What do married women think?

When a relationship becomes stable, women often stay with a man because of their dependence on security and fear of loneliness. So cheating gives women a chance to think: "Do I need passion and sex so much? Can they really replace my current life?" But in many cases, the brain's feedback answer is: "Indeed, I still prefer my current life, but at least I have proved that I am still capable of creating and enjoying passion."

Get back the feeling of first love

In a dull life, boring days, what else can make a woman who is tired of daily life think of herself as a princess in a fairy tale again, except finding a lover? A lover makes a woman feel in love all the time, and will never let her cook or wash dishes. A lover will always ask, "Baby, what do you want to eat?" But after get off work, the husband always has a cigarette in his mouth, rests his smelly sweaty feet on the coffee table, lazily flips through the newspaper and watches TV, and yells from time to time, "Is the meal ready? I'm hungry!"

After marriage, most women have to go out to work to support the family. When they return home, they have countless housework to do and also have to educate the children. They often bear greater pressure than men. So everyone wants to find the feeling of being cared for and pampered. What's more, women face more temptations in their lives than men. Any woman who is even slightly pretty should have experienced countless times of being entangled by men from childhood to adulthood and from before marriage to after marriage. By being with a man outside of marriage, a woman can regain the feeling of first love.

Enjoy the romantic feeling

Women need understanding and support, but husbands are not always the best candidates. The love between husband and wife often fades away in real life. There is little time for communication and a lack of a calm atmosphere. Women often feel dissatisfied with their husbands: their husbands lack humor, are not diligent enough, and are not considerate enough. It is really annoying, but who can they talk to? Who can understand the troubles in work and life?

Therefore, women need to cheat and find a lover to confide in. The lover and she are not under the same roof and do not have common conflicts, but they can tolerate each other and communicate. A woman's troubled lover will not find you annoying, nor will he scold you for having nothing to do all day. He will only comfort you softly... When a woman takes her husband to admire the moon on a full moon night, her husband will impatiently say, "What's so great about the moon? You're crazy!"

At this time, the lover sent a message: "Baby, the moonlight tonight is like water, I miss you..." When a woman buys a bouquet of roses and spends a lot of effort to prepare a candlelight dinner on the wedding anniversary, the husband will stare at her and say: "Why spend this money? You are an old couple, and you just spend money recklessly all day long!"

No matter how much effort a woman puts into giving her husband a surprise, all she gets in return is a disappointment. But as for the lover, he will be overjoyed when he sees the gifts given by the woman, and will always say, "Baby, you're so nice!" and then give him a lingering kiss and a passionate hug.

Cheating for revenge

If desperation pushes you off track, before you cheat you should at least make sure of one thing: you really don't want him anymore, and you are completely destroying the relationship between you and him. Compared to women, men are much less forgiving of their girlfriends' cheating, and their reactions are usually very intense. Once a man confirms that he has been betrayed, the wound in his heart is much more stubborn than that of a woman. If he really finds out, you must not say, "I will never do this again." Instead, say, "I really fell in love with him because he loves me more than you do."

Cheating because life is too boring

When a relationship becomes stable, women often stay with a man because of their dependence on security and fear of loneliness. So cheating gives women a chance to think: "Do I need passion and sex so much? Can they really replace my current life?" But in many cases, the brain's feedback answer is: "Indeed, I still prefer my current life, but at least I have proved that I am still capable of creating and enjoying passion."

One night stand, no big deal

Researchers from an American sexology group all agree that as long as women are sure that 1ye will not bring negative consequences, there is no reason for them to deprive themselves of this pleasure. But how can we be sure that there will be no negative consequences? This is not something every woman can do. In addition to soft factors such as intuition, experience, and judgment, American experts have proposed two principles that must be followed: control the frequency so that "one night" remains in the category of "extremely special cases"; and forget about it immediately afterwards.

Cheating to boost self-confidence

In order to prove her independence and charm, a young woman may cheat on her boyfriend even if she already has a boyfriend, in order to enhance her self-confidence - a narcissistic self-confidence.

This type of cheating usually happens when she loves her boyfriend very much but lacks the ability to control the situation in the relationship. Experts warn us that when we feel bad in our relationship, we should look for the reasons within the relationship. Cheating cannot solve any real problems.

I cheated because that man was really attractive to me.

Even though we know we shouldn’t, the attraction between the sexes is clearly stronger than most of us can control. In fact, women have the right to make mistakes. If you are very sure that your past choices were wrong and now "that person" is what you really want, why not? If this is not the case, and you are just driven by curiosity to approach him, act according to the principle of "1ye love".

Cheating to satisfy vanity

Men can go to the massage parlor, sing in the KTV with their arms around their offspring, and stay out all night. Women are also human beings. They have to make more sacrifices than men, such as bearing children, supporting their husbands and educating their children. Why can't women cheat? Why should women endure humiliation, live cleanly, and do things carefully?

Times have changed. Women's vanity must be satisfied and they no longer want to revolve around the stove, men and children. If you can find a lover, he will accompany you to go shopping for a whole day, looking at the dazzling array of goods, and will keep saying: "Baby, this dress is so beautiful, it will look great on you, try it on?" "Baby, this handbag goes well with your black dress, buy it?"

But your husband, even if he reluctantly accompanies you shopping, is always absent-minded. When you stop in front of high-end clothes, he will make an excuse to walk away: "I'm going outside to smoke a cigarette!" When you try on a beautiful dress and ask him to be your consultant, he will say: "You have so many clothes in your closet, why are you still buying them?"