The 5 Most Desired Mental Temptations

Sex between couples is not just about pursuing certain techniques. In fact, spiritual communication in sex is more important. The following tips are said by foreign gender experts to be very effective ways to improve the sex life between couples!

1. Touch the heartbeat

When you place your hands on each other's hearts, you can feel more from the heart during lovemaking. And at the moment when sex reaches its climax, the hand placed on the heart is like a sexual therapy.

At first, he might find it a little weird, but since your heart is right under the part of a man that's most interesting, he'll get used to it.

Place one hand on his chest and then place his hand over your heart, holding it gently all the time during sex. Lin Ai, 37, who has been married for 11 years, said: "After I tried it, I realised how crazy I could make his heart beat. He felt the same way when he put his hand on my chest. It was like you were holding your lover's heart in your own hands."

2. Tease therapy

Two people can meditate on sex at the same time, even if they are in different places.

It is recommended that two people sit down face to face, or one person lies down and the other sits, with their eyes open, meditate together on the process of making love, and concentrate on communicating ideas about sex.

Very good idea! But what if this seldom-mentioned meditation leaves him looking around?

Men like phone sex. Tell him that this is a phone sex game and a good sexual warm-up for you. At the beginning, both people close their eyes and concentrate on sending some erotic messages to each other, speaking as quietly as possible.

Ma Li, 32, has been married for eight years and has personal experience with mental foreplay. "We use sexual meditation as a game. For example, we'll say, 'Can you guess where I want to touch you right now?' And so, little by little, we play the question-and-answer game and slowly become aroused and feel more connected.

3. Caress after passion

Believe in the theory of sexual energy.

Believe that perfect sex can make both parties feel at the peak of energy because it means that you have been completely combined into one whole. Some small caressing and kissing after sex can enhance the feeling, even just a little. Physiologically speaking, men will fall into a deep sleep after orgasm. But before they doze off, they like to hear about how great a job they did.

Now that we know they feel sleepy and why, there is still a reason why men don't caress.

They think caressing might lead to a conversation about the relationship, the children, or even the family budget, anything. So save that discussion for later and enjoy the cuddles and warm caresses in his arms before he naps.

Xiaoka, 31, who has been married for five years, said: "My husband doesn't like post-sex caressing, so we found a compromise where he agreed to let us cuddle until he fell asleep. I like this final hug to consolidate the feeling just now, and he also likes to fall asleep in my arms."

4. Spiritual Kiss

The spiritual kiss is done with the eyes open.

It is a slow and deliberate technique that allows both parties to build a closer connection, and then passion is aroused. Look deeply into the other person's eyes, and then pay attention to the upper and lower lips separately. For example, if he kisses your upper lip, you can kiss his lower lip. Then, press your lips together and keep doing this until you can feel each other's pulse through your lips.

Can you drive? It takes a while to accelerate from 0 to 60 miles per hour. In order to get it started, you have to sit in the driver's seat and start a man's sex sports car.

To start, you can hold his face and gently touch his face with your fingertips until you reach his lips. Gently trace his lips with two fingers, then place your lips against his and don't let go!

Jinhua, 33, has been married for 8 years. She has used this method and likes it very much. She said: "I told him I needed a completely different kind of kissing, just like he needed a different kind of sex, and he understood. It was so intimate to press our lips together. We both loved it."

5. Gaze Deeply

During foreplay and throughout the entire process of sex, gazing deeply into each other's eyes is the essence of spiritual love.

Are you two no longer doing this now - it's best to maintain eye contact and imagine that you are conveying all your sexual desire through your eyes.

It is not a problem to make a man have sex with his eyes open.

Remember how he thinks: "I see it, I like it, I want to have it!" Light up this light, create a little atmosphere, and then let nature take its course. But don't look around, communicate every feeling through your eyes. Debi, 34, who has been married for 14 years, said: "It makes sex feel more intimate and private. My husband said he could see my orgasm in my eyes before I orgasmed physically. It turned him on."

The latest research results on sex prove a truth, which may have been felt and practiced by some women first. That is: for sex between two people, establishing a spiritual communication is as important as achieving a soul-stirring climax, or even more important.

But while women value this kind of communication, men may have other ideas. Men have a strong sense of purpose, and their biggest goal is to make women reach orgasm. Starting tonight, try these 5 ways to have passionate sex both physically and mentally!