7 signs of a man's mental derailment

1. Treat the other person's relatives and friends coldly, and sometimes even want to hide away

A man's emotional infidelity does not involve actual sex like physical infidelity, but emotional infidelity is a form of spiritual transference. Therefore, in real life, one no longer regards the other half of the marriage as the closest person. Of course, one will want to keep a distance from the other party’s relatives and friends, and may even have no enthusiasm or mood for them, and want to avoid them as much as possible.

2. Feeling annoyed for no apparent reason and keeping people at a distance

Other signs of a man's mental infidelity are that he inexplicably keeps people at a distance, has a crush on someone else, and often focuses on other people. He may find married life annoying or boring, and feel that his current partner is a burden and unnecessary. Therefore, when the other party asks you something or wants to take the initiative to get intimate, you will often be rejected. Therefore, he seems to be indifferent to the other person's emotional reactions. If you are happy, he is unhappy; if you are sad, he is indifferent.

3. Often find excuses not to go home and prefer to be alone at home

When a man is mentally unfaithful, he will feel that going home is a burden and boring, so he often makes excuses not to go home, such as having parties with various friends or having company social events. Even when he gets home, he always watches TV alone or plays on the computer after dinner. Although they are both free, they are not willing to find something to do with each other to pass the time. Therefore, for couples who encounter such a situation, there is a potential crisis in their marriage life.

4. Compare the other person with others and find nothing good about the other person

In life or work, we are afraid of being compared with others, and this is especially true in marriage. If a man always complains about his partner for trivial matters, sometimes finds fault on purpose, and always compares his partner with others, then such marriage life will only become more and more boring.

5. You can’t remember the other person’s birthday and your gifts are just perfunctory.

If a man is mentally unfaithful, he will definitely not care that much about the other person's affairs. For example, he may have a vague memory of the other person's birthday, or even forget the other person's birthday, or the birthday gift he gives may be obviously bought perfunctorily. Therefore, even if a man who has mentally cheated wants to maintain the passion in his marriage, it is impossible to do so.

6. You often have little secrets in your heart and are unwilling to share them with others.

The party who has mentally cheated often hides some personal thoughts in his heart and is unwilling to share them with the other party. They are accustomed to creating such a private space in their hearts, and would rather store their thoughts and let them ferment than show them to their partner.

7. Not willing to give in to the other party, and ignoring them when they get angry

He is very reluctant to give in to the other party. Once he gets angry, even if the other party is crying out of grievance, he is too lazy to give in. Instead, he throws the other party aside and goes about his own business or finds entertainment. In daily life, their attitude is neither hot nor cold, and they rarely take the initiative to be intimate with the other party. After a quarrel, they often fall into a long cold war.