Why are men always obsessed with their "hands"

In the lives of men and women in cities, the pressure of social competition is high, life is burdened with a heavy burden, and there is a shadow cast on both the physical and mental aspects. Especially late at night, when their inner physiological needs cannot be released, they will satisfy themselves through masturbation to relieve their inner loneliness and solitude. In fact, only in this way can they fall asleep soundly and greet a new day with full spirits the next day.

Masturbation is not necessarily a substitute for heterosexual intercourse

Of course, sometimes masturbation may be an alternative to couples' sexual life, but not always, because masturbation itself is a unique sexual behavior. In real life, there are many people who often desire sexual intimacy and have a happy sex life, but they still enjoy masturbation.

In a special study abroad, frequent masturbation or other solitary sexual activities are often a factor in a person's higher sexual vitality. In other words, people who masturbate more often may generally have more frequent sexual life with their spouses. At the same time, some people prefer masturbation among various sexual behaviors, and this is not because they are dissatisfied with their sexual life as a couple.

Men and women cannot get satisfaction from sex

In reality, many women cannot reach orgasm when having sex with their husbands. Therefore, many women complain: "Instead of suffering, it is better to take care of myself and satisfy myself." In this case, they often get physical satisfaction and release through masturbation.

Generally speaking, masturbation is very beneficial to women's bodies. It helps them study their body's sexual sensitive areas and better meet their physiological needs. Many survey results have shown that women who have masturbation experience are more likely to orgasm.

If a woman understands her own physiological structure and knows where her excitement points are, she can then independently enjoy orgasm according to the ups and downs of her mood and enjoy the wonderful feeling. She does not have to give up her right to enjoy sexual pleasure just to cater to a man's self-esteem.

Therefore, masturbation is the best shortcut to explore sex and a way to have an intimate dialogue with your own body.

Masturbation can also be done with a partner

During the consultation and treatment activities of sexologists, what they didn't expect was that many couples never talked about masturbation when they talked to each other about sexual issues. Even if they often masturbated secretly, they had to hide it from each other. In fact, if lovers can get rid of their shyness and taboo about masturbation and communicate with each other about masturbation, it will be an important step to improve their married life. Some couples find that masturbating simultaneously or watching their partner masturbate is actually an extremely pleasurable form of sexual activity.

Masturbation can also bring physical satisfaction

If we look at it from a purely physiological perspective, masturbation can indeed provide sexual satisfaction to some people. Of course, if you want a perfect sexual experience, both physical and emotional intimacy with your partner are important, then masturbation may be somewhat lacking. However, masturbation often provides some people, especially some women, with the possibility of regular self-stimulation, and masturbation can often bring them more intense orgasms than sexual intercourse. This also allows some effective stimulation techniques for masturbation to be transferred to sex life with your partner. However, a survey shows that one-third of college students still believe that masturbation is the best substitute for sexual intercourse; about half of college students point out that masturbation is enjoyable and an effective way to relieve anxiety.

Masturbation does not lead to homosexual behavior

Many people question whether masturbation can affect a person's sexual orientation and lead to homosexuality. This is probably because masturbation is the pleasure a person gets from his or her own genitals and associates it with sexual pleasure obtained from the same sex. This is totally unfounded. The reality is that all heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual people masturbate.

Masturbation is not necessary

Some people, especially some men, believe that lack of orgasm will cause harm to the human body. They worry that the accumulation of sperm or semen, or not reaching orgasm and ejaculating after erection, will endanger health. In fact, the human body's ability to produce sperm and its sexual vitality are mutually adapted. When the semen is full, it will overflow. The human body will regulate itself and does not necessarily have to discharge the semen. Therefore, although masturbation has certain positive significance in people's sexual experience, it is not essential for the physical and psychological development and perfection.