These methods can make couples more harmonious

What are the reasons for disharmony in marital life? The survey shows that the three major factors affecting the relationship between couples are frequent differences in opinions, heavy family responsibilities, and disharmonious sex life. So what are the reasons for disharmony in married life? Let’s take a look together below.

Reasons for disharmony in married life

1. Sex lacks novelty

When it comes to marital sex, any way of having sex is acceptable and does not conflict with moral standards.

2. Lack of emotional metabolism

The sexual desire of first loves and newlyweds is particularly strong, which is due to the intense emotional exchange during this period. As time goes by, this feeling will gradually fade, and the original deep love will gradually be diluted. Sex is a high-level spiritual activity based on the emotions of both parties. Many people do not pay attention to injecting new content into their emotional world after marriage, resulting in a sex life that lacks passion and becomes dull.

3. Triviality is the enemy of lust

After marriage, no one can escape from the trivial matters of daily necessities, such as food, clothing, housing, and the like. The trivial life often makes women become nagging and unkempt, completely losing the romance and poetry of their first love.

4. Physiological dysfunction

It is not what people want for men to be born incompetent or for women to be born sexually frigid. Such disharmony may be caused by early psychological factors, or it may be innate. One can only accept one's fate if it is caused by nature, and one must seek medical treatment for the result caused by acquired factors. However, a couple who are in love must make their relationship strong enough to resist the temptation of extramarital sex. Otherwise, changes are common over time.

What to do if your married life is not harmonious

Sex is an interaction between men and women. There will be no perfect sex if you perform a "one-man show", nor will it bring psychological satisfaction to both parties. Sex is a dance for two. Once a problem occurs, both parties are responsible, so you must pay attention to synchronization and communication to reach the highest level of sex.

1. Help the other party with the "details"

For example, before the husband shaves, the wife wipes the steam off the mirror.

2. Try “regular dating”

Set a fixed date time with your partner in advance, such as one night a week when you can "put aside housework and work" and act alone, such as taking a walk, having a meal, or watching a movie.

3. Plan every anniversary

Examples include birthdays, wedding anniversaries, and holidays.

4. Change the intimate place

If you often chat in the kitchen and living room and make out in bed, try making out in the kitchen and living room and chatting in bed occasionally.

6 taboos in married life

1. Avoid having sex while sick

People who suffer from certain serious sexually transmitted diseases and have been advised by doctors not to have sexual intercourse should not ignore the doctor's advice and force themselves to have sexual intercourse. People who suffer from infectious diseases and are contagious should also avoid sexual intercourse, especially those who suffer from certain sexually transmitted diseases. If you have sex while you are sick, not only will you be the victim, but some diseases can also be transmitted to your lover through the sexual organs. This should be avoided.

2. Avoid doing things when you are unhappy.

Some couples force themselves to have sex when one of them is in a bad mood. Not only does this fail to achieve a harmonious sex life, but the one in a bad mood will also feel disgusted with it. If this happens repeatedly, it will lead to sexual frigidity in women or impotence in men.

3. Avoid having sex during menstruation

During a woman's menstrual period, the cervix is ​​open. Having sex at this time can easily lead to infection and inflammation of the uterus or appendages.

4. Avoid sex after drinking

Some people are accustomed to having sex after drinking, and some even believe that having sex after drinking can "improve the quality." In fact, drinking alcohol, especially drinking a lot of strong liquor, can cause men to have weak erections or premature ejaculation, which can hinder the harmony of sex life. Moreover, conception after drinking can endanger the fetus.

5. Avoid neglecting genital hygiene

Unhygienic sexual organs pose a threat to the health of both parties, and can bring bacteria and other pathogens into the other party's body, damaging the health of your lover. On the contrary, a clean and pleasant environment and both parties washing their lower body before each sexual intercourse are not only beneficial to the health of both husband and wife, but also contribute to a harmonious and happy sex life.

6. Avoid being inadequately prepared or rushing into things

Some husbands do not understand the sexual physiology of women and rush into sex without making proper preparations, or they are short of time and end the intercourse hastily. These practices cannot make women reach orgasm. Not only will they not make them interested in sex, but they will bring them pain. They are the main reason for women's sexual apathy.

When many couples encounter problems with sexual disharmony, they are either too embarrassed to talk about it or take an indifferent attitude, not realizing that many relationship cracks and marital crises are caused by sexual disharmony. This should not be taken lightly.