10 things men and women do to move each other

Introduction: Who doesn't want to share a sense of security, love, trust and loyalty with his or her partner? The happiness of marriage depends to a large extent on each other's sense of security. Make "Thank you for your hard work, dear" your mantra. Whether you are coming home from get off work or repairing electrical appliances or faucets, don't forget to hug him and say "Thank you for your hard work, dear."

He's going to do this

1. Hug her and praise her every day, no limit on the number of times and occasions

If you are reluctant or shy to express your love because you feel you are already an old married couple, be careful, because she will begin to feel in her heart that your love for her is not as strong as before.

2. Provide necessary and effective suggestions on her dressing or makeup in a timely manner. When she asks you for your opinion, don't just say "it's okay" without looking up. This will make her feel that you don't value her. Think about it, aren't many quarrels caused by these trivial matters?

3. Know her size and don’t refuse to go shopping with her in a lingerie store

A man who accompanies a woman to a lingerie store is a good man, a man who buys lingerie for a woman is definitely of high quality, and a man who can buy the "right" lingerie is the best type.

4. If you want to meet up with a friend, be sure to tell her in advance and tell the truth. Whether you are going to meet college classmates (first love will also be there) or go to a bar with your buddies to watch hot dancing, it is necessary to ask for leave in advance. Otherwise, when the truth comes out, you will taste the bitter fruit of a woman feeling that she has been deceived.

5. After working overtime, do not leave work with female colleagues

Yes, office gossip must be prevented in advance. Avoid it if you can, and give the opportunity to those single men!

6. Keep your phone in “Welcome to Check” state at all times. If there is nothing to hide, of course "inspection is welcome". And the fact is: the more open you are, the less likely there will be secret investigations.

7. If you have a close female friend, make her your mutual friend

Of course, the best case scenario is that you will never need any other confidantes, and she is your ultimate and only confidante.

8. Use your hobbies to influence her, don’t just enjoy them yourself. Sharing happiness with others is worse than enjoying it alone, and the same applies to marriage. Whether you like playing ball, mountain climbing, adventure or even playing chess, calligraphy and painting, develop her into your "downline" and become a real-life "The Condor Heroes"!

9. Make your weekend a full-on family day

This is very important. At least on weekends, you belong completely to her and the family. "Family Day" is an important nerve center for building a sense of security. No matter how late you get home on weekdays, at least she will know that you will be with her all the time on weekends.

10. Care about her, including her emotions, health, friends, and all the trivial matters. All it takes is a little more care and patience. Caring doesn't have to be verbal or superficial. Frequent text messages or phone calls are enough to warm her heart.

She's going to do this

1. Help him fix his tie and smooth his unruly hair before going to work in the morning

Small details can also make a man feel warm and soft. When these details become a habit, he will feel more at ease and will be more dependent on you.

2. Buy him underwear that fits well and is of good quality. In this way, he will have a subtle good feeling every day: this is what my wife bought for me! Will he have the mind to cheat?

3. Remember every special day and celebrate it with him

This does not necessarily have to be done by men. A woman's way of celebrating will be more caring and romantic, and will make him feel more warmth and love.

4. Know his favorite dishes and be brave to learn and practice. Although the saying "to capture a man's stomach is to capture his heart" is a bit outdated, it really works. Knowing his taste, cooking his favorite dishes, or learning to cook his favorite dishes, even if you only do it occasionally, will make him feel your love deeply.

5. Use "Thank you for your hard work, dear" as a catchphrase

Whether you are coming home from get off work or repairing electrical appliances or faucets, don't forget to hug him and say "Thank you for your hard work, dear."

6. When he wants to be alone, walk away quietly. It is said that men all have a "cave period". When they have problems, they are used to being alone to quietly sort out their thoughts. At this time, don't force yourself to express your concern, just walk away quietly. He will be grateful for your consideration and understanding.

7. When you are sure that he is troubled, don’t rush to give him advice.

Unless he formally makes a request, you should not rush to solve his problems. Believe that he can handle it, otherwise, he will feel deeply hurt because you have clearly expressed that you do not trust his ability.

8. Don’t mind him plucking out your gray hair. In front of your lover, you don't need to pretend anything. You will spend your life together. You have given him all your gray hair. What else can you hide from him or not entrust to him?

9. Dress yourself up, dress him up

Let you always be a perfect couple in the eyes of your friends. You are not afraid to let him stay young and handsome forever, because you have not lost your confidence - how can a woman who has no confidence in herself give others a sense of security?

10. Love him and say it. The same applies regardless of the occasion or frequency. Don’t always ask him “Do you love me?” On the contrary, remember to express your love to him from time to time.