Dear, how long has it been since we enjoyed ourselves like this?

Nearly 60% of couples in China have suffered from "sexual frigidity".

Sexual apathy, medically known as hyposexuality, refers to persistent or recurrent lack of interest in sex, lack of subjective desire for sexual activity, including sexual dreams and, lack of awareness of participating in sexual activity. Sexual indifference is not exclusive to women. Both men and women may have this problem, but each has different causes and characteristics.

If there is no pleasure in sex, women will easily become cold.

Clinically, women who experience sexual apathy are generally younger, mostly under 30 years old. There is a saying in the West that "there are no frigid women, only bad lovers." This reflects that female frigidity is often related to disharmony. If a woman does not fully enjoy the pleasure of sex, and her sex life is of low quality and disharmonious, she will easily lose interest in sex and her sexual desire will decline.

If a man lacks confidence, his sexual desire will decrease.

Male sexual apathy is mostly secondary. The male's sexual desire was normal at first, but later it became worse and worse. The more common reason is that men’s poor erection or premature ejaculation can cause them to feel inferior and doubt their sexual abilities. Sex no longer brings him happiness, but repeated setbacks, guilt, frustration, and disappointment, which ultimately leads to his unwillingness to have sex.

Bad psychology and living habits will affect sexual desire. Regardless of men or women, psychological factors are one of the important reasons leading to low sexual desire, such as outdated sexual concepts, early bad sexual experiences and sexual trauma, wrong and etc. In addition, unhealthy lifestyles such as being too busy at work, having high stress in life, being overworked, smoking, drinking, and staying up late may all lead to a decrease in sexual desire. Finally, some slowness can easily affect sexual desire.

Get to the root of the problem and treat it together as a couple.

Frequency of sexual intercourse is not a reliable criterion for low libido. Once sexual disharmony occurs, it is important to find the root of the problem and treat it accordingly in order to achieve satisfactory results. Most importantly, the couple must actively participate and cooperate with each other for this to be effective.