Besides you, men love these 4 women in their lives

Love is selfish, and everyone hopes that the person they love only loves them. However, a man will always have these four women in his heart. Even if he doesn't say it or contact them, they will get the man's love for his whole life.

Some people say that you will meet at least three people in your life: one is the person who loves you, one is the person you love, and the other is the person you marry. This applies to both men and women. So, some people say that there are many women hidden in a man's heart.

However, no matter how many women a man has in his heart, there will only be one woman in his heart, a woman he deeply loves. No matter how outstanding a woman he meets in the future, it will not change his opinion.

Don’t think that men’s persistence in feelings seems inferior to women’s on the surface. In fact, it is higher than women’s. At no time will they easily divide their feelings into several parts and indulge in the play of emotions.

That’s why men always have many women in their hearts, because society has given men many different roles, including husband, son, father and so on. So, he may keep the women who played different roles in his life in his heart and keep them in his heart. But when it comes to love, there is always only one irreplaceable person in a man's heart.

1. Mother

Mother plays an extremely important role in a man's heart. It was his mother who gave him life and raised him, so no matter where he is or when, he will always remember his mother.

Many women often foolishly ask men "If her and her mother fell into the water at the same time, which one would she save first?" This is a very silly question. If the man answers that he would save his mother first, then the woman will say that the man does not love her enough. If he says that he would save the woman first, the woman may think that the man has no conscience and is not filial enough. No matter what the man's answer is, what he wants to say most in his heart is to save his mother first.

In the eyes of men, their mother is unique and irreplaceable, but if they lose their wife, they can find another one. The current high divorce rate is the best illustration of this, and one of the reasons for the sharp rise in the divorce rate is the discord between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law in marriage. The mother felt that the woman had taken away her child of many years, while the woman felt that the mother-in-law was monopolizing her husband. The relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law turned into a battle for the man.

A smart woman should remember that no matter how outstanding you are, no matter how much he loves you, the position of maternal love in his heart is unshakable. Don't ask him to choose between you and his mother. This is a historical problem.

2. Confidante

A man spends his whole life looking for a woman who understands him. Without a single word, just a glance or a small gesture, she can peek into your heart. She will just sit aside, listen to his stories quietly, and give him the most subtle comfort to his soul. This person is the man's confidante.

A confidante is different from a wife and a lover. A man has the responsibility and obligation to take care of his wife. A man may only think of his lover when he has physical needs. However, a confidante is only a man’s spiritual partner and there is absolutely no physical relationship between them.

As a wife, you may start to feel jealous. Why would a man look for a soul mate outside? Can't you be his soul mate?

You have to know that you have been sleeping in the same bed with him for a long time and you are the person he is most familiar with. There are always unpleasant things at work or in life and he doesn’t want to share them with you. It’s not because he doesn’t love you enough, but because he loves you too much. He doesn’t want you to know too much about his unpleasantness and worry about him. So he would rather find someone else to listen to his feelings and serve as his spiritual trash can. You should not blame this confidante. Instead, you should thank her because she provides your husband with great spiritual support and makes your husband happy every day.

3. Daughter

Some men say that after having a child, the focus of a woman’s life is no longer on herself, but has shifted to the child. But some women also said that after having a daughter, men no longer see them, only their daughter.

There is a saying that a daughter is a man’s lover in his previous life, and he loves his daughter very much. Only when a man is with his daughter can he show the most comfortable smile from the heart. Maybe he has devoted a lot of patience and time to his daughter. This is because she is your and his daughter, the fruit of your love and your hope for the future. When he is with his daughter, he will regain his long-lost childlike innocence and interest.

Seeing him having so much fun playing with his daughter, you shouldn't be angry, let alone jealous. You should be thankful that you found a good man who loves his family.

4. First Love

For a man, there will only be one woman in his heart, and that is his first love.

First love is the most beautiful, because at that time you are ignorant and hazy about everything, without any impurities, it is the purest emotion. So no matter how outstanding a woman he meets in the future, his opinion will not change. If a man has a woman he loves in his heart, no matter how outstanding a woman is, she will never intrude into his emotions again.

Once a man loses the woman he loves, he will never have love again, and will never interact or live with any woman with love again.

On the other hand, once a man finds that the woman he loves has left him, unless he can open his heart again and keep this woman in his heart, love will come to this man again, love will awaken this man again, and beauty will once again become the theme of this man's life.

A man actually has only one woman in his heart and mind, and that is the woman he will always love, the woman who will share weal and woe with him, the spiritual pillar that can enable him to enjoy his life. This is the cry in the man's heart and mind.