Unsatisfied women usually "complain" like this

Chinese women are reserved and introverted. Compared with the open culture of the West, Chinese women generally do not express their sexual needs as directly as Western women. During sex, as the other half, it is necessary to actively observe the needs of your partner. Secondly, if she has sexual needs, it does not mean that she has to make a big move or undress to have sex. Sometimes she just needs a hug that leaves her breathless, or a chat while lying down with her clothes on.

Chinese women like to be reserved, and sometimes even overly repressed, and dare not express their inner voices, especially "sexual" voices. As a result, they distort and disguise them into negative emotions or states such as inexplicable anger and nagging. Men are careless themselves and often do not understand these particularly unlovable "sexual" signals, which deepens the rift in their feelings and affects the quality of their marriage. Therefore, if you don't want to neglect your wife's feelings and avoid making her suspicious, you have to be more attentive in your daily life, and even think more about things in a "wrong" way. Maybe old problems can be solved and new problems can be avoided.

Complaint 1: No open flame

If your wife loses her temper for no apparent reason, throws things around loudly, and the earth shakes when she sits down, you should reflect on how long it has been since you have "bothered" her and what "contentment" means. Contentment means happiness and peace of mind. But now she is unhappy and restless, which means that you have become somewhat distant from her body. Her body is protesting, and she cannot actually control it.

Countermeasure: Tonight, you have to comfort her well. There were many struggles and conspiracies in the ancient palace. In fact, it was because there were too many women and the emperor was too busy to handle them all. Men were the best fire extinguishers for women.

Complaint 2: Nagging about eating snacks

Women love to eat snacks because they are lonely. Those concubines in the old times liked to eat melon seeds and gossip about other people's affairs because they lacked nourishment from their husbands. It was a manifestation of loneliness.

Countermeasure: The best antidote to loneliness is of course the coaxing or encouragement of the man you love. The word "拱" may be indecent, as if it is a verb for pigs, but it implies the participation of the five senses and is the most emotional intimacy. Women are emotional. As long as you touch your forehead with her, she will be happy and feel that you are not just after narrow sex, but love.

Complaint 3: Deliberate virtuousness

This is a kind of forbearance, it is the eve of a volcanic eruption, so you must respond quickly, otherwise you will bear the consequences at your own risk. Her humble attitude and hard work are for you to see. In fact, they are meant to touch your heart and make you reward her.

Countermeasure: The easiest way is to hug her from behind when she is washing you with her hands, whisper in her ear or say mushy words, don’t be stingy with your praise or some “dirty” words, she is “righteous” and “too righteous”, at this time, your “evil” is her nectar, which is the complementary effect of yin and yang.

Complaint 4: Illness

She complains of pain and discomfort every other day, but she doesn't go to see a doctor. In fact, she is secretly looking at you, to see how you react, whether you are panicked or concerned. In fact, she may just be feeling "emotional pain", and the pain is mostly in ambiguous places, such as the waist, shoulders, or even buttocks or palpitations.

Countermeasures: You must not take it lightly, you must take it seriously, and it is best to be like an ant on hot pot, and have awareness as if you are facing a formidable enemy. When you are in a hurry, she is happy and secretly pleased.

Complaint 5: Too many social engagements

One day, you find that your wife is busy with colorful things, often wearing women's clothing sold hot on Taobao, and she does it outside of working hours, you should pay attention. She will exaggerate her excitement when answering the phone, and then appear helpless, as if she has endless dances to attend, endless coffee to drink, or endless ball games to play... While she is humming a song and putting on makeup, you are not far away from her.

Countermeasure: She is a drunk woman who is not interested in the wine. She wants you to come over to stop her, which is also a "protest in various ways". Have you not played with her for a long time? Believe me, it is not too late for you to realize it now. You can keep her with just one sentence: "I'm jealous!"

Maybe she was not good at acting coquettish before, but suddenly one day, she pesters you to buy children's food, or starts talking in childish language, or likes to make a fuss, as if she wants to rely on you and stick to you for everything.

Countermeasure: In fact, she has already hinted to you that she needs your hug, like treating your child. She no longer has any defenses, she just wants you to come in, there is no truth, just you.

Complaint 7: More small actions

Pinching you, hitting you, harassing you, touching you... the skin is obviously in a "hungry" state. Women breathe with their skin. How long has it been since you touched her? Caressing can be physical activity or verbal caressing.

Countermeasure: Give her positive compliments, then grab her restless hand, put it to your lips, kiss it, electrify her, and then sense each other. There are no truly wild women in the world, only women who are ignored and desolate by men.