Smart women never mention this.

In such an impetuous and snobbish age, what we yearn for is bravery, and what we admire is only the strong. Even if we cannot be that successful, we don't have to always act so bad. You know, there must be something hateful about pitiful people, and people who show off must be unbearably fragile. In fact, no one really wants to care about these things, and most of them just want to laugh at the joke. One’s love history is hidden deep in one’s heart. If one has loved, one should have learned to cherish it.

The pain of the past.

Perhaps a woman's emotional pain needs to be completely healed by the next man who loves you, but the haze that cannot be dissipated in time, the unbalanced mentality, and the self-abuse obsession with old love are all obstacles for a woman to find happiness again. Even if a good man comes by, I am afraid he will be scared away before he can get close to the warmth. After all, they are animals who are afraid of trouble.

It has always been said that none of us will love only one person in our lifetime. Where there is love, there will be hurt. Without the ability to bear, there is actually no forever. Some pain may be digested in time if you don't say it and swallow it yourself. But repeatedly exposing your own scars will crush the pain and penetrate into your bone marrow. The pain from the past can all disappear without a trace, and we don’t talk about it because we have grown up.

My boyfriend's ex.

Other people’s past has nothing to do with you now, but many women in life are very taboo about men’s ex. They will feel uneasy if they don’t ask, and even more uneasy if they ask. They may even create an "incredibly powerful" imaginary enemy for themselves, and then torment the men and scare themselves.

If your boyfriend really has some relationship with his ex, it is normal. As for the emotional consequences of being unable to clear up, the current boyfriend should judge the situation and make the best decision for himself in time. It is not advisable to get entangled in it and make unnecessary sacrifices. A mature man will not drag true love into such a whirlpool. If he can't do it, it means he doesn't love you enough or he is cowardly and incompetent by nature. Your boyfriend’s ex has nothing to do with you. If you can’t sort out the connection with him, it just means you are not confident.

Friends' love affairs.

Even if you are best friends, you should not interfere or make arbitrary comments on other people's emotional affairs. When interacting with your best friend's boyfriend or husband, you should also maintain a polite distance. Making jokes without measure, or mistaking your identity and acting coquettishly are all uncultured and frivolous behaviors. Don't think that your girlfriend won't care about you. If you overdo it, you will still be annoying.

In fact, we don't need any honest friends around us. Those women who regard themselves as experts in everything, endorse others to pretend to be mature, claim to see through men, and always like to stand high above and give advice on other people's love affairs, are either not smart enough or just clever, and are not suitable to be best friends at all. When a friend’s love story needs our listening, please be there for him/her.

Husband's mother.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law issues are common family affairs. It is a pity for everyone if two women who originally loved the same man really become incompatible. However, as the younger generation, we should have the minimum respect for the elders. Even if we cannot accept the elders' actions and statements, as a daughter-in-law, we should let our husband play the most effective role. Using the brain is always more effective than using the mouth. Those women who always speak ill of or curse at their mother-in-law in front of their husbands and friends also deserve a beating.

If you don't want the elders to interfere too much in the affairs of your small family, then the young couple should be more independent. Those who rely on the elders on the one hand and scold the elders on the other hand, are "parasites" and have bad tempers? Your husband's mother is not your biological mother, and it is not your turn to always blame her.