The 10 most ambiguous relationships between men and women

Judging from the literal meaning alone, these relationships have quite formal and reasonable reasons for existence. From the perspective of social reality, they all have absolutely necessary social roles and social positions. If stripped away from the background of the overall social morality, these relationships should indeed be "normal relationships between men and women." But in fact, they are imbued with a strong erotic color, which is intriguing and leaves an endless aftertaste.

"Height 176 and 174, 102 and 100 pounds, long hair. Fair skin and good figure. Threesome: 600 per time. I guarantee you'll enjoy it to the extreme! Many people can enjoy it!" "Senior male masseurs provide professional essential oil full body massage services for female customers." This is a massage advertisement that can be seen everywhere on the Internet. Almost all of them are services for the opposite sex - female masseurs serve male customers, and male masseurs serve women. It's hard not to think of something wrong.

At least from the name, "massage" provides a relatively decent cover and metaphor for naked pornographic services. In addition, there are indeed some people doing formal and honest massage business, so there are now more massage parlors and bath centers than bars. It is said that a good masseur is also a good master of teasing. Moreover, massage is a service method that basically involves direct skin-to-skin contact. I am afraid that only ghosts would believe the nonsense of "sitting and talking about philosophy".

2. Private Doctors and Patients

Of course, this is a completely different story from when you have a viral cold and go to the hospital to get penicillin and meet a beautiful nurse. Once something is adjectiveized as "private", its meaning will definitely become extraordinary. For example, private lawyers and private consultants are likely to be associated with relationships such as collusion. And once this relationship has both sexual and psychological implications, it is more likely to develop into a story that is popular in the erotic pages of street tabloids. What's more, people who are rich enough to afford a private doctor can definitely afford to pay for other things - such as asking the "doctor" to do some extra work.

A conscientious doctor, a qualified and satisfactory doctor is a considerate caregiver. This role makes it difficult for them to maintain a real distance between themselves and the "patient" in the doctor-patient relationship. When things develop to a certain extent, both the physical illness and the mental illness are treated at the same time, which is considered a natural result.

The most famous examples of this kind of relationship are the famous teacher Zhao Zhongxiang and the doctor Rao Ying who later also became famous.

3. Flight attendants and passengers

We should be grateful to various civil aviation schools for training a group of beautiful women with graceful manners for those rich and prestigious men in advance. What's more, their reputation and status are quite decent, which in turn greatly satisfies the vanity and self-esteem of those wealthy men - after all, hooking up with a stewardess is definitely more prestigious than hooking up with a bar girl, although from a macro perspective, both belong to the service industry in terms of the nature of their work.

Of course, from a deep psychological level, at an altitude of about 10,000 meters above the ground, especially on long-distance trips, everyone will have a sense of loneliness as a single man and a single woman; from a population structure perspective, at least for now, airplanes are still the preferred means of transportation for the rich, which innately creates a natural environment where rich men and beautiful women are paired together. In the 1990s, Chinese male football players who had suddenly become rich suddenly became "stewardess fans" collectively, and finding a stewardess as a wife became a trend in the football circle. Almost all of the most famous players of that era became "stewardess husbands". Fan Zhiyi's two wives, Li Qian and Li Longyi, were both stewardesses. The wives of Li Bing, Hao Haidong, Ma Mingyu and others were also butterfly-like people flying in the sky.

4. Hairstylist and Female Patron

Imagine handing your weakest and most fatal throat to a stranger, letting him wield a sharp blade that can cut hair, and the razor is deliberately rubbed on a piece of cloth before being used. What a touching, unreasonable and unprincipled high level of trust! I am afraid that there will never be a second partner like this in all business relationships in today's society. So I have always been very understanding of the story happening between a woman who has both free time and money and a young and handsome hairdresser.

Most of those playboys have breath as sweet as orchids and slender fingers as soft as boneless. They brush their faces and bodies lightly or heavily, intentionally or unintentionally, making those lonely men who may have been hunting for beauties and playing with fire feel itchy from skin to bone marrow. When their hair is lifted up and their hearts are agitated, it is hard for them not to cross the wall.

5. Female Secretary and Male Boss

The term "Xiaomi" sounds quite old-fashioned now, but from the perspective of the development of historical materialism, this historical term is definitely a symbolic term for China's society's move towards openness. This was the first game played by the first wealthy people in the trend of sexual openness. The reason why this relationship is no longer as sensitive and eye-catching as it was a few years ago is not because it is outdated, but because it has been overwhelmed by various other new relationships of the same nature but with different names.

Everyone on earth knows that today's legal wives are very sensitive and alert to their husbands' female secretaries. In many people's minds, "female secretary" has almost become synonymous with "mistress" and "confidant". So nowadays, the man who still flirts with female secretaries may be the most clumsy and honest man. The times are developing and society is progressing. The emergence and retreat of Xiaomi can be regarded as a way of keeping up with the times.

6. Male Subordinates and Female Superiors

The stronger a woman is, the weaker and lonelier she is inside. A woman who has a group of followers under her is always afraid of being seen as vulnerable, and afraid of not being able to win the support of the crowd. She always pretends to be more manly than men in front of others and behind their backs. In fact, she is just building a loose fence to protect her weakness and fragility. Under such conditions, the story can happen in any of the following modes: first, a silly boy accidentally opens the lonely heart of a strong woman, and from then on, she becomes a loving and caring person; second, a clever and resourceful pretty boy plays to her needs and uses a little trick to make the heart blossom, and then the water drips through the stone and the iron tree blooms.

If this can be considered as love between lovers, there is also a somewhat disgusting routine: female boss and male subordinate, it is hard to tell who supports whom, and it is also hard to say who is relying on whom. In short, men have color and women have power, and they each take what they need and use each other. What is more interesting is that this kind of relationship is a high-incidence area for sexual harassment of men by women, and visibility is often closely linked to power.

To take it to the extreme, all the female emperors in Chinese history are role models in this regard. Wu Zetian had countless male favorites and romantic ministers in her palace. Today's successful women are merely learning from their predecessors in terms of sex.

7. Female students and male teachers

If we delve deeper or extend it, this kind of relationship can be extended to young literary women and editors, female enthusiasts of a certain industry and idols of that industry, and so on.

Mr. Fei in "Cell Phone" and the female graduate student who did not appear in the film checked into a hotel, but in the end they only dared to "sit and talk" in the coffee shop in the hotel lobby. This shows how impure and unauthentic the gangster temperament of those cultural gangsters who still have a bit of nerdy pedantry is. To put it in plain words, they have the heart of a thief but not the courage of a thief. The ball of desire under their sanctimonious appearance burns those poor souls. Once the other party indulges or hints a little with a half-hearted attitude, compromise will be a matter of a glance or a gesture. In fact, there is no need to be shy. There was a saying in the old workshops: If you want to learn, sleep with the master first.

What is even more disgusting is that the men in this kind of relationship all pretend to have the sacred halo of a certain profession, and they even believe in the authenticity of this halo, and therefore more shamelessly regard their violation and possession of women as a kind of charity and gift from a leader to his believers.

8. Actresses and Directors

There is no need to explain this relationship in detail. Social language can be summarized in one word: "unspoken rules". Unlike other industries, erotic men and women in the entertainment industry will never face the difficulty of too many people and too few jobs. This circle almost includes most of the beautiful women in today's society, so directors have become the most fortunate men.

Having too many beauties in the circle is not a good thing for the beauties themselves. The competition is fierce, and the temptation of fame is so irresistible that all the costs are not worth it. Those who clamor to expose the unspoken rules are always the resentful women who pay a price but feel that the rewards are not worth it. Those stars who have already ranked among the most dazzling places will always sing praises for the purity and cleanliness of this circle. This is probably another unspoken rule - if you get the advantage, you have to learn to act nice.

Cao Xueqin told the truth through Liu Xianglian's mouth: Only the stone lions in the Grand View Garden are clean, but today's entertainment industry is not the Grand View Garden, and I'm afraid there aren't even stone lions. So the young writer Han Han's sigh is a very brilliant summary: Your entertainment industry is really messy.

The videotape incident involving Zhang Yu and Huang Jianzhong has now become old news. The progressive significance of this incident lies in that not only did it not lead to a curbing of the so-called "unwritten rules" due to their exposure, but it has made people accustomed to it because a layer of window paper was broken.

9. Tutor and Master

This relationship originally had a more obvious Western flavor, but the result of its extension and development in modern China was the emergence of bed nannies. In a gradually stable family, the man is in his wolf-like stage, the hostess is mostly getting old, and both sides begin to show aesthetic fatigue of holding the left hand with the right hand. The tutor or nanny who comes to the house is usually a young girl in her prime, as fresh and plump as a strawberry. The special relationship and power comparison between these three determine that the little girl is in a very dangerous situation.

After all, the little girl was young and ignorant. She mistook the dream for real and thought she would have someone to rely on for life. It should be noted that women in such relationships mostly end up as tragic characters. It is not uncommon to hear about the male owner using threats and inducements to get the little woman into bed, but it is rare for a nanny or tutor to succeed in taking over the woman's bed. The most common plot is that the shameless male owner confesses to the female owner with tears and snot, and complains about how the "little goblin" seduced her. The final result is generally not a big surprise: the poor "third party" is neither popular nor destitute, and is hurt both physically and mentally.

The stories in classic films such as "The Sound of Music" and "Jane Eyre" are so warm and touching. Unfortunately, they were performed by traditional people in traditional times. Their moving parts lie in the struggle of both sides against traditional feudal consciousness, while the affairs of men and women today are just the opposite, all of which are strongly colored by interests and desires.

10. Salesman and Customer

Just think about why there are so many "sales ladies" in this society but rarely hear of "house salesmen", and you can imagine how subtle and important the meaning of gender is in large-scale sales businesses such as real estate. Once women become important for survival in their dealings with men, it is often difficult for their gender advantage to avoid being ambiguous.

Besides, the main relationship between the two parties is originally a transaction, and the worst thing that can happen if you get yourself involved is just a promotional measure similar to "buy one get one free" or "discounts and rewards" in shopping malls - who makes the poor women born in the position of sellers? "The buyer is not as smart as the seller" has no market here at all.

"It's better to sell yourself than to sell a house" is a very popular saying in this industry. The purpose of some sales ladies is not just to sell houses. They often pay special attention to single men who come to buy houses, especially those who drive luxury cars and wear famous brands. In fact, many sales ladies end up living in the houses they sell. It is difficult to judge whether such an incident is a tragedy or a comedy when it first happens.