These six types of women make men unbearable

Not crying, not making a fuss, not telling, does not mean that men do not suffer, nor does it mean that women will not make men suffer! If a man meets a woman with the following six "qualities", it is enough to make him suffer for the rest of his life!

1. Trying every possible means to change a man

The habits a person develops over 20 or even 30 years from birth to meeting his or her other half will not change because of a lover who appears halfway. Because those decades have already been deeply rooted and integrated into the bones. Trying to change the other person by all means is futile and foolish.

Even if he makes some changes to love you, it is only superficial and his true colors will be revealed soon. Regardless of whether they are men or women, they all hate trying to change their significant other. Of course, many people would say that women are not like this, and that women can make necessary sacrifices and contributions for their partners. I admit this, but what women change are only some things that are easy to change. What is really in their bones cannot be changed so easily!

What's more, men care most about their face. The more you want to change him, the more he will resist. In other words, you don't love him as a person, but the changed him. So, if a man has a woman who has been trying her best to change herself, how can he not suffer for the rest of his life?

2. No ego at all

Every man likes a woman who is as petite and cuddly as a little bird. However, in today's society, both men and women face particularly great pressure in life. In particular, today's customs and habits still tend to require men to buy a house when they get married. The pressure on men is even greater than that on women.

You occasionally act like a little bird, which is still very enjoyable for men, but you have completely lost yourself, and you are completely dependent on men. You wait for men to give you advice and take care of everything. You don't have any opinions of your own, and you get confused at the slightest thing. Any man who serves you like this for his whole life will be exhausted or miserable!

3. No principles or bottom line

In ancient times, even if a man did not love a woman who had no principles of her own, he would still marry her and make her a good wife and mother to help him manage his "backyard". Because in the past society, it was normal for a man to have several women. Women with principles and bottom lines all had dignity. How could they tolerate other women sharing this man with them?

If you cannot tolerate other women entering your home, you are not a good wife and mother. If you can't be a good wife and mother, your husband will naturally divorce you and send you home. In that era, such things would drive women to death! However, the society we live in now requires a woman to have her own principles and bottom line.

A woman without principles and bottom line must be a woman who does not take dignity seriously and a woman without self. Do you think it would be miserable for a man to live with such a woman for a lifetime?

4. Rejection of reality

Although living in today's society, we cannot fully expose our true self. But in front of the person next to you, you have to pretend to be hypocritical and keep your true self to keep the other person guessing. It only means that you don't love him. If you live together for a lifetime, and after a hard day's work, he has to guess about you like a riddle when he comes home, and he has to keep a certain distance from you with caution at all times, wouldn't that be tiring?

5. Like to "self-abuse"

There is a kind of woman who, if she feels a little wronged, will not eat or drink, or make a big fuss, or lie in bed all day without washing her face, and be angry by herself! If you coax her, she will still say angrily, "Don't pay attention to me, I'm annoyed!" If you ignore her, she will say, "You don't care about her anymore, you don't love her anymore!"

Others, when they have been wronged or are unhappy in their marriage, would burn their wrists and other parts of their bodies with cigarette butts, or drink so much that they talk nonsense and their tongues become bent. Worse still, some even run away from home or attempt suicide. Gaile Lok, wife of Leon Lai, one of the Four Heavenly Kings, is a typical "self-abuse" person. Such a woman may make you fall in love with her, but she will also drag you to death!

6. Can’t get rid of the control of parents

I met an emotional counselor last night. From what she said, I could see that one of the reasons for her unhappy marriage was that the man listened too much to his parents. Whatever his parents said was the truth. Even when they would get married and what to buy for the wedding supplies were all decided by his parents. The man had no power to object, and the woman had no say at all.

How can such a man give a woman a happy marriage? How can a woman not be bullied after marrying him?

On the other hand, if the girl is also controlled by her parents in everything and obeys their words. It would be hard for a man to marry a woman like this!

Even if they don't live with their parents-in-law, such strong parents-in-law will control the lives of their daughters and sons-in-law at any time. As a man who values ​​face and dignity more than life, he has a shadow of his parents around him and his marriage life is controlled by his parents-in-law. It is conceivable how painful it must be!