8 cruel ways for women to take revenge on men

Reading tips: From childhood to adulthood, I have never offended women easily. Firstly, arguing with women will only make myself look stingy, and secondly, I am afraid that women will hold a grudge against me. If a man makes a woman hate him, there is more than 80% chance that he will be in great trouble, because if a woman does not retaliate, it's fine, but if she does, she will be hysterical and overwhelming.

The first way: spend your money until you are broke

Women who adopt this method of revenge are usually somewhat intelligent and care about their reputation, but they find it difficult to control their desire for revenge after being hurt. Just imagine, if a man did something wrong to me, I really couldn't swallow this, and from then on I would feel disgusted no matter how I looked at him. If I hit him directly, I won't be able to win; if I go to his parents and leaders to make trouble, I will lose face; if I go out to find a man, I am traditional by nature and cannot take this step... After all the reasons, the best way to choose revenge is to spend a lot of his hard-earned money, so that he will be heartbroken and come to me for mercy. If he still refuses to show any mercy, then I will just spend as much money as he has, until he is bankrupt.

This kind of revenge is unlikely to last, except for the kind of woman who is truly sinister and vicious and hates you to the core. As long as the man is willing to swallow his pride and bravely admit his mistakes in front of her and reform, she is basically willing to give the man a chance. In fact, the fundamental purpose of spending your money is to let you spend money to buy a profound lesson. It is more like discipline than revenge.

The second way: "abuse" your family members

Most of those who adopt this form of revenge are cowardly, uneducated women who are unwilling to give in. Most of them have a strong, chauvinistic and even violent husband. Generally speaking, no matter what wrong or bad things their husband does at home or outside, they dare not say a word. But this does not mean that they are truly submissive in their hearts. As for finding men outside and making noises, they dare not do that. And the money is mostly completely controlled by men, so they take it out on the man's parents. When the man is at home, they behave like a caring person for the elderly, but once the man is not at home, they abuse the elderly and vent all the dissatisfaction in their hearts on the elderly. At the mildest, they use cold violence to make things difficult for the elderly and ignore them. At the worst, they let the elderly starve and work as farmhands at home. Some even beat the elderly.

This kind of revenge is the result of long-term oppression by men. On the one hand, women do not have the ability to resist and change the status quo, so they can only bear it silently. On the other hand, they lack a certain cultural literacy and cannot understand the basic principles of "filial piety is the first of all virtues" and "respect the old, and respect the old of others as well as your own." Instead, they simply transfer the harm they have suffered to the poor old people, which is extremely sad.

The third way: spanking and scolding children

Most of the women who resort to this form of revenge are those who are living in poverty and whose husbands do not care about the family's life. Most of them appear to be good wives and good daughters-in-law in the eyes of the outside world and in terms of integrity, but they are extremely dissatisfied with the reality in their hearts, especially when facing a man who abandons his family or even has affairs with other women. However, they hate him very much, but they are powerless to change the status quo.

She is very proud and will not cry outside; she is filial and strong-willed and will not abuse the elderly; she is family-oriented and will not spend money carelessly. The most pitiful ones at this time are the children. In their eyes, the children are their own and are the only people in the world whom they have the full power to beat, scold and discipline. They do not allow their children to disobey them in the slightest, otherwise they will easily think of their child's dead father who abandoned his family, and often cannot help but vent their anger on their children.

This kind of revenge is the result of the contradiction between a man who is not ambitious and a woman who is family-oriented and cares about her reputation. Such a woman can only be said to be unlucky for not meeting a responsible and family-loving man. But beating and scolding children is obviously wrong, and it is also a manifestation of psychological disorders. Although they often feel heartbroken afterwards, they still find it difficult to control themselves every time.

The fourth way: leaving the house

There are two types of women who use this method of revenge: one is young and likes to throw a tantrum like a child when she encounters setbacks in order to get her husband to compromise. The second type is that after many years of marriage, the couple has become extremely disappointed with their husband.

The first one is very easy to solve. The man can simply give in to the woman's wishes, bow his head to admit his mistake to her, and then tell a joke to make her laugh, and she will simply go home with you in a few days. The second one is not easy to solve. Most of them have heard too many men say sweet words after making mistakes. Every time he makes a mistake, they give him a chance to correct it, but he still makes the same mistake after the correction, and even gets worse. They no longer have any hope for such men. The best way is to avoid them. I can't afford to provoke you, but can I not avoid you? Don't you want to get a divorce? Fine, you live your life and I live mine. If you don't leave, I will leave. As long as I stay away from you, I will be happy and I will have hope for my life.

Fifth method: sexual punishment

The vast majority of women adopt this method of revenge, thinking: All men in the world are evil, always thinking about what's in the pot while eating from the bowl. Don't you always like and think about women outside? Then you might as well go find them and don't touch me in the future. Don't treat me as a free lunch. I'll starve you for two meals and see what happens. Moreover, it is disgusting to think of a man touching her body after touching other women, so refusing to avoid it becomes a natural reaction.

The sixth way: reputation ruins your reputation

Women who choose this method of revenge usually understand men very well and are not very concerned about their reputation. They think: Don’t you men care about your reputation? Then I will make you lose face completely; don’t you men care about your career? If you offend me, you can forget about your career, let’s see who can win.

This kind of revenge may seem smart and that women understand men, but it is actually extremely stupid. Have they ever thought that when the men lose face, they will also lose face, and when the men's careers are frustrated and they have no source of income, they will also be left with nothing? Thinking rationally, this way of revenge is obviously extreme. Not only can it not solve the problem, but it can only make the problem worse. Unless it is absolutely necessary, this way of revenge should never be used.

The seventh way: cheating on you and making you wear more green hats

Most women who take this kind of revenge are because their husbands have affairs with other women. They think: Can your husband be unfaithful? In modern society, men and women are equal. Since you are unfaithful to me, I will be unfaithful to you. There are a lot of men who want me out there. Don't you always play with other people's wives? Then let you have a taste of what it feels like to have others play with your wife. Let's see who can play better.

This kind of revenge will not solve the problem in any way. There are only two ways for men to react to this kind of revenge from women: one is to let it go, thinking I am also having fun out there and I have no feelings for you anymore, so just let it go. Both sides should not interfere with each other and live in peace; the other is to be hysterical and think, you don't want to live anymore, how dare you cheat on me? In this case, the man's pitiful self-esteem is gone, and he is very likely to take more extreme measures, and if he is not careful, both he and the woman will suffer.

The eighth method: First cry, then make a scene, then hang yourself, threatening to commit suicide

Women who use this method of revenge are mostly strong-willed and aggressive, but at the same time lonely and helpless. They thought: You are a heartless, treacherous guy, have you forgotten the vows you made to me? I gave you the most youthful, beautiful and best years of my life, and you have a woman outside. Sooner or later you will kick me away. Rather than letting myself be abandoned by you and become penniless, I might as well die. If I die, you won't have a good life. Just wait and see how people talk about you and which woman dares to follow you...

This kind of revenge by a woman may be able to suppress a man temporarily, but she cannot control him for a lifetime. Since the man has made up his mind to leave, just let nature take its course. The right way is to seek more legal protection and compensation for yourself. Such a fuss will not only make the man more afraid of you and stay away from you, but it will also hurt yourself. It is not worth it to die for a man who no longer loves you, no longer feels sorry for you, and has no sense of responsibility.

The most important thing for a woman is to treat herself well. Don't try to exchange your life or harm your body for a man's kindness and return. Only when you are truly strong inside, financially independent, and perfect in cultivation, can you keep your man and let him know that you can still live a carefree and happy life without him. Only in this way will your man not leave you.

Finally, I hope that my frankness and sincerity will not make people think that I am a male chauvinist who looks down on women. If I offend many women and provoke retaliation, I will be in constant fear.