8 ways to know if he's sincere in bed

If men feel awe towards "sex", it must be a reflection on the so-called "refractory period" after orgasm. At this time, men have a common physical and mental experience, their limbs feel tired and their minds are blank. The men at this moment are weak, either they have no desire to fight, or they have thrown away their weapons and armor, their eyes are bloodshot and their gazes are confused. This is also the best time to understand a man, because it is so real and naked, because breathing is panting, and there is no way to escape...

1. A long sigh

He is an impatient man who likes to express himself. After reaching the summit, he needs to vent. Although it is not a heroic feeling, he feels that this will make him feel more refreshed.

This type of man is more cheerful and straightforward. For him, climax is also a kind of expression of life. He does not hide his happiness and regret at that moment, so a complex long sigh puts a refreshing exclamation mark on his climax! He likes to go straight in, finish in one go, and feel the exhilaration. In life, he pays attention to efficiency, does not procrastinate, and is relatively sincere.

Hope your partner will: shout with him. He likes your happy response, which is actually the best encouragement for him. Don't be silent like a dumb person eating coptis root, but be open like a flower.

2. Shy Type

He felt a little regretful and ashamed for his "fried rice" which was either "ferocious", lingering, wild or corny. He was a repressed and reserved man who was usually decent and well-behaved. However, when making love, he seemed like a "beast", becoming angry, impulsive, or incredibly brutal all of a sudden. So, after his climax, when he regained consciousness in his upper body, he felt a little awake and embarrassed. At this time, he is playful and cute.

Hope your partner: hugs him and says nothing; or you are more shy than him. Avoid making noise, chattering and being too talkative.

3. Void Type

He was somewhat discouraged and disillusioned with the world, feeling that all his efforts or hard work would end up like this in the end. He felt a little lost and felt that the good things between men and women were nothing more than this.

This type of man is somewhat negative and pessimistic in dealing with things. He may be more thoughtful, but he is sensitive, gives up easily and lacks patience. His fatal flaw is his lack of fighting spirit. For him, making love is a test of two heavens and two realms. The moment he fell from heaven to earth, he wished he could become a monk and practice Buddhism. In bed, he likes some procrastination techniques, because for him, the peak is the beginning of the fall.

What you want your partner to do: Spread your happiness and satisfaction with a smile to save his defeated emotions. Avoid talking about mundane trivialities, and keep the atmosphere and temperature of love at a certain scale for 30 minutes.

4. Hypocrisy

Afterwards, they would immediately pull the quilt to cover up their "ugly" behavior, fall asleep using the excuse of being "sleepy", or come up with a lot of excuses after the fact, such as "Why did I become like this?" It seemed as if he was not his real self just now. Subconsciously, he felt that sex was indecent, so he kept talking about irrelevant things to divert attention, and did not seem to disrespect the woman's feelings at the moment and her desire to continue the conversation.

This type of man lacks a sense of responsibility, likes to shirk responsibility, and is afraid to take responsibility. Moreover, because they are afraid of the truth, they often face problems by escaping them instead of solving them head on. If he was cheating outside, he would confess on the spot; even if it was homework, he would just click his tongue to show his awareness.

5. Contentment

His cheeks were flushed, his breathing was slow, he either closed his eyes to rest, or hugged her tightly, with an expression of aftertaste, happiness, even a little exhaustion and intoxication.

Such a man may not be good at speaking, but he is full of heart and likes to enjoy life, women and love. He is a turtle animal, giving people the illusion that "making love will be difficult", but in fact he is the most down-to-earth traveler, thrifty and not wasteful, but he can be romantic to the core. He is a family man who understands the philosophy of happiness of "loving all that I have" and enjoys it to the fullest.

What you want your partner to do: give him a warm feeling, be more virtuous and gentle, and never say "I want more" or take the opportunity to blackmail him.

6. The unsatisfied type

He must be energetic and ambitious. Such a man is sunny, daring, and can moan during sex. In life, he is an open-minded and enthusiastic person, willing to help others, make friends widely, and is generous and magnanimous. He is more masculine and has a strong desire to conquer in bed. He likes to play the role of a "three times a night man", and he is always striving for perfection and never being sloppy. He might suggest continuing the relationship in the bathtub, and he'll make it hard for a woman to say no.

What I want in a partner: to go with the flow, but to be able to have a long-lasting relationship. Don't refuse or be impatient in a disappointing way, and don't just say "go to bed" coldly and think everything will be fine.

7. The lazy type

Somewhat silly and childish. He would do some playful actions to keep the atmosphere going, such as tickling her for fun, or acting coquettishly: "Baby, give me a back massage." Or he would lie in her arms and pretend to be dead.

This type of man is more readable and has some valuable innocence, but he is also prone to becoming frivolous and has a poor ability to resist temptation in life. He may like relationships with women who are younger than him, and sometimes hopes that the woman will serve him, but during sex, this kind of man is prone to "laughing".

What you want your partner to do: Always stay young when making love; your passion is his best motivation. Don't be too conservative and restrained. Play with him and give yourself a break.

8. Self-deprecating

He would say: "I'm dying, happy soon!" or "How can I be happy so soon?" Or he would humorously say: "I'm sorry for the poor hospitality!" But he usually wouldn't ask the old questions to prove how powerful he is: "Are you comfortable?", "Are you satisfied?", "Am I awesome?"...

He might sit up, light a cigarette, and talk to himself: "Are all men like this unable to control themselves?" Or he might ask: "Baby, why do I feel more thirsty the more I kiss you?" In short, this type of man is talkative, has a talent for language, and likes to use jokes to soothe an excited woman's heart.

What you want your partner to do: Respond to his words with body language or in a cute way. Avoid making sarcastic remarks and learn to cheer him up with a sweet smile.