Which is more important, character or skills?

This is a teaching post for men, especially inexperienced teenagers. I hope you will take a look at this before studying techniques like squirting and G-spot. If you can’t even do the simplest thing, how can you talk about improvement?

For girls, I think a lot of the content in this post can be used as details to examine your boyfriend, and anyone who truly loves you can basically do it. I also hope that girls will consider what they should do while enjoying it~

As we all know, when it comes to temperament, emotion is the foundation, body is talent, and the importance of skills is self-evident. However, I don’t want to talk about those today, I just want to talk about bedding. Bedding products are not a skill that requires practice and research, but are often reflected in some small things that can be done with just a little effort. Providing her with meticulous sense of security, thoughtfulness and gentleness is the connotation of bedding products.

[Some points to note about bedding for both sexes]

1. This first point should not be mentioned here, but I still want to remind you to respect the other party's wishes. If you don't feel pleasure when you rape a girl, don't force her if she has too much psychological burden. Not only will she not cooperate with you, but her skills in bed will definitely be very poor. A forced melon is not only not sweet but may also be poisonous.

2. The atmosphere is very important. You can indulge yourself but not be unbridled. If you accidentally do something wrong and say something wrong and ruin the atmosphere, don't be impatient. Try another way and start over. You know, the bed is the easiest place to make a girl happy...

3. Communication is also important, but it does not necessarily have to be verbal communication. Everyone's preferences are different. Try to convey information to each other through various ways such as changes in breathing, body movements, and moans. This is a hundred times better than constantly asking "Are you comfortable?"

4. The main function of language is to praise and express love, and the entire process is only praise and not criticism. No matter if she is your wife or your sex partner, no matter how poor her sex skills are or how bad her bedding is, since you have decided to have sex with her tonight, you must try your best to satisfy her.

【On the "bedding" environment for both sexes】

1. Find a safe environment for her. If you really want to go to a weird place for excitement, you must make sure she is willing to go. Don't let others think that you are impatient and can't wait to find a crack in the ground to have sex.

2. No matter what, wear a condom. Pre-medication also has side effects, and post-medication is even more harmful to the body. What? Do you still believe in safe period and extra-ejaculation? Don't be funny. If you really don't feel comfortable wearing condoms, please try other brands of condoms, you will always find one you like. Finally, even if the girl doesn’t let you wear it, don’t give yourself excuses. Just because she is stupid, you can’t be stupid like her!

3. You may have heard that people in certain water-scarce areas only take a bath twice in their lives, and one of them is before entering the bridal chamber. Therefore, no matter what your usual hygiene habits are, no matter how bad the environment you are in, wash your body well before sex and rinse your mouth well before oral sex. This is the minimum respect.

【Foreplay, afterplay】

1. Simply put, foreplay is to make her wet enough. I would like to introduce a criterion here: let the girl express that she wants it before taking the next step. I can understand that it is difficult to remain patient in the face of desire, but it is necessary to do so. After all, she is not your right hand. What's more, foreplay can also be a very interesting thing. It doesn't matter if you don't know how to use massage, oral sex, or fingers. Continuous kisses, caresses, and sweet words are enough to make a girl wet.

2. The focus of foreplay is flirting and arousal, and there is no limit on the venue or techniques. Don't copy and paste, and don't do things as a routine. Even familiar partners may have sensitive areas that have never been developed.

3. Never believe in AV. "Art" is higher than life, and many things in the film are performed for you to see. It can be used to inspire thinking, but don't believe it blindly. Although the actresses look like they are enjoying it, they may actually be in terrible pain.

4. I think whether or not there is afterplay is the biggest difference between sex and prostitution. Don't always rush to take a shower and put on pants. Afterwards, immediately touch her, praise her, comfort her, and hug her - in short, don't let her feel that she is just a tool for sexual gratification.

5. Try to meet the other person's needs as much as possible before and after the act, such as putting a pillow under the other person's butt, passing tissues to wipe off liquids, wiping the body after taking a shower, covering the other person with a quilt after sex, etc. Be aware of these things.

【Main show】

1. The duration of sex is not important, but the quality. The physical fitness of both parties should be planned. Some men don't have strong endurance, and some girls will feel pain after a long time. The ideal time for two people to fully enjoy the scene is 15-30 minutes, which is a hundred times better than those two hours of tilling the fields and having sex seven times a night.

2. The military has no constant position, and water has no constant shape. For "old couples", new positions are always more exciting. Don't give up on your innovative spirit even if you feel like you've tried everything you can. Sometimes it can be very exciting if you make the girl unable to predict your next move, such as pulling it out occasionally and stopping for a few seconds, then entering it all at once while she looks at you in surprise... In addition, if you are new to this and have no experience, be careful not to overdo it. .

3. Sudden pain and behaviors that destroy the atmosphere are devastating to many girls, so you must try to keep the whole process smooth. It is best to put on a condom secretly and quickly, or let a girl help you put it on to increase the interest. When changing positions, be sure to be gentle to avoid pain. Many positions can even be switched without pulling out. These are up to you to research on your own.

4. Some girls like to be "a little rough", but this does not conflict with gentle actions. Brutal behavior is reflected in the momentum, such as a commanding tone, a conquering posture (such as holding one of the girl's arms when entering from behind), etc., but this does not mean that you can hurt her. Especially the most sensitive parts (clitoris and nipples), you must control the strength at all times.

5. As the saying goes: A woman’s whole body is full of G-spots. Don't forget that your tongue, hands, language and penis are all your weapons, so try not to keep them idle. You can play with her breasts with one hand and massage her clitoris with the other hand while entering from behind; you can lick her ears and say sweet words while your hands are busy while entering from the side. In short, don't be silly and go at high speed right away. Multi-dimensional and all-round stimulation can make girls enjoy it more.

6. The last thing is to sprint. Find a posture that is convenient for acceleration and maintain a faster frequency. The man's expression and moans can add points. Before the girl climaxes, focus all your energy on not ejaculating. The rest depends on her. Although it is ideal for both of you to climax at the same time, you still have to face reality. If you haven't finished after she has orgasmed, try to end the battle within 3 minutes. If you drag it out too long, the girl may feel uncomfortable. If you give up and don't ejaculate, the girl will also feel frustrated psychologically. If she fails to reach orgasm, don't force it. At least you still have another chance. Don't lose the big picture for the small one. And most importantly, don’t forget the aftermath!