Why do some women like SM?

The meanings of bondage training and binding are not the same. Binding of slaves is just a means of restraint used to cooperate with other training, while bondage can be a form of SM in itself.

The vast majority of women who like SM first start with the experience of bondage. It can even be said that women who have fantasies of being tied up in childhood are more likely to develop SM tendencies when they grow up. Bondage satisfies the slave's underlying need for stability and security by giving the slave a complete sense of limb restraint. Since normal people have freedom, once they are tied up, their dignity is deprived and they will naturally feel humiliated or ashamed. This also requires that bondage must be based on absolute trust.

Bondage requires a highly skilled master to perform it. It is very difficult and dangerous to tie yourself up. The techniques of love bondage only show the methods of tying up various parts of the body. In order to achieve the requirement of complete limb bondage without causing pain, the master must also make creative combinations based on the physical characteristics of the slave. Therefore, bondage is also a science in Japan. From how to tie various knots to how to restrain limbs and so on. For related content, the chapter “Guide to Rope Abuse” will give you a general introduction.

By the way, let me tell you some basic knowledge about bondage. The most commonly used ropes for bondage are cotton or hemp ropes, which are both strong and safe. Silk ropes can also be used, but electrical wires are not recommended. Cotton ropes made of multiple strands can easily produce beautiful rope marks. If you don’t like rope marks, you can use a single-strand rope. If you don’t like white rope, you can choose hemp rope or dyed silk rope. Usually each rope is about 7 meters long. If it is too long, it will be troublesome to tie and untie it. Generally, 5 to 6 ropes are needed, and the thickness of the ropes used to bind different parts of the body is also different. For example, for the four types of binding: thong, full body bondage, breast bondage, and nipple pulling, the thickness of the ropes required for each of them decreases accordingly, ranging from 10mm to 4mm. It is best to seal the rope ends with thermoplastic or wax to prevent them from unraveling. In order to make the rope softer and less irritating to the skin, the rope should be boiled in boiling water, especially hemp rope. Unboiled rope is almost unusable, except for those who particularly like the stimulating feeling of hemp rope. As for using white wine to soak the rope, it is to make the rope fragrant, not for the purpose of disinfection.

Regardless of the method of bondage used, the master should always pay attention to the color and temperature of the slave's hands and feet. At the same time, you should also take into account the slave's body shape and flexibility, and do not force overly intense and painful bondage. Remember, do not tie knots anywhere where arteries and veins pass! If the slave feels numbness in places such as under the neck, inside the wrist, in the groin, and in the joints, the master should immediately loosen the bonds.

Everyone feels differently about bondage. For example, tying up a slave and playing with his private parts will create a sense of shame, tying his hands behind his back and putting various torture instruments on him to look in the mirror will create a sense of humiliation, and tying him up and whipping him will create a sense of pain. How to control the atmosphere requires a lot from the host. It is not an exaggeration to say that bondage is all there is to SM.