6 Questions in Bed Men Will Never Ask You

When facing their beloved women, most men are good at taking the initiative and often say some blushing and heart-pounding "whispers" in their ears to flirt with them. But in fact, they also have some questions that they want to ask women but dare not ask them. Recently, Canadian and American sexologists jointly conducted an online survey and selected the six major sexual problems that men have been holding back. Understanding them may be beneficial to communication between both parties.

Question 1: During sex, does the longer the caressing last, the better the woman feels?

Answer: Women do like hugging, caressing and intimacy because it takes them longer to become sexually aroused. But the longer the caressing lasts, the better. If a woman is ready but the man is slow to get to the point, it will make the woman feel lost. At the same time, caressing skills are more important than time. Caressing from light to heavy, from "outside" to "inside", only takes 10 minutes to make a woman get into the mood.

Question 2: Will a man wearing a condom affect a woman's pleasure and orgasm?

Answer: Most men feel that wearing a condom is like scratching an itch through a shoe, which will affect the pleasure, especially if the condom is too thick and will be very uncomfortable. But for women, whether men wear condoms during sex or not, they don’t have any special feelings, nor will they

Question 3: Do women like to keep the lights on during sex?

Answer: Women's need for lighting during sex is far less than men's, but most people don't object. During foreplay, women like to turn on dim lights, preferably romantic orange or purple, because this can make them look sexier, and they can also see their lover's excitement and have more eye contact with each other. As sex progresses, women hope the lights can be dimmer, not glaring, so that they can relax and immerse themselves in it, enjoy it to the fullest, and at climax they can shed their shyness and give full play to their abilities. If a woman strongly objects to turning on the lights, it may be because she is not confident about her figure or is very nervous about her sex life. Men should not force her to do so.

Question 4: How do women view some "abnormal" sexual preferences?

Answer: Men always want to try new ways to pursue greater sexual stimulation and pleasure. If the methods he proposes are healthy, hygienic, safe, and can make women happier, most women will gradually accept them. But if the sexual method he wants is too "perverted" or even has a tendency towards sadomasochism, which will cause harm to the person's physical and mental health, then it depends on the individual.

Question 5: Are men more popular with women if they are more aggressive in bed?

Answer: Strong "muscle men" are not liked by women. Most women prefer mature, stable, successful, gentle, kind, responsible, caring men who can give her a sense of security. Such men are truly sexy. Brave men are mostly fictional idols in movies and TV dramas, not women’s true loves.

Question 6: Can women accept men masturbating? Do women masturbate frequently?

Answer: It’s no secret that men masturbate; most women already know about it. If male masturbation does not affect the normal sex life and relationship of the two, then women can accept it. After all, men just use normal means

Get happiness without having affairs with other women. But if a man ignores his wife and hides in the bathroom to amuse himself, the woman will feel hurt. Of course women also masturbate, especially those who have been married for a long time. They understand their bodies better than men and also get pleasure through masturbation. But surveys show that women masturbate much less frequently than men, and most of the time, women regard masturbation as part of foreplay.