Three wolf temperaments to protect your marriage life

In today's age where cuckoldry and extramarital affairs are rampant and the marriage atmosphere is quite bad, it has become an inevitable skill for women to master some necessary marriage skills and then form a stable, wise and reliable marriage temperament and habits to protect their marriage.

The failure of women's marriages is largely due to their self-weakness, lack of firmness, inability to endure loneliness and lack of wisdom. These so-called independence, tenacity, patience and resourcefulness are actually all characteristics possessed by wolves. As a married young woman, they should at least learn the following three wolf qualities from wolves:

First, patience and perseverance

In Chinese tradition, a woman can be a delicate little bird before marriage, but after marriage she must quickly become a capable housewife, whereas a man is a child before marriage, and it seems that he can still be a child after marriage. From this point of view, society's requirements for women in marriage are much higher than those for men, because there are too many factors in all aspects that require women to quickly transform from girls to women in a very short period of time after marriage.

Compared to girls, the most important qualities a woman should possess are patience and perseverance. There is a saying that it takes a daughter-in-law a thousand years to become a mother-in-law. The word "endure" is enough to illustrate the hardships that a woman has to endure on the road of marriage.

Let’s talk about wolves. When hunting, wolves always like to observe and wait patiently. They often show amazing calmness and patience. They like to think and find ways to resolve the difficulties they encounter.

When chasing prey, it displays great endurance and rarely gives up easily. And Sky Is Always Blue believes that these are exactly what married women should possess most. They should understand that they need to patiently observe and wait at any time and place during the course of their marriage, have the tenacity to resolve difficulties when faced with them, and have enough endurance as a guarantee in the marathon of marriage.

Second, enthusiasm and cheerfulness

Many people may mistakenly believe that wolves are cold-blooded and heartless, but this is not the case. Wolves are actually very enthusiastic towards their peers and partners. They like to play and even play pranks. Wolf pack members often play with each other, male and female partners are often intimate, etc., all of which show the relatively enthusiastic and cheerful side of wolves.

However, many women seem to find it difficult to maintain this enthusiasm and cheerfulness in their married life. Once they get married, they will quickly turn from cute little girls into shrews, with a stern face all day long and no enthusiasm for life. Obviously, managing a marriage with such an attitude will not bring good results.

The wolf's enthusiasm and cheerfulness are actually more reflected in the restraint and cherishment of the species and mates. They can be extremely principled and even ruthless towards those outside the group, but they are quite friendly and enthusiastic towards their companions and partners.

However, women tend to make completely opposite choices from wolves on this issue. They can be extremely warm and polite to outsiders, but they are very likely to show a bad face to their men, showing a resistance that is difficult to reconcile. What could have been well-intentioned advice turns into scolding and nagging. It was meant to motivate men, but it can actually reveal vanity and comparison.

Third, wisdom and rebelliousness

Wolves are very smart, their brains account for 30 percent more than dogs, and cunning and wisdom are necessary weapons for their survival. Although there have been examples of wolves being domesticated, it is clear that wolves are quite difficult to tame because they have a rebellious character and a strong sense of vigilance. It is precisely because of the wolf's unruly nature that it always retains its own self. This is a kind of temperament. If it is used on a married woman, it will form a perfect fusion with wisdom, which is extremely easy to impress men.

A woman who has no opinions of her own, always follows men and goes along with what others say is likely to be disliked and abandoned by men.

On the contrary, you have always maintained your original personality, and have been able to deal with various matters in marriage in a principled manner from the very beginning, fully respect your own feelings, not blindly pamper men, think more about things, and not give up your inner elegance. Such a woman is the easiest to conquer a man with half the effort. Because men all have a desire to conquer women, if a woman is completely conquered by a man, she will naturally lose this psychological value. Only by combining wisdom, allowing men to relatively lose control over you and retaining your own self, can you maintain your personal charm in marriage.