Refuse to stay the same and add some spice to your intimate life

After being together for a long time, have you ever paid attention to the intimate life between you and your significant other? Don't be shy or funny, intimate life can directly reflect the warmth of your relationship. If you feel that the relationship between two people is too bland, why not create conditions and add some spice to warm up the relationship.

Sexual play in the bedroom can be an unexpected "glue" that can give new life to a relationship that has gradually lost its freshness and become dull and "left hand holding right hand".

The survey found that one-third of women and 15% of men in urban areas do not like to have sex. Lacking creativity and freshness, falling into the dull relationship of "left hand holding right hand" early on...this is too tragic...It is imperative to improve love quotient! Gender and sex experts suggest that sex games can add a little imagination to a tired relationship between the sexes.

At the same time, more and more couples are beginning to pay attention to the sexual happiness index and are willing to make positive efforts for each other's sexual happiness, including buying sex toys and trying sexual games. On the other hand, there are also some misunderstandings about sex games among the public. Gender/sexual psychology counselors give thoughtful interpretations of the six key points of sexual games. In general, sex experts have a positive attitude towards sex games: couples can try them for the sake of sexual happiness and more importantly, happiness.

1. The game is fresh

Take off your usual sexy lingerie and put on some sexy lingerie to give him a big surprise... Cheers to the women who take the initiative to add color to their intimate life in the bedroom!

In fact, sexual games between partners are a very special kind of foreplay. They use strong visual means and interesting dramatic role relationships to create a unique sexual experience for partners.

If we divide foreplay into two parts, one for the mind and one for the body, then sexual play is mental flirting.

Sexual play is worth a try as an effort to keep your relationship alive and exciting. In sexual games, wearing sexy lingerie that is different from regular lingerie allows you to become a new role and image that is different from your daily life, or you and your partner can simultaneously enter into a role that is very different from your usual selves, and that strong sense of freshness and excitement will emerge.

2. Create opportunities to communicate with him

On Halloween, Momo bought a sexy bunny girl costume, dressed up and waited for Dapeng at home, wanting to give her husband a surprise. I didn’t expect that the first words Dapeng said after entering the door were “What’s wrong with you?” It was such a bummer. Who is better to initiate sex games?

Regardless of who initiates the sex game, it is very important that the scope of topics discussed by both partners should be broadened. In other words, the communication between the two people should not be limited to the daily necessities of life. The daily communication system of the two people should include the "subsystem" of "sex" and "gender relations". The reason why many couples do not have this kind of cognition and acceptance is that their sex life is monotonous and neither of them can initiate sexual games because this topic is not within the scope of communication at all. Therefore, when the scope of communication between two people becomes wider, who initiates the sexual game is no longer a problem. It is suggested that two people can start by watching related movies together or exchanging information in this regard.

3. The most important thing is investment

An analysis of sales data from online sex toy stores found that the sex toys that young people are most willing to pay for are various types of bedroom game supplies, including vibrators, massagers, sexy lingerie, bunny girl equipment, etc. Are props necessary?

Sex games are a form of humor. The most important thing about trying to be different with each other in the bedroom is actually changing your mental state. After using some cute flirting props, the sense of immersion in the game character will definitely be stronger. If partners both like sexual games, they might as well play them seriously together. This is the correct attitude to improve the quality of sex between partners.

Props are very necessary! All the sex toys are designed to show off your body in a sexy way. Games that use props can help both parties complete role changes more quickly, are visually impactful and sexy, and the other party's desires will be aroused in an instant. With the help of props, both partners can enter the game role more quickly and enjoy intimate games more interestingly. An added bonus is that partners can also add a new communication item to their existing communication system.

4. Do you have sexual fantasies?

The charm of sexual games lies in the fact that familiar partners can imagine each other as another character in a safe and private space, and the other party is happy to participate in and cooperate with such games, and this effort itself is loving enough.

The essence of experimental games is not only to create visual stimulation, but also to satisfy the sexual fantasies of your partner. Therefore, a little more spice in the bedroom can help solve the common dilemma of lack of sexual interest between partners in modern society. Intimate play in private life allows us to safely fulfill each other's sexual fantasies without violating the elements of a relationship such as ethics, morality and fidelity.

5. Taboo: If one party does not commit, it is useless

The most important thing is the other party's acceptance of this kind of game. If you are the only one enjoying it and the other party feels unacceptable, the game cannot continue. For example, you play the role of the queen, bossing people around, but the man is a male chauvinist who doesn't think it's fun to be bossed around by you and has no desire to play with you. In this case, the game will not be fun. You should always remember that this game is for the happiness of two people. If one person feels unhappy, it is the biggest taboo. It is better to end the game early.

6. Respect first and please the other party

The danger of sex games inciting violent tendencies is almost impossible because the goal of the games themselves is actually self-pleasure and the pleasure of the other party. In fact, a large part of the pleasure and satisfaction in sexual games comes from the satisfaction you bring to the other person. Both partners need to explore each other's boundaries together, seeing both where their own boundaries are and where the other person's boundaries are. People with high-quality sex life are those who are curious about life, like to challenge themselves, and constantly expand their boundaries. If the sexual boundaries between two people become larger and larger, your sexual experiences will definitely become richer, and your sense of sexual happiness will become deeper.

A game, and such an intimate game at that, meant that it was just a secret between the two of them behind closed doors. Therefore, respect, communication and confidentiality have become the basis for whether this game can be played happily. In other words, your attitude towards the game is important. If you and your significant other have the right attitude, it's worth doing this once in a while.