Waiting and parting, how many of the seven kinds of pain in love have you experienced?

When you start to care about someone, it means you have been moved. Caring can make people addicted and unable to extricate themselves for a long time. Caring can blind people's eyes and make them lose their judgment. How many of the seven kinds of love pain have you experienced?

1. Care

When you start to care about someone, it means you have been moved. Caring can make people addicted and unable to extricate themselves for a long time. Caring can blind people's eyes and make them lose their judgment.

You can care, but you can't care too much. Caring too much will inevitably lead to a dead end, making you worry about gains and losses and keeping you awake at night. And a shallow concern is like a glass of light wine or a wisp of breeze. If you have it, you may lose it; if you don’t get it, you will never lose it. Maybe we can't stop caring, but we can make ourselves care less.

2. Temptation

There are too many temptations in this world, including the temptation of color, that is, the temptation of material and appearance. People are shouting: Choose a simple and plain life and don't want to get lost in luxury and extravagance. But how many people can really be content with living in poverty? Then there is the spiritual temptation, which is more obvious on the Internet. Most people on the Internet are basically spiritually empty and want to find some spiritual sustenance on the Internet.

For example, in a chat, no matter how vague the topic is, some words just hit your heart, just like the spring breeze and rain, and the clear sound in the muddy world (you never know who will pick up someone's words). Someone's talent impresses you at once, he is simply extremely talented. (Maybe it was pieced together by translating Tang and Song Dynasty poems) You will inevitably form the most beautiful image of this person in your mind. A woman is a rare and wonderful woman who is both talented and gentle. A man is a talented but unappreciated great man. So there was some hesitation and a bit of shyness. We fell in love online and couldn't stop. It's several beats faster than the speed dating shows on TV. I tried to pull it out again and again, but fell into it again and again. My will was being destroyed bit by bit until I had no strength left to struggle.

3. Feeling

Feeling is a very mysterious thing. I believe that no one in this world can control his or her own feelings. It is like a ghost and will make your heart beat faster at some unexpected moment. As if possessed by a demon, as if drunk, as if hurricane-force winds, as if lightning struck. It comes and goes as it pleases. When it comes, it's like a fleeting spring dream, and when it goes, it leaves no trace, like morning clouds that are nowhere to be found.

When the feeling comes, even the mountains can’t stop it. Everything becomes spiritual at that moment. When the feeling disappears, the other person seems like just a plastic man in your eyes, blending into the air. The antonym of love is not hate, but indifference, the indifference of having no feeling at all. Hatred requires you to keep a person in your heart and to bring him/her up from time to time to grit your teeth at him/her. But without feeling, everything will become dim with time.

4. Wait

Waiting is the most heart-wrenching word in life. It is like a pair of scissors that cut the heart into a painful shape, cutting away happiness and leaving behind frustration. What was cut away was time, leaving behind a face that was older than last night.

While waiting, we unknowingly lose a lot of things, and even lose ourselves. Waiting makes people lose their balance and drive them crazy. It makes people linger, focus on the small space in front of them, and stop moving forward. Waiting is a kind of passivity. Waiting makes people lose the courage to take the helm. Waiting is like contentment, which makes people lose their will. Waiting is everywhere in life. In the process of waiting and not waiting, beauty will grow old and die.

5. Distance

The distance between people is always a science, such as between men and women, close distance produces real beauty, while long distance produces hazy beauty. Seeing flowers in the fog and the moon in the water is a state of mind. One day without seeing you feels like three autumns, this is a kind of state of mind. But I think that seeing each other every day and never getting tired of it is a higher level. Because it is human nature to be easily bored and fickle.

There is a folk song like this in Baiyangdu, Shaanxi: Sister Ga, lie beside me, I start to miss her as soon as I close my eyes. If you don't love each other deeply, how can you see each other every day and not get tired of each other? When you get closer, all the beauty and ugliness can be seen. At that time, if you can still say from the bottom of your heart: I love you! I believe that is true love. But distance is something that is difficult to grasp. If you are too close, you may get burned. If you are too far, you may not be able to feel the other person, or even their faces may become blurry.

6. Guess the Heart

If you meet a woman or a man, please be gentle to him (her). To cherish him (her) is to cherish yourself. We don't have much time in our life, so why do we always waste it on meaningless things?

What is yours will always be yours, not more, not less. When tenderness is no longer so pure, we should think more about what we cannot do. Instead of blaming others, guessing, and making assumptions.

7. Farewell

It is better for friends to be apart for a long time, no matter how many years have passed. The reunion after separation is like the fragrance of incense burning in a jar ten miles away. Because wine will only become more mellow as it ages. It is better to say goodbye to your lover as soon as possible, because the lover is like a kite, and the long string represents the long gaze and longing. You are on this side and he is on that side. If the line is too long and the wind is too strong, it will easily break. Parting is like stirred water, left there to settle until water returns to water and turbid water returns to turbid water.