It's very dirty and realistic. Many women die in the second one. If you don't believe it, see for yourself.

1. Believe it or not, 9 out of 10 men around you are secretly fantasizing about you, and 8 of them are eyeing your body.

2. Believe it or not, it is very dangerous to be with a man you are not familiar with. There are four places you cannot go alone - his home, his office, his car, and the hotel he rents. He doesn't want to do that, does he really want to invite you for tea?

3. Believe it or not, if being with him brings you more pain than happiness, then you should break up decisively. If you think he is not right for you, just tell him to get lost.

4. Believe that once he holds your hand, the next step is to kiss you, and the next step is to go to bed with you.

5. Believe that there is no best man in this world, only men who are more suitable for you.

6. Believe that a woman will never have an affair with only one man.

7. Believe it or not, a woman who swears a lot may be a fierce woman, and a pure and lovely woman may be a slut.

8. Believe that a woman’s kindness is not reflected in her love for flowers, plants or small animals, but in whether she can give up her seat to the elderly on the bus.

9. Believe that the women who can stay with you until the end and can go through the ups and downs with you are often the women you ignore.

10. Believe that behind every powerful woman there is a powerful mother.

11. Believe that a greedy woman always demands to be given happiness instead of working with you to create happiness.

12. Believe that the thicker a woman’s makeup is, the shallower her heart is.

13. Believe that there is no woman who can only be a lover, there is only a lover who cannot be a wife.

14. Believe it or not, a woman who can be won over in three days will eventually become a mistress.

15. Believe that the concentration of a woman's tears is inversely proportional to its flow rate.

16. Believe that the best way to take revenge on a heartless woman is not to say bad things to her, but to work hard to make yourself better, so that she will regret it for the rest of her life.

17. Believe that before having children, a woman always loves herself the most.

18. Believe it or not, women who drink and smoke must often interact with men.

19. Believe that non-virgin girls can have a boyfriend, because everyone has a story.

20. Believe it or not, if a woman suddenly changes her hairstyle, she may have been abandoned.

21. Believe it or not, the goddess in your heart may be someone else’s slave.

22. Believe it or not, sometimes, some leftover women who are talking about marriage are not as good as prostitutes who are talking about sex and price.

There are so many things you shouldn't do.

1. Don’t read Qiong Yao’s books. Those beautiful love stories are all utopia. Be realistic and cherish the person in front of you.

2. Don’t think that all men like delicate and crying women. Only Jia Baoyu in the Grand View Garden loves Lin Daiyu.

3. Don’t tell him not to pick wild flowers on the roadside - when he is on a business trip, instead, give him condoms and remind him not to bring the disease home.

4. Don’t confront others head-on. When he is feeling frustrated or angry, remember that softness can overcome hardness. Don't force him to stay away from you.

5. Don't tell him about your sexual history. Even if you have slept with a thousand men, insist that there was only one.

6. Don’t think that he hurt you. How could he hurt you without you giving him a chance?

7. Don’t think that by giving yourself to him you are letting him defile your body. The enjoyment comes from each other, not to mention, when you are having sex, he is the one who works hard, and you are the one who enjoys it.

8. Don’t ask him why he left you or why you broke up. When he loves you, no reason is a reason, and the same is true when he doesn't love you.

9. Don’t wait for him to turn back, don’t let him trample on your self-esteem. Raise your head and leave with a dignified look.

10. Don’t lose yourself for him. Just do what you should do. If you lose yourself, he will love you even less.

11. Don't accommodate him. The longevity of love does not come from one-sided accommodation, but from mutual understanding and tolerance.

12. Don't talk too much when he is silent. The man must be upset at this time. When he calms down and sorts out his thoughts, he will definitely come to you on his own.

13. Don’t love him more than yourself. Treat yourself well, and you are treating him well.

14. Don’t fall behind his pace. Always improve yourself and be a good partner in his life.

15. Don't give up your friend for him. Give him and yourself some space. Then, once he leaves you, you will have nothing.

16. Don’t think that if you lose him, you lose everything. If the old does not go away, how can the new come?

If you are a woman and single, then please remember:

1 Don’t just joke around with a man who is not single, even if he once liked you. You have to know that you mean nothing to him, at least right now.

2 Don’t text people who don’t reply to your messages or reply to your messages reluctantly, making yourself look like a idler.

3 Don’t tell your sisters whether other people’s men are good or bad, because he is not yours and has nothing to do with you. Maybe your sisters will only respond to you reluctantly in front of you, but in their hearts they have already regarded you as a bitch.

4 Don't be ambiguous with someone who is interested in you but rejected by you. Are you so lonely and in need of a man?

5 Don’t tell others that you are lonely all the time, and don’t envy others who are in pairs, as if you are hinting at something to others, and then hang out in nightclubs all beautifully, thinking you are a socialite.

6 Spend more time with your family when you have time. If you are really bored, chat with your bestie and reminisce about the past, of course, without disturbing their normal life.

7. Don't bother the man you were with before, even if he takes the initiative to harass you, because he has nothing to do with you anymore, so why bother to deceive yourself?

If you are a woman but not single, then please remember:

1 Do what a girlfriend or wife should do. Don’t act crazy and fight with your friends all day long. Think about the man next to you.

2 Don’t just go shopping and spend men’s money all the time. Think about your family, work or studies. You should know that you don’t exist to be a burden or a nuisance.

3 Don’t go to nightclubs anymore, or walk around the streets in sexy clothes to attract other people’s attention. After all, you no longer need this to say goodbye to being single.

4 Cut off all the people you should cut off ties with, delete those with whom you have ambiguous relationships, and don’t make yourself seem like you are not doing your duty.

5 Pay more attention to your own elders and your partner’s elders. After all, this is a problem you will have to face in the next few decades, unless you just want to take it as a playful approach.

6 Don’t think that men are fools. In fact, they may not say it on the surface, but they know all the little movements in your mind. They just don’t care about it with you.

7 Keep a certain distance from your husband or boyfriend’s friends, especially those of the opposite sex. Always let others feel that you are his woman, whom you cannot mess with, and you are also a woman who will never mess with others.

8 Men need face. Try to give your man space, confidence and face in front of outsiders, so that he feels that you respect him.

If you are a man and single, then please remember:

1 Don’t hang out in nightclubs for no reason. Good women don’t hang out in nightclubs often.

2 Don't flirt with several women at once and think you are a handsome man. In fact, outsiders may think you are just a lonely guy.

3 Don’t get into one-night stands or sexual partners. These things are dangerous and meaningless. You’ll realize it when you get sick.

4 Stay away from your buddy’s crush and try to make yourself transparent. A few words to him/her are actually just being shameless.

5 Don’t just joke around with the girls at work or school unless you are serious about her.

6 Don’t just drink and chat with your buddies all day long. Few girls like men like this.

7 Don’t drool when looking at beautiful women, you are simply a flower maniac!!!

8 You should take time to take care of your own things. It’s useless for a grown man to think about girls without building a career first.

9 Don't say you like a pretty girl when you see her. Can your like be worth money?

If you are a man, but you are no longer single, then please remember:

1 Do what a man should do. You should know that you are the pillar of the family. What a woman needs is a sense of security.

2 Stop getting entangled with other girls, even if she is your ex-wife. Don’t use guilt as an excuse. As a man, you should cut off ties when necessary.

3 Manage your relationships with colleagues well at work. No decent man will have scandals.

4 Know what your woman needs. Money cannot solve everything. Spend more time with her and talk to her when you have time.

5 Delete all those inappropriate women. You have nothing to do with them, and it will never be the same in the future.

6 Don’t just look at girls on the street. Although everyone loves beauty, others may think that you are just making excuses for cheating.

7 Keep a certain distance from your woman’s best friends, and don’t mention her best friends to her for no reason. They have nothing to do with you. Don’t always think that this means you have a good relationship with your woman’s friends. After all, they are your women’s sisters. Don’t make it seem like you are thinking about them.

8 Women need a sense of security, so they need to strive to be more responsible and motivated.