Pleasure is so wonderful that you can't stop experiencing it

How does a woman feel when she reaches orgasm? Few people talk about this feeling, so even fewer people know about the various physical conditions during their orgasm, so let us popularize this knowledge.

When sexual pleasure reaches a certain level, "ejaculation" will occur

Masters, Johnson and other American obstetricians and gynecologists and authorities on modern sex medicine have spent more than a decade observing and studying the sexual intercourse process of numerous volunteers in a sex medicine laboratory using advanced instruments and video equipment.

Scientific and objective records show that when a woman reaches orgasm, her vagina becomes congested and swollen to the late stage, and the vaginal smooth muscles undergo 3-6 rhythmic contractions. The perineum and many muscle groups throughout the body also experience several uncontrollable spasmodic contractions at the same time, and the feeling of fullness in the vagina instantly radiates to the whole body.

With the high degree of sexual pleasure, consciousness becomes blurred, some women may make soft calls, and very few women may experience "ejaculation". This process lasts only about 10 seconds; after that, a feeling of tired sexual satisfaction arises.

What needs to be explained is the phenomenon of female "ejaculation". From the experimental video, it was observed that the so-called "semen" is mucus ejected from the urethra, but laboratory tests have confirmed that it is definitely not urine, and of course it is different from male semen, but is similar to the secretions of the urethral glands.

Where is her "sperm" stored?

What still puzzles medical scientists is that women do not have the same seminal vesicles as men do to store semen, so where is their "semen" stored?

The current hypothesis is that during sexual response, the secretions of the urethral glands are concentrated in the middle and posterior urethra. During orgasm, with the contraction of the perineal muscles and urethral smooth muscles and the relaxation of the external urethral sphincter, women with less secretions will only flow out of the urethral opening, while women with extremely large secretions will spray out. It may be more appropriate to call this situation "female orgasm ejaculation."

Most Chinese women have difficulty reaching orgasm

This is probably the orgasm of Chinese women. Orgasmic dysfunction is a functional disorder in which it is difficult to achieve orgasm during most or even all sexual intercourse. A large number of women have orgasm disorders, and some have never experienced an orgasm in their entire lives. This is truly a great regret in the lives of couples.

There are many reasons for female orgasm disorders. The various factors that cause sexual indifference mentioned above can also cause orgasm disorders. Among them, the lack of an independent, safe, and comfortable sexual environment, negative psychological factors such as tension, anxiety, fear, and inferiority during sexual intercourse, insufficient sexual knowledge and poor sexual skills, sexual aversion, and sexual pain are more realistic.

How to make her orgasm

Generally speaking, men reach orgasm at the same time as ejaculation, but it is not easy for women to reach orgasm. First of all, you should satisfy her emotional needs, that is, mutual love; secondly, it is best to create a romantic atmosphere, don't be stingy with sweet words of love, and avoid having sex when she is in a bad mood;

Furthermore, there must be a certain amount of time for caressing, hugging, and kissing before insertion, usually not less than 10 minutes. Touching the sexual sensitive areas can often increase the woman's sexual excitement, promote her to enter the plateau period before orgasm, which will significantly increase vaginal exudation and relaxation, and help reduce discomfort during sexual intercourse.

And most importantly, the woman must eliminate distracting thoughts and not think about things that are not related to sex, such as household chores and work issues. She should focus all her attention on the sensations of her vagina and other sexually sensitive areas, savor the pleasure brought by sexual intercourse, and actively respond to the man's movements, hug the man, and, if necessary, supplement with sexual fantasies, to achieve an orgasm of endless bliss.

To treat female orgasmic disorder, we must first solve the mental factors that cause sexual indifference listed in the previous article, learn more about sex knowledge and the art of sex, establish a harmonious relationship between husband and wife, create an environment where they can have sex with peace of mind and comfort, and then combine it with psychological counseling from specialists, female rehabilitation device treatment, drug regulation and acupoint massage, and adopt effective Western family behavioral therapy. Most female orgasmic disorders can improve or be cured.

Change your mindset and learn to enjoy "sexual happiness"

Some women are used to having sex without orgasm and they don't care about it anymore; some wives only want to satisfy their husbands or regard sex as a family obligation, but do not pursue good feelings in their married life, which is very regrettable.

Just think about it, when you are hungry, you have to eat salted rice, three dishes and a soup. Since you have to eat everything, why not have something delicious when conditions permit?

In years of famine, people were quite satisfied to have rice mixed with salt water. But now, when we are living at a quasi-well-off level, we should try some delicious food that is both delicious and tasty. There is something in common between health care and improving eating standards. The reason why sexual health has become a hot topic in modern metropolises is that it is closely related to health and longevity.

Fifty percent of married women say that they have never experienced a real orgasm. This is just the result of a questionnaire survey. If we communicate face to face with women who think they have experienced orgasms, we will find that what they think of as orgasms are far from real orgasms. The fact is, in our society, many women don't understand what a true orgasm feels like.

One woman, who had been married for seven years, said she could have two or even three orgasms during each sexual intercourse. However, further conversation revealed that this woman who was so confident in the quality of her sex life actually regarded men's ejaculation as her "orgasm." When the man falls down and gets an erection again, it is her "orgasm experience" again.

The saddest thing is that women are accustomed to having sex without orgasm and take it for granted. Men who originally care little about women's feelings during sexual intercourse will not be asked to make any demands, and they will not consciously check their attitudes during sexual intercourse.

Along with this ignorance and lack of desire for orgasm is often a feeling of boredom in sex life. And if the man is "not satisfactory to women". The aversion to sex will take the opportunity to invade a woman's heart. Furthermore, sexual frigidity will appear, and a harmonious and pleasant sex life will become a fantasy.