Are lustful men good men?

Every time he sees a pretty girl, he stares at her and completely ignores your existence. At this time, should you slap him hard and turn around and walk away; or let him go and never do it again? All men will be moved by beauty. After all, everyone loves beautiful things. However, while appreciation is appreciation, there should be a limit to one's behavior. No matter how reasonable his reasons are, or how sweetly he explains his "irresistible impulse", he must not cross the line and create a shadow in your heart and his.

Why can't men help themselves to the point of being so "blatant"? This is not surprising at all. From the male point of view, it's all women's fault.

A hundred years ago, women were wrapped so tightly that men could only see through layers of clothes and could only see the ankles that aroused their imagination. Nowadays, women’s dressing style is bold and revealing, and they are clearly intended to be seen by others. This decade has seen the rise of transparent shirts, either in opaque, shiny materials that catch the eye, or leather that's so cool it's breathtaking.

In addition to showing off sexiness in clothing, women's figures are also better developed than before, their breasts are taller, their bodies are fuller than before, and they are more attractive than before! Body shaping experts and underwear designers are studying all day long how to make women's figures more attractive. The laboratories that research how to make women more beautiful probably spend more money on their military than most developed nations do, and the result? The average man is left helpless and overwhelmed by these deliberately provocative techniques! So, telling your boyfriend not to roll his eyes at a beautiful woman walking by is like telling a five-year-old not to order a McDonald's meal. The people who designed McDonald's meals knew what they were going for, and so did the people who designed the Magic Bra.

You have to understand that although a playboy may always hope to have it all, that is not the same as actually taking his beautiful secretary on vacation. That’s the point: it’s one thing to appreciate beauty, it’s another to act on it. Your boyfriend should know this very well. Lusting after beautiful women is a one-way expression, intended for pure admiration, without expecting any response, let alone any result. In other words, when your boyfriend is staring at another woman, he should, with rare exceptions, not be expecting a response, positive or negative, and he should know when to just stare at the ice cream.

Therefore, even if the process and results are the same every time and no response is expected, men will continue to look around, chasing other women with their eyes, purely enjoying the visual satisfaction. If there is a woman who will turn around and come back to show her goodwill because of this, believe me, it would be strange if the lustful but cowardly man does not run away.