Men care about you because they care about sexual performance

Introduction: Compared with women, men are not overly picky about sex. But there are still some details that you must pay attention to first. Some details are often ignored by women, but they are precisely the core points that are enough to make men crazy about you. What do men care about most in bed? The following seven matters are the key points that you cannot ignore.

First expectation: I hope she also has a sense of humor

On this issue, men are divided into two camps, one group believes that it is very important, and the other group completely ignores it. The former believes that a humorous atmosphere can help ease awkward situations and that a little joke can spark love. It's not a bad thing to be a little clumsy in bed sometimes. Let's laugh together, not at you or me.

How to define a man's sense of humor? He can act in an ironic way, can get along well with women, and has masculine charm. Being with such a person is always a pleasant sexual partnership.

The latter believes that sex is a work (or a dramatic event). For him, sex is a mood, and mood is a very important event, similar to a business behavior. He seldom spoke, whether in bed or out of it. In the midst of the passionate lovemaking in a drama, his behavior reminds you of a general performing his duties. So, as a woman, you tell him that there is a difference and you have to show your sense of humor.

Second expectation: I hope she has an orgasm

Some information shows that if a man finds that he cannot bring much pleasure to a woman, he will feel sad. Even if he could enjoy a sumptuous banquet and watch wonderful football, he would not feel happy. As a woman, your enthusiasm and visible pleasure are the most essential things.

But if a man doesn't understand or doesn't know how to take advantage of this, you will still be very depressed. You're going to say something like, everything you do is so wonderful, I don't think I can wait until nightfall. This will change the awkward situation and guide him to where you want to go.

Third expectation: I hope she wears something sexy in bed

Who cares what she wears? It's always a secondary issue. A man said, and he expressed what most men are thinking. But whether the clothing is sexy can often affect how long the orgasm lasts. Duration is often a concern for men. If men are asked: Do you like it when you undress her if she's wearing something sexily? Most admit that they do.

A man who didn't care much replied: It's fine with me either way, as long as she doesn't wear too much. There are indeed big differences of opinion on this issue, but it cannot be denied that clothing is a factor that cannot be ignored. Some men will become excited when looking at underwear and stockings.

Fourth expectation: I hope she has a normal sexual attitude

This factor is very important. Sometimes men can be pleasantly surprised to find that women can be as crazy about sex as I am. Some women even have it harder than men. Some ladies said: Oh my God, I think about doing this all day long. She said that she had this impulse when she walked into the house and stepped on the carpet. Once she really did this, she would be infinitely affectionate, making the man passionate, and every move made the man feel just right.

A serious and stern-faced woman is definitely not good for sex, and men don't want to see a woman who is too unrestrained and crazy. Men think it is best for women to have a healthy and normal sexual attitude. The man said, I hope she can have sex with me with a little humanity, but it’s not entirely like that. Therefore, if a man is afraid of having sex, the reason is more likely to be the woman's attitude rather than the man's physiological problems.

Fifth expectation: I hope she won’t be silent in bed

Nothing can increase passion more than expressing yourself properly in bed. Even a faint hissing sound can be more arousing than making love in silence. Your words must not be full of lust, you must not show off your eloquence at this time, and you must not make particularly loud noises, as long as it can be heard. Never say words like please in bed. Many men say that a woman's voice makes them feel that sex is so wonderful that it makes them feel ecstatic and reach the limit of pleasure at the critical moment. Even if she only made vague sounds with the tip of her tongue.

In non-silent sex, what words do men want to hear most? Through some guided questions and answers, some men said: Give me direction. Giving direction doesn't necessarily mean saying: Oh, here, here. Instead, encourage Him to move forward within you when the time is right. It's like being on the road, if you don't ask for directions, it's easy to get lost. It is a very scary thing to be in bed without a sense of direction.

The second type of sound a man wants to hear in bed is your screams or moans. For example, love me now and other affectionate words. What’s interesting is that using public cultural terms like “we attract each other” is a big taboo. What men need is not polite compliments, but a more practical trigger. Women, seize this.

Sixth expectation: I hope she can feel comfortable

First, your feeling of comfort will increase your sexual desire with him. Women need to relax and enjoy it as a delicacy, which is more beneficial than worrying about your performance.

Second, your own comfort means we all feel comfortable. Focusing too much on your flaws inevitably leads to focusing on your own body rather than ours. Covering ourselves under the covers will only make us both anxious about our sexuality, which will in turn affect the effectiveness of lovemaking. So, don't worry about whether you look perfect in bed. In fact, it doesn't matter whether you turn off the lights or not.

Compared to women, men are not overly picky about sex. But there are still some details that you must pay attention to first, for example: what kind of actions can make him give you another orgasm? If you take the initiative in sex, will anything change? Some details are often overlooked by women, but they are precisely the core points that are enough to make a man crazy about you.

Seventh expectation: I hope she can be passionate about me

Hopefully she seems to be totally devoted to me and actually enjoys what I do. Some men don't seem to care much about sex with or without sound. They think that the degree of your enthusiasm and passion for him is crucial. Yes, men all want women to be crazy about them. He would rather believe that it was him who made you wet, who made you moan, rather than anything else on your own?

The effects of sexual fantasies or other situations. As a man, he wants to know what he can do to bring out the best in you. Sometimes even a seemingly insignificant word from you can make your sex life go smoothly.

Most men don't want to admit it, but on some issues, even some macho guys will weigh: Can I really please my partner in bed? However, sometimes the key to the problem is that women can and may pretend to twist, push and pull during sex, so even the most confident men cannot be sure whether you really like his way of making love. In fact, the more a woman can be passionate about a man's vigorous energy, the more she can reach the limit of pleasure under the guidance of a man.