Revealed: Women's six lines of defense

When women interact with men, there is always the issue of defense. Whether they are in love, having a lover, or being a prostitute, women have a moral bottom line that restrains, controls, and regulates themselves. Some women are more reserved and have relatively high defenses; some women are more open and have very low defenses. Women's defenses are naturally set against men. From a man's perspective, they hope that any woman who interacts with him would treat them with an open mind; and they also hope that their women would raise their defenses to resist harassment from outside men. So, how many levels can a woman's defense line be divided into?

1. Verbal Defense

Conservative women are difficult for men to approach. The highest level of conservatism is to leave men without even the chance to say a word. For men, such women are undoubtedly their nightmare. When a man pursues a woman, verbal communication and exchanges are inevitable. No matter whether it is sweet talk or vows, a man always needs to use words to open the door to the heart of a beautiful woman. Otherwise, if he can't even open the door to her heart, what's the point of pursuing her and what's the point of talking about love. The verbal defense line can be regarded as the lowest line of defense for women, because most women are not reserved enough to be on guard even when speaking. Such women can only give people the impression of being pedantic or even stupid.

2. Moral Defense

After breaking through a woman’s verbal defenses, the next thing to challenge is her moral defenses. You may think that the moral defense line should be ranked at a higher level. In my opinion, the status of morality in the minds of modern people has become increasingly humble. In a society where materialism is rampant, the moral defense line is actually very easy to break through. From a woman's perspective, when mistresses have become a hot topic of concern, and when the recognition of mistresses is gradually increasing, we can already see that women's moral defenses are gradually being destroyed. Of course, the constraints of traditional morality have never completely disappeared. There will always be some women who stick to their moral defenses and establish the image of model women.

3. Body defense

The physical defense line is ranked above the moral defense line. In fact, these two defense lines restrict each other in a sense. Women in the old society could not show their teeth when they smiled or show their feet when they walked. The openness of modern women represents the evolution of morality. Judging from the increasing area of ​​exposed bodies, women's bodies are gradually being liberated. From feeling ashamed to holding hands, kissing is commonplace, and going to bed is not a rare thing. This leap shows that while the moral defense line is being breached, women's physical defense line is also being breached. It is not surprising that women don't have to pay too much attention to their bodies, and can use their bodies to seek benefits or simply to satisfy their desires.

4. Emotional Defense

Women's emotions are relatively fragile compared to men's. Men should be especially careful when dealing with women's emotional issues. If they are not careful, they will hurt women's scars and make themselves embarrassed. Women's emotions are delicate, and they can perceive subtle things better than men, so often when they judge men by their own standards, men will be confused. Women's emotions fluctuate greatly. If a man cannot grasp a woman's emotions, he will only be put in a passive position. A man who cannot integrate into a woman's emotions, even if he can communicate with her verbally frequently, even if he has possessed a woman's body, he still cannot completely enter the woman's inner world.

5. Mental Defense

If a man wants to conquer a woman, he can only do so by winning her heart. However, a woman's heart is often difficult to guess. This is different from the moral defense line, which is a well-known value orientation. After a man understands the nature and characteristics of this value orientation, he can prescribe the right remedy. However, a woman's psychological defense line is an obstacle buried in the dark. Men who are always impetuous and impatient are unwilling to spend a lot of time guessing a woman's mind, so it is naturally difficult for them to break through a woman's psychological defense line. Of course, some people are lucky and can win the heart of a beautiful woman with just a lucky try, and the woman's psychological defenses are also broken by him unintentionally.

6. The last line of defense

After talking about the above lines of defense, I need to add another "last line of defense". This line of defense can be any of the previous lines of defense, but it cannot be equated with them because it is a woman’s last line of defense, which means that if this line of defense is broken, the woman will completely betray herself. Of course, it is a blessing for a woman to be sold to a good man, but it is a disaster for a woman to be sold to a bad man. In our eyes, a woman's last line of defense is often related to the body or morality. In fact, in such a materialistic society, morality has long lost its status in people's hearts, and the value of the body is no longer so sacred. It is actually very easy to break through the physical and moral defenses. Therefore, the last line of defense can be any of the previous ones, but they are no longer simply equivalent. A woman can sell her body, but she can still maintain her identity as a woman; a woman can abandon her moral standards, but she can still live a peaceful life. The last line of defense can be likened to a woman’s soul. If a woman loses this soul, she can end her life.