As the domestic public's sexual concepts become more open, sex toys are becoming more and more accepted by everyone. Sex toys can certainly increase the pleasure and enjoyment of sex, but are there any disadvantages to them? Next, let’s take a look at eight truths about sex toys: 1. Are sex toys used by people who have an unhappy sex life or no sex life? Fact: Anyone can use sex toys. Surveys show that people who have sex use sex toys more than those who do not, and couples who use sex toys usually have higher quality sex lives and better emotional intimacy. About 20-30% of people use sex toys at least once in their lives. 2. Are sex toys addictive? Truth: Addiction means some kind of harm. But using sex toys will not harm you (as long as they are used correctly). While some people may develop a dependence on sex toys due to habit, you don't need to force yourself to quit, and anyone can easily return to masturbation or sex with a partner without using sex toys. 3. If a woman uses sex toys, does she no longer need a man? The truth: Sex toys are not substitutes for people. Sex toys don't hug you or tell you how much they love you. Many men are afraid of women using sex toys because they think their importance to women lies mainly in their "big things", which makes men feel insecure. 4. Men only use sex toys when they can't get real sex? The truth: When people think of men and sex toys, they think of men who buy masturbation tools and then masturbate in their basement while watching porn. But the truth about men and sex toys is that millions of men use them, whether they are in a relationship or single. The best way for a man to become a better lover is to understand his own sexual responses. Whether or not you use sex toys, masturbation is a key way to learn how to control your body. Using sex toys does not mean that a man is a "loser". He's actually pretty smart and would probably be better in bed. Because he is interested in sex and pays more attention to skills. 5. Do sex toys make sex unnatural? Truth: We hear a lot of misconceptions about sex, one of which is that natural sex means only physical contact. If I use pencil and paper, does that make my drawings less realistic and natural? Of course not. It doesn't make sex unnatural if we use tools or sex toys to make it more fun, sex toys don't run on batteries, but on our imagination. 6. Are some sex toys good and some bad? The truth: Aside from those that could potentially cause danger, there is no such thing as good or bad sex toys. Sex toys are all about how we use them. A vibrator may be too intense for one person, but perfect for another. The trick is to find the sex toy that works for you. Most sex toys are something some people like and some people don't. 7. Are more expensive sex toys better? The truth: A massage stick that costs a few hundred dollars may give you more pleasure than one that costs thousands of dollars. Expensive sex toys may be more durable or made of better materials or even more waterproof, but they won’t necessarily make you feel better or give you more pleasure. Sex toys are like many other products. The one that is within your budget can play the same role. Usually all we need to do is find the one that suits us. 8. Do sex toys look weird? The truth: Weird and normal are relative, and while you may not feel comfortable talking about these things in public, just realizing that everyone can be "weird" behind closed doors will help you have a happier, more relaxed sex life. Sex toys don’t make sex weird, they just mean you feel sexual pleasure is worth pursuing. 9. Can sex toys cause harm to the body? Fact: There is no evidence that sex toys can damage your sexual sensations or genitals. Of course, there are some dangers if not used correctly, but it's like a bottle opener, no one throws it away just because it might hurt their hands due to improper use. I have always wanted to advocate to everyone that sex toys are really good things. They are not just toys, but also good toys that can allow you to enjoy pleasure and orgasm. There is really no need to be shy about them. They are such healthy and happy little gadgets. |
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