Who slept with whom, man or woman?

It doesn't matter who sleeps with whom between men and women. Even if something happens, they should have slept with each other. However, according to the market price and the nonsense at the wine table, men always feel that they have taken a huge advantage and that they have done something to women, so they are willing to say "I slept with XXX." The generally accepted reasons are as follows:

1. Men think they are people and women are objects

Men never show off when they sleep with their wives because they think that they are their property. According to the principle of "don't show off your wealth", it is not appropriate to discuss your wife in public. Sleeping with someone else's wife or an unmarried woman is just like stealing 10 yuan from someone else's house or picking up 10 yuan on the street. Getting things beyond one's normal income, including sleeping with a woman, always makes a man feel like he's being taken advantage of. It is exciting and can prove one's luck or means to other men, so men must explain who he slept with, how they slept, how the sleep went, etc.

2. Men deceive themselves physically to find psychological balance

In fact, when men and women sleep together, men don't gain any advantage. Not only do they have to pay more physically, but they also "donate" more substances from their bodies. In fact, most men need to work hard during the process of "sleeping". To be honest, during the whole "sleeping" process, the man's organs are completely surrounded, and he has to surrender in the end. Who is sleeping with whom? There is no need to save face by saying something.

3. Women’s traditional modesty and restraint remind them not to be too arrogant

No matter how we talk about gender equality, men are still men after all. The social division of labor in primitive society has endowed men with the characteristics of being aggressive, possessive, expressive, and vain. In some primitive tribes, in order to show their strength, men would wrap a lot of things around their reproductive organs to make them look very big from a sensory perspective. This is how men display their vanity in the original and arrogant way. Women actually like to express themselves, but their expressions are always reserved, implicit, and tactful. Some people may say that women are hypocritical, but it is this implicitness that gives women their feminine beauty, and this is what makes a woman a woman.

4. A man can "sleep" as many women as a woman can sleep with. There is no need to show off.

This topic is a bit off topic, so I'll just talk about it. Many men always boast about how many women they have slept with. This is part bragging, but also part self-slapping. If you think about it, the sex ratio in China is that there are slightly fewer men than women. If a man sleeps with N women, does that mean all men in the country sleep with the same 100 or 1,000 women? Therefore, when a man talks about how many women he has slept with, isn't he also saying, "I am one of the many men who have slept with a certain woman?" Think about it from another perspective. That little thing is not worth bragging about. Men and women are the same. They are all human beings. They all sleep. It's all about those few minutes between the bed curtains. Mutual respect is important.

5. Who "slept" with whom is not the real issue. The key is mutual respect

No matter you are a man or a woman, if you really love someone, you will at least respect this person. At least you will not bring the most private things of this person to the dinner table for discussion and use them as side dishes. From this point of view, arrogant men should learn to respect the dignity of women in bed. While respecting others, you also ensure your own sexual dignity. On the issue of "sex", no matter how arrogant and ostentatious a man is, he still needs to keep something noble and sacred for himself, right? Otherwise, it would just be like the intercourse of animals and livestock, without the human characteristics of "sex".