you get through to him on the phone and hear that he is in a high-end hotel with singing and dancing, you must firmly believe that he is just socializing and not looking for some other way to have fun. As a wife, don't be suspicious, and don't blame your husband. You must firmly believe that your husband is just playing around outside and that in the end he will always love you.

3. Give him more tolerance

The reason you are asked to be tolerant is mostly because your husband has shortcomings, mistakes, or has done something to let you down. From my own perspective, tolerance is easier said than done. Because in order to be tolerant, you must first be calm and rational.

Most women are emotional. If things don't go their way, they can't control their emotions and become willful and have a bad temper. In addition, women are not broad-minded enough. Whenever their husbands treat them unfairly, they think they are the most unfortunate people in the world, the biggest victims, and the most miserable people. For this reason, because of the grievance, they keep seeking justice for themselves and even make more trouble. Little did she know that doing so would only force her husband to become ruthless.

He who knows the times is a hero. Even if your husband has really done something wrong to you, you must think calmly, weigh the pros and cons, and find the right degree of dispute with your husband. As the saying goes, there is a needle hidden in cotton, and softness overcomes hardness. As a wife, you might as well give your husband more forgiveness and tolerance. Your tolerance will move him and make him feel guilty. Only guilt can bring atonement; only gratitude can bring return.

4. Give him more care

Caring for a man is not just about providing him with food and clothing, the most important thing is to care about his inner world. You need to fully understand what your husband really needs and what he really likes. To cater to your husband's preferences does not mean to indulge him blindly, but to let him truly realize his wishes and values.

If a woman does not understand her husband throughout her life, she is truly a sad woman.

If you are a woman, you say what your husband wants to say, do what your husband wants to do, and give your husband everything he wants. I think my husband will never look outside for satisfaction again.

The communication between people is mainly heart-to-heart communication, and this is especially true between husband and wife. Being in sync with each other does not only rely on the tacit understanding between two people, but more importantly, it is a woman's insight into a man's inner world. To be able to foresee and understand things requires women to have keen observation, careful understanding and timely spiritual encounters.

5. Give him more understanding

Men also have their own troubles and difficulties. In particular, men shoulder the important mission of continuing the family line and bringing honor to the ancestors, so they are bound to have more responsibilities and obligations than women. As a wife, you must learn to understand your husband. When a woman marries a man, you must remember that you are not only marrying him as a single person, but also the entire background behind this man. You should take the initiative to regard yourself as an important member of this big family, fulfill your due responsibilities conscientiously, and not worry about personal gains and losses. In fact, as we are all family members, it doesn’t matter who gets it, but once we lose something, it’s the loss of the entire family.

To understand your husband is to give him a stepping stone to help him overcome the obstacles on the road; to understand your husband is to give him an umbrella to protect him from the wind and rain. To understand your husband, you need to give him more sympathy, more compassion, and more support.

6. Give him more love

In fact, men are also very fragile. They have seven emotions and six desires, and have rich emotions. A wife should not only see the strong side of her husband, but most importantly, she should cherish the weak side of his character. When your husband suffers setbacks outside, home is the only place where he can find comfort. As a wife, you should never laugh at his incompetence. At this time, he needs your comfort and encouragement the most.

When your husband is exhausted, you should use your enthusiasm to arouse his self-confidence; you should use your tenderness to make him relax; you should use your passion to burn away his embarrassment and discouragement.

A man's youth radiates from a woman. Without the sunshine-like warmth that a woman gives to a man, a man will never be bathed in the spring sunshine and will never be able to be successful.

7. Give him more help

His wife is a "good helper". This "help" not only means giving him a helping hand in his career, but more importantly, it means solving his worries. Be more filial to his parents-in-law on his behalf; be more responsible to his children on his behalf. Let him put aside all selfish thoughts and devote himself wholeheartedly to his career. This is the real help a wife can give to her husband.

In times of adversity, you can help him steer the boat and row the oars; in times of hardship, you can share the suffering with him. To help your husband solve his problems is to help him relieve his psychological burden when he is troubled; to let him make clear judgments when he is successful; to help him find his position, and to use your tender arms to give him strength at critical moments. Success in career is a man’s true success. A man's success comes from his wife's constant support and selfless dedication. "Behind every successful man, there is a great woman." This is the highest compliment to a woman.

8. Give him more space

Men have their own world. He has his own hobbies, interests, etc. A woman should never let her husband change his nature for her; nor should she erase his personality. Give him a free space and a sky where he can spread his wings and fly. You must know that no matter how wonderful the outside world is, it is just a small stop. For a man who is physically and mentally exhausted, his eternal home is in his warm home.

To protect your home is to light a gentle lamp for your husband and always keep a door open for him. Use the light of the lamp to guide him so that he will not lose his way; keep the door open and never close it so that his harbor will be filled with warmth. Since it is said that men are the sky above women's heads, then you should give him a pair of wings and let him fly. No matter how high or far the kite flies, you don’t have to worry, because the string is tightly held in your hands.

9. Give him more praise

Although it is said that "good medicine tastes bitter and honest advice is unpleasant to the ears." However, since vanity and self-esteem are human nature, most people like to hear praise. It is easier for people to accept a subtle and implicit evaluation in the form of praise than to criticize with righteous words. Therefore, as a wife, you should use a magnifying glass to face your husband's strengths; use a magnifying glass to peek at his shortcomings; and use a microscope to see through his love.

"A kind word warms you through three winter months, while an evil word hurts you through six months of summer." Every time your husband succeeds, you should applaud him with words of appreciation. Even if he has only corrected a small bad habit, you might as well exaggerate his progress. Let him mature in praise.

10. Give him more smiles

"When we meet, all grudges will be wiped out with a smile." Your smile can bring warmth to your husband and make his heart as bright as the sun. He will see the sincerity of your love from your smile; he can see the motherly kindness in your smile. Your smile can melt the ice of indifference; your smile can eliminate all resentment. Your smile can make him feel happy; your smile can make him confident forever.

"A smile when looking back makes you more charming." A smile is a blooming flower, a smile is a plump fruit; a smile is the summer breeze; a smile is the winter sunshine. Face everything with your smiling face. True love is a kind of selfless giving. A woman, who lives for a man, is actually living for herself. Because while you are giving everything to your husband, you have realized your own value!

Have you noticed? The feeling of love is always sweet at the beginning. You always feel that there is one more person to accompany you and one more person to help share the burden. You are finally no longer alone. At least there is someone thinking about you and loving you. No matter what you do, as long as you can be together, it is good.