A man's sexual standards in bed actually reveal the extent of his love

Of course, whether a man loves you or not can be verified through his sexual standards. However, this alone cannot be used as proof, because many men have a very loose sexual standard. For them, kissing in public or living together before marriage are just short-term reflections of his desire to have sex with you. When he gets tired of it, he will just let go and run away without considering your feelings or the relationship between you. Therefore, before measuring a man's sexuality, you must first verify whether he is the kind of man who plays with emotions.

1. Hug

In foreign countries, hugging is a common etiquette. No matter whether men, women, young or old, people will hug each other when they meet to show affection. In China, hugging is limited to lovers, couples or family members. If you hug a stranger casually, you will definitely attract strange looks from others. In the process of falling in love, men and women will hold hands at the beginning, and when the relationship deepens, they will kiss.

Don't underestimate this small hug. You should know that the higher level of sexuality all starts with a hug. We often see hugs that can be divided into many types, some are for comforting a girl after she is hurt, some are for missing someone after not seeing them for a long time, and some are for happiness and excitement...

Some men are very proper and just hug you without any random touching. Some men will touch your back randomly when hugging you. Those unruly men think that you are open-minded and can accept any behavior of men. They may only have the desire to possess you instead of truly loving you. Those who truly love you will not take advantage of you, so please cherish those men who behave properly when hugging.

2. Kissing

Can you accept that men kiss women as soon as they meet? Of course, there are still only a few men who kiss women as soon as they meet. After all, not so many men are so bold, and they are also worried that women cannot accept it.

Reaching the stage of kissing proves that your relationship has reached a relatively stable state. In many movies and TV dramas, kissing is a prelude to sex between men and women. When kissing, many men try to swallow the women into their stomachs, using all their strength to press the women down on the bed.

Don’t say that a man does this out of sexual needs. He will only do this if he truly loves you. A man who doesn’t love you won’t be so strong. If a woman is unwilling, she can simply push the man away to show her rejection. Believe that a man who truly loves you will not hold a grudge against you for your rejection. If a man cares about your rejection, then his purpose is to possess your body, not to love you sincerely.

Therefore, kissing can not only be a reflection of whether he loves you, but it can also be used to tell whether he is with you just because he cares about your body or really wants to have a relationship with you.

3. Sex

Sex is the highest level of the sexual scale. Before you decide to have sex with him, you must make it clear whether the man truly loves you or just wants to get your body. Only after you have made this clear can you avoid getting hurt.

Most people believe that men only care about getting personal satisfaction in their sex life. But in fact, there are deeper psychological factors behind this phenomenon. When the moment of sexual life really comes, most men are worried about their performance in their hearts. They hope that their good performance can make you experience different happiness and climax.