Couples are most sensitive to this issue

Misunderstandings and sensitive issues often occur between couples, so they should communicate frequently about sexual issues. However, due to various factors such as differences in concepts and psychology, many issues cannot be touched upon or are difficult to talk about. Do you also encounter the following problems?

1. The book says that the average frequency of sexual intercourse between couples is one to two times a week, but we haven’t had sex for several months. Is there something wrong with us?

No. The frequency of sexual activity varies from person to person. Every couple goes through a period of sexlessness. Sex is intermittent, sometimes on and sometimes off, sometimes hot and sometimes cold. This is mostly caused by external factors, such as financial constraints, fatigue, irritability, anxiety, children's disturbances, etc., and even some subtle psychological changes can have an impact. The saying "When you are well fed and well clothed, you will think about sex" is exactly this truth. You can't be interested in having sex when the stock market is crashing.

2. Would children be terrified if they saw us having sex?

Best to avoid being seen by children. Because it may awaken their sexual consciousness and make them imitate adults in playing sexual games with their friends.

If you really see it, you should carefully explain to your child and tell him not to make a fuss, as this is a way for everyone to express love. Never tell him in a serious manner that only adults can do this kind of thing, as that will arouse his curiosity.

3. Even though the man tried his best, I still felt a sense of loss after sex. Is there something wrong with me?

no problem. At most, there was not good communication. Men instinctively know what to do, but women are shy about telling men which parts of their bodies need caressing, and they get disappointed when men don't do it. In fact, you can tell him in person what he should do, or you can unconsciously guide his hands to touch the sensitive parts that you want to be caressed, and express your pleasure in time to encourage him to continue. This kind of implicit interaction is very beneficial to a harmonious married life.

4. Will he dislike me after I give birth to a child?

It is normal for a man to lose interest in sex after a woman gives birth, but fortunately this process is short, just a few weeks.

This does not mean that women lose their appeal in their eyes, it is mainly out of consideration for women. They know that the woman has just been through some pain and don't want to put further pressure on her.

Psychologists believe that it is natural for couples to focus their energy on their children at this time. But this special phase will soon pass. Communication between couples is particularly important. Women should not only focus on taking care of the baby but also neglect the care and tenderness for men. Otherwise he will feel "abandoned".