10 shortcuts to clear out "emotional garbage" with one click

1. Don’t mind the hug so much. After all, it’s just a hug.

The reason why nostalgia for the past is attractive is mostly because the current environment is better. Only when people are happy will they be more likely to express their true feelings. So don’t mind his enthusiasm towards his ex-lover. Maybe that’s just the pride he feels because he has you.

Even though the hug was warm, at least I didn't hide it from you. As a successful woman, you really should show appropriate magnanimity and make him happier in the New Year to make it perfect.

2. The harsh side of a woman is often due to her lack of self-confidence.

Men can think like this: when a woman bullies her husband in public, it is often just to improve her own status and self-confidence, or simply to satisfy her own desire to talk. And there is a law that everyone knows: when

When a woman says "no", she is actually saying "yes" in her heart. When a woman says "yes", she is no longer a woman. By analogy, if your wife calls you stupid twelve times, it is equivalent to praising you for being smart twelve times.

Ming - deserves a year-end bonus.

3. He likes to play, so you punish him.

Men are like this sometimes. Once they get married,

I thought I had a new mother and became more playful than before I got married. Then you should learn from your mother-in-law's approach, especially when you are not feeling well but he still goes out to meet friends. It turns out that it is difficult for him to change, and if you don't get angry, he can only

More exciting. Therefore, he has a great time and you feel relieved when criticizing him. At least there are gains and losses, which is much better than you sulking alone.

4. Love that has a shelf life is always better than love that becomes like chewing wax.

Maybe she is tired of your tenderness and tenderness, so after the close contact

Indifference is just a break. You may be dissatisfied with this, but don't jump to any conclusion. If you really can't justify yourself, try taking a short break. Even if you don't feel like you're newlyweds, at least you can make the other person feel a little

Feeling the distance between yourself and others can help distract you from your lost mood. Since human emotions have ups and downs, your relationship can also follow this pattern. It will alleviate some of the frustration during the period when passions subside and prevent resentment from accumulating.

5. Maybe the moment he raised his fist made you want to die.

As long as men are not cowards, most of them

They all have a tendency to be violent. Those who don't take action are just better able to control their emotions. After you have been angry about his rudeness and barbarity for half a year, you can look back at this incident. Unless he is violent, you can usually find your fault.

error. What remains is to teach him how to deal with the matter. Of course, you can give him three rules. No matter how wrong you are, if he does it again, he will never see you again.

6. Maybe she just forgot that she was a new wife and got drunk at her best friend's house for a night.

In fact, just as people cheat during the day, staying out all night is not a problem in itself. If you are worried about this, you might as well try to see if you can forget to go home if you have so much fun. If you have tasted the sweetness, you will understand my daughter.

Children's playful mind. Marriage means loss of freedom for women more than for men. If marriage makes you narrow-minded, it's better to convince yourself. Otherwise, your wife's absence from home once may not affect her, but it may become a burden on you.

Depression is purely self-inflicted.

7. Women nag to exercise their bodies

If you've listened to her nagging for 11 months, make a deal and let yourself nag for the last month of the year. You've been listening to the same old shit for a year, it's time for her to hear your complaints and comments. This change in the form of communication is very effective for a wife who likes to nag. Most importantly, it will allow a strong man to release all the pettiness accumulated in his heart. Even if this doesn't change her nagging habit, it can at least make you feel more comfortable without hurting her. As a couple, this is how they go through ups and downs.

8. It is better to always have women looking for you than to always look for women.

If his work involves the opposite sex, you just need to take some technical psychological precautions. Maybe he is really popular with women. If you feel bad for him spending so much time on women's affairs, then write a high-profile article for him.

The year-end summary: A certain comrade has done a very good job in women's work over the past year. I hope that this comrade will continue to work hard next year and win the support of more female comrades, especially his wife. I think he must be very satisfied with your attitude. Let him master

It’s better to take action to improve the situation than to continue to be upset about it next year.

9. Although wool is a bit prickly, it is very warm.

The experience and understanding accumulated over the years of marriage will indeed allow you to understand more of your partner's shortcomings and faults, making it easier to attack your partner. However, when you are planning to settle the score later, shouldn't you also think that the seven years of understanding each other has made the other person more considerate of you? If you also make a statistics of these events, you will find that although wool is itchy when worn, it is still warm.

10. It’s not terrible to forget your wedding anniversary

Better than forgetting to get married. Instead of dwelling on it, why not give him a chance before the New Year arrives. Set up a "520-day wedding anniversary" or something like that to allow him to redeem himself from his crime. If he also feels guilty about his forgetfulness, he will definitely care a lot about this "520th wedding anniversary". If you can get double or even more anniversary gifts because of this, you will be happy for many days.