Which is more valuable, physical virginity or spiritual virginity?

Reading Tip: Whether a woman is a virgin or not has nothing to do with her worth. If a woman devotes her heart, her love, and her emotions to a man who is not worthy of love, and invisibly becomes the man's spiritual possession and a meaningless emotional slave, then she is devaluing her own value.

The root of the ideological phenomenon of advocating virginism

First, according to sociologists' analysis, the main reason why men strongly promote virginity is to control and manipulate women's reproductive function. Because men are afraid that if they marry a woman who has had sexual relations with other men, the children they will have in the future may not be their own flesh and blood. In that case, he would suffer a great loss. Not only would he have to spend money and effort to raise another man's children, but his own property would also be inherited by someone else's descendants in the future. However, today we have the scientific method of DNA to confirm blood relationships, so this theory of sociologists is no longer tenable.

Second, the reason why men value virginity is that men’s possessiveness plays tricks on their minds. On the one hand, men are proud that their wives have never been touched by other men; this mentality is no different from that of explorers who desperately want to be the first to conquer a certain peak in the Alps. Men, on the other hand, take pride in having more women, just as they desire more money, more land, and more authority.

Although feminism is an ideological system created by men in order to rule over women, women have obediently accepted this ideology of male autocratic rule and have spared no effort to help men spread their male dictatorship, using it to assimilate, teach, and restrain women, making all women live under the autocratic system of feminism.

Traditional concept of virginity

"Virginity is a woman's most precious possession."

"When a woman loses her virginity, it is a single misstep that will haunt her forever."

"Women who are not virgins are second-hand goods, and no one wants them!"

"If a woman sleeps with a man before marriage, the man will lose interest in her."

These words are probably heard by everyone. These secular views have a great influence on the thoughts of men and women, making men regard the hymen as the most valuable thing on a woman's body, and making women regard the hymen as a commodity.

However, today's plastic surgery can re-install a hymen for women who are not virgins, making it difficult to tell the real from the fake. In this situation, the hymen no longer has any meaning. It is just a lie that women use to deceive men, and men are happy to be deceived.

Now, let us first look at whether it is a blessing for a man to marry a virgin.

The answer is: Not necessarily. This answer is summarized from many examples.

Celebrity Examples

The most famous examples are Prince Charles of the United Kingdom and the late Princess Diana. Prince Charles was quite romantic before his marriage and had various girlfriends and mistresses. When he turned 30 and the responsibilities of being a crown prince began to weigh on him, it was time for him to produce an heir to the throne, which meant he should get married.

The British royal tradition is both ancient and conservative. The future queen must be a woman without a past (that is, a woman who is still a virgin). Among the candidates for the princess, Diana was the most suitable because she was only 19 and still a virgin. This was the decisive reason for her election.

However, after marriage, this marriage that seemed like a fairy tale in the eyes of the world slowly turned into a painful dance of death. Princess Diana grew from an innocent and pure girl to a sophisticated young woman, and her true character matured and took shape. She and Prince Charles competed for attention, confronted each other, and fought each other; a royal couple who should have been working together turned into a pair of enemies struggling for power.

In the pain of each other, the couple sought comfort outside of their marriage: Prince Charles returned to the arms of his old mistress; Princess Diana found several lovers outside the palace. Later, the couple moved the battlefield of their marriage to the media, where they openly competed and exposed their family's dirty laundry.

In the end, even the most conservative Queen of England couldn't stand it anymore. She thought the marriage was hopeless and ordered her son to divorce his wife.

Ordinary people examples

John is a devout Mormon. He insisted that women must marry as virgins, but men could have sex with many women. The reason he gave was that men were able to impregnate many women at the same time.

In fact, John's ideas are outdated. The birth control pill was introduced in the 1960s, giving women control over their own reproductive functions for the first time. She can decide for herself: whether to have a baby! With whom to have a baby! When to have a baby!

John was looking for a virgin until he was 36 years old. He married a chaste girl of 19. However, when his wife was 26 years old, she started having a lover outside. She confessed her regret to her friends: "John is my first man. I regret that I got married too early and didn't know what other men are like!"

What is a spiritual virgin?

The modern sexual revolution began in the 1960s. The sexual revolution is not so much a liberation of sex as it is about opening the prison door of the tyrannical system of feminism, releasing the minds of men and women and liberalizing them.

Liberal-minded men and women will have a 180-degree change in their views on virginity. They were able to understand that a woman's virginity is not physical but a state of mind. In other words, a woman who is no longer a virgin physically can still retain her virginity mentally.

There is a mythological story that can be used as an example. Diana, the virgin goddess in ancient Roman mythology, was not a physical virgin, but she would never let a man possess her heart and mind through sex; she would always remain a virgin spiritually. This is the virgin goddess in the minds of the ancient Romans.

The difference between spiritual virginity and physical virginity

There is a female writer in Denmark who is a slender, blonde and daring beauty. While studying law at university, she worked as a nude model and took nude photos to make money. After graduation, she traveled around the world to collect men. She tried men of different nationalities and races. She also wrote a book about her impressions of sex with men from different countries, which became famous for a while.

Recently, the female writer gave a theory about sex on television, which is briefly summarized as follows.

Throughout history, people around the world have suppressed women's sexual desire in thought and action.

For example, in the Middle Ages, when warriors went out to fight, their wives had to wear "chastity belts" to seal their vaginas.

From ancient times to the present, the custom of circumcision has been popular in certain African tribes (that is, when girls reach the period of sexual development, around the age of eleven or twelve, their clitoris is cut off; from then on, they cannot fully enjoy the pleasure of sexual intercourse and will not commit infidelity to their husbands).

Almost all societies are accustomed to calling women who enjoy sex sluts or whores, or else they are obscene women who are no different from prostitutes.

If all these mental and behavioral repressions are removed, women's sexual desire will be no different from men's. Women can also separate sex and love like men. A woman enjoys sex as much as a man, and she has sexual intercourse with a man; but she will not give her heart, her love, and her feelings to a man whom she does not love. She treasured all of this; and when the man she truly loved appeared in her life, she devoted her heart, her love, and her feelings to him without reservation.

This beautiful female writer is a typical spiritual virgin.

She married her first marriage, which took place after she was 40, to a successful Danish industrialist. This marriage lasted for more than ten years and remained harmonious and happy.

In my opinion, the reason why this extraordinary marriage has been able to remain happy for many years is that the man was once a Don Juan and the woman is a spiritual virgin. Their self-confidence and rich sexual experience made them deeply realize that sex without love is worthless, and only a woman's spiritual virginity is the most valuable.

Summarize

1. Spiritual virginity is more important than physical virginity.

2. A man marrying a virgin does not necessarily guarantee that his wife will remain faithful to him for life.

3. If a man pursues a woman, says he loves her and wants to marry her, but once he finds out that the woman is no longer a virgin, he immediately changes his mind and turns away, the love this man claims is not love at all, and he has a tendency to become a despotic husband.

4. Whether a woman is a virgin or not has nothing to do with her worth. If a woman devotes her heart, her love, and her emotions to a man who is not worthy of love, and invisibly becomes the man's spiritual possession and a meaningless emotional slave, then she is devaluing her own value.