What kind of man is useful in bed?

Do you know the feeling of orgasm?

Only after you have dated so many people will you realize that it is a good feeling that you can’t find easily. Every time I say to the man in bed: "If you can make me orgasm, I will marry you." It sounds like a joke, but it can give a man the motivation to give it a try.

It is not easy to have an orgasm, and it is what many girls long for. Girls are familiar with their bodies, so they can rely on their own hands to reach orgasm. Of course, I, the author, am no exception. However, after each peak fades away, the emptiness that follows makes me urgently want to find a man, a man who can make me reach orgasm.

I believe most women have experienced this: when they are finally about to achieve their goal, their man takes the lead. It's like when you want to eat noodles, the waiter gives you a spoon, or when you find out that all six numbers in the lottery are correct, but the date is last week.

Climax? It's like the short-lived happiness of finding chopsticks to eat noodles. Climax? It's a one in a billion chance to experience the joy of long-term wealth.

My orgasmic experience? Ha! It is definitely rare, which sometimes makes me wonder if we women who have difficulty orgasming can only rely on our slender fingers or disguised tools to experience the good taste of heaven most of the time?

Women are not like wolves in their thirties and tigers in their forties. That is because most men only care about their own enjoyment and don't care about women's life or death, which makes them feel helpless.

Using various posture techniques? Believe me, that will only increase the pain of each other and quickly consume each other's sexual interest. Can you imagine the pain of a rod that can fill your barren hole, but repeatedly tilling it back and forth, but not producing any results? To put it bluntly, can you accept the embarrassing situation of having feces stuck in the anus and unable to come out, and it is useless to clamp it back?

A long foreplay is necessary, but it cannot be dragged on. If a TV series is broadcast for a long time, the audience will shed tears repeatedly, which will become boring, right? We are even familiar with the next expression and the next line, but we can never dominate them, just like we cannot be directors, and men with Shazhuism cannot let women ride on their heads and act like arrogant queens.

But how can we make the foreplay beautifully enter the main play?

I am not here to teach you the techniques of making love, or how to handle a woman's unpredictable personality. One thing that every article or talk show will definitely talk about is that one must know how to caress a woman, not only caress her body, but also caress her mood. Yes, the focus is very blurred. Believe me, most of the words that a woman says to praise a man in bed are false, such as "You are so strong," "I'm almost there," "You are number one," etc. These are all beautiful lies woven by women who know how to seize on men's arrogance.

Men, don't blame us for being fake. If we don't use some sweet words, how can you keep working hard? Although your effectiveness may not last long...

All conceivable postures or role-playing, those external auxiliary tools, only enhance the pleasure of sex, but reaching climax? You can't even find it on Yahoo Search, it's so subtle and delicate.

A woman's desires are unfathomable. Women are also minefields. You don't know when you will touch the part of her that she desires most, because some women are even ashamed to express their strong desires. You are not sure where she will be sensitive, or when you think you can attack, you may incur her anger and completely lose your sexual interest.

In a sexually open generation, women still have conservative views on sex

While we are observing a man's character, we also have time to hesitate about the timing of climax, or think about whether there is a future for each other after enjoying the pleasure. No matter how open and bold a woman is, there are only a few people in the world who can be as uninhibited as Samantha in Sex and the City. What's more, that is just a fictional character.

Women know how to control themselves and how to make themselves valuable, but women have a set of masks that they cannot take off even after taking off their outer clothes and revealing their naked bodies.

How can I make myself feel comfortable revealing myself to another person? After experiencing an embarrassing orgasm, can I easily confess?

Do men know how jealous and disappointed women are when they see men reaching climax first, with a very satisfied expression, as if they have tasted a delicious taste that they will never taste again? What makes women jealous is that it takes a long time for women to experience it, and sometimes they even have to grit their teeth and endure the pain, risking skin breakage and bleeding, but they may not necessarily get short-term happiness; on the contrary, what makes women disappointed is that men are such animals that are easily satisfied? We can't help but ask, is it that men's satisfaction limit is too low, or is it that women's desire is too high?

I once met a man who was very considerate from foreplay to the main act. He was in good condition, good posture, and a good atmosphere. His hard-working and gentle attitude made me believe that the climax I had lost was about to come. However, when I really got the climax and was enjoying it, the man could not get hard. He said he had been hard for too long. His momentum was rising, and while he was sprinting for the other party, it was like he had finally broken zero. The sense of accomplishment and relaxation that followed made him and his little brother relax. One point is one point. Unfortunately, he was too lazy to even be the first.

If you make me cum, I'll marry you

Even if this sounds like a joke, it is also a good way to make both parties reach sexual arousal. The man may be afraid to speak up when it comes out, but it can make a man have the courage to never give in.

Yes, making a woman orgasm is the dream of many men. When a woman is willing to submit to you, men driven by vanity, it is as if you have conquered the world.

Even if I ever meet a man who can make me orgasm successfully, I will not really agree to marry him. This is not a promise, nor is it false, because after a man meets my requirements, he is usually exhausted, so how can he remember what I said before?

Because a woman's orgasm requires several times more effort than hard work, men who care about their reputation will usually try hard, not only to prove their great skills, but also to prove their loyalty to love. But after such an overtime battle, it is no wonder that men fall asleep after they are done.

However, I don’t care whether a man feels disappointed after hitting a snag. Being sympathetic to women’s hard work doesn’t just start after marriage, pregnancy and childbirth. Even when men are out, they have many opportunities to meet women who can make you climax, even one after another. But there is an inexplicable psychological feeling that makes men want to try to conquer them.

Can you make the woman around you orgasm?

Not every woman you encounter in your life has the same personality. While you keep exploring and changing your targets, the most common failure you have tried should be failure in reaching their climax, right?

A woman won't say you are useless in bed, but when she says you are useless outside of bed, besides referring to your performance at work, she is mostly hinting that your performance in bed is not good enough.

You don't need rich experience or a lot of reference data. Treating each other considerately is the best way. Maybe a man is disappointed that he can't score, but he can get a kiss from a woman who is considerate of his hard work. Let's think about it this way. Orgasm is a deadly poison that consumes physical strength and makes the whole body exhausted. Although it is addictive, is it too much to use it every time? Although men can orgasm almost every time, let me ask men, you don't want to have it every day, right?

What women want is very simple yet abstract. Although orgasm is something that can be encountered but not sought, a woman who thinks in a straight line will first feel and need the most whether a man is sincere in his feelings for her. We don't want your fancy performance in bed, nor do we necessarily want you to care about her every day. This may sound like the most humble request and may seem unreasonable to a man, but it is the most basic need of a woman, that is, when I need you, you can stand up for me.

Here I want to say to my next possible man, I don’t have to marry you, but if you can make me orgasm, I will definitely love you longer.