7 ways to express love, each one is a hit!

Women taking the initiative is the slogan of the times, but the times have evolved for thousands of years, and men are still men and women are still women. Look at the male lions on the African continent. They only show their masculine bravery and vitality when they feel that the female lions are difficult to chase. Male lions are very aggressive, and the less they can get, the more interesting they are. Therefore, shyness and passivity are sometimes not a matter of concept, but a matter of femininity, skills and interest in bed. Therefore, taking the initiative is a double-edged sword. If you use it well, you can be invincible; if you use it poorly, it will not only be detrimental to your sex life, but will also make you more embarrassed.

1. Treat the symptoms:

Is he a man with very traditional ideas? For example, if he feels uncomfortable if you take the initiative, then give him some time to accept you. Remember, after all, not all men like women to take the initiative in this regard.

2. Distinguish the time:

Sometimes, he likes you to take the initiative, and sometimes he desires a passive situation. Specific situations require specific applications. Remember, the most taboo thing is to take the initiative regardless of the occasion and situation.

3. Find out your sex language code:

Do you and him have a tacit understanding? Is there a tacit understanding that he will understand you just by a body movement? Try to cultivate your sexual language code, so that when you extend the olive branch of sex, he can take it in time.

4. Keep yourself mysterious:

It is said that one of the important reasons why Yang Guifei always remained mysterious in front of Emperor Minghuang of Tang was that she would rather not be discovered by Emperor Minghuang every time she took a bath. What you can't get is the best. Understand men's psychology, and sometimes you should take the initiative and play hard to get. Saying "you want" in a roundabout way is more charming than saying "you want" directly.

5. Don’t use words, use your eyes:

A very important rule between temptation and being tempted is: everything is implied. You don't have to use words. Sometimes, your eyes are the best weapon to express your love. Seduce him until he feels he must take action.

6. Initiative is not barter:

Taking the initiative is definitely not for exchange. Please don't hug him and ask for sex just for your fur coat. Over time, a man will feel that you are blackmailing him and that he is paying for sex.

7. Men have the right to be impotent:

Even if you take the initiative, if he is in his male menstrual cycle, don't force it on him. Men have the right not to get erection, and this is how a society of gender equality can be achieved.

8. Don’t forget to negotiate on an equal footing:

When the savage girlfriend became popular all over the world, the savage wife seemed to be in fashion as well. However, taking the initiative is not being overbearing. When you, like a man, are eager to practice a certain skill, remember, have you negotiated with him? Do you know what he likes? Every man and woman has their own sexual taboos, so don't touch them.