The ten most heinous crimes committed by men are really outrageous

Based on the investigation of the editorial department and the valuable experience contributed by Chinese and foreign netizens, we have compiled the following ten taboos for lovers to get along with each other. Knowing how to avoid mistakes is sometimes more important than knowing how to fall in love.

Bad behavior 1: Inviting at the last minute

It is not considered rude for a man and a woman to meet at 7pm and immediately make an appointment to meet again at 9pm. The feeling of suddenly wanting to see the other person is actually quite touching. But if he says something like this: "Hey! I had an appointment with a friend to have dinner, but we canceled it at the last minute. Are you free now?" This kind of person will certainly be annoying.

Evil act 2: Mentioning the ex-girlfriend

This is perhaps the most common mistake lovers make. Saying good things about his ex-girlfriend in front of you means that he has not fully accepted the fact of the breakup. If someone criticizes his ex in front of you, it means that if you break up with him in the future, he will not think much of you in his eyes either. The best way is to never mention what happened in your previous relationship.

Evil act three: rushing to the bathroom

Leaping off your bed and running to the bathroom isn't a bad thing, unless he does it within four seconds of you both finishing your business. What does this mean? Is he trying to say, "I feel so dirty, I need to wash myself clean quickly?" The above plot appeared in the TV series "Sex and the City". It was funny when acted out, but if you meet someone with this kind of bathing fetish in real life, I'm afraid you will find it hard to laugh.

Bad behavior No. 4: Taking out the condom too early or too late

The following is an unpleasant experience left by a netizen. She went on her first date with a super cute boy. They met at a pub at 11pm. They were both feeling pretty good at 1am. She was mentally prepared to kiss him on the mouth, but he said, "Let's go! I have everything you need with me." She asked, "What are you talking about?" The boy replied, "Condoms!" What do these boys think of girls? However, this serious mistake at least has one good point: it lets girls know you're a fool sooner so they don't have to waste their time hanging out with you.

Alternatively, there is a situation that is even worse than the previous one. You have been dating a guy for a while, and tonight the time and place are right, and you are bound to develop a more intimate relationship. Everything is going well, you take off your clothes, lie down comfortably, hug each other happily, until... in the darkness you suddenly hear his voice: "Did you think of what I was thinking of? Because I forgot!"

You have already invited him to your home, so do you still need to keep ultra-thin sensitive condoms in the drawer of your bedside table? You are not a professional in the sex industry. At this time, you'd better stand up, put on your clothes, and ask him to go home by himself. If you can't take out a condom at a critical moment, it means you lack the ability to survive!

Evil act 5: There is only one helmet on the motorcycle

This is a personal experience of a colleague and friend. She was dating a popular variety show host, and he offered to give her a ride home. Unexpectedly, his vehicle was not a car but a motorcycle, and there was only a helmet on the vehicle, and it was drizzling that night... But all these were tolerable, as the girl was willing to take his vehicle anyway.

But who should wear the helmet? Of course it’s a man. His reason is: “I don’t want to be photographed by the paparazzi.” So the girl called a taxi and went home. Later, when the boy called her again, she was unwilling to answer the phone!

Bad behavior 6: Looking elsewhere while kissing

Is there anything more embarrassing than seeing a couple kissing in public in a crowded public place? The answer is that the man looks at you while they are kissing, as if he is extremely interested in you.

We can all agree that where to look when kissing is a real problem, staring at each other with noses in the middle guaranteed to make your eyes go out of focus. Close your eyes, please! It feels like I'm watching a Qiong Yao TV series. But the standard answer is to choose only one between the above two.

Evil Deed 7: Giving You Second-Hand Gifts

In a beautiful box lies a ring, a pair of candlesticks or a sweater, but something is wrong: although the gift is in pristine condition, the wrapping paper seems a little wrinkled. Because this gift was not originally bought for you, but for my ex-girlfriend. It’s just that she left too early and didn’t have time to accept this gift.

After you discovered this secret, you couldn't help but pass the gift on, as if it could spread a disease, but you forgot that he also knew the person who received the gift. On some unfortunate occasion, everyone finally discovers that this gift has been recycled so many times, which will make the person who originally bought it and the person who finally received it as depressed as you.

Refusing to disclose important details

Vice 8: What are the important details? Children, pets, wife, husband, and anyone who depends on you. Hiding these details can have negative consequences when you're planning on developing a deeper relationship with someone.

If you insist on this low-key style, the two of you will have to find a secret place among strangers to "make love". For the other person who is honest with you, this will not only hurt the feelings, but also be unfair. By the same token, if he only starts introducing his friends and family to you after you have been dating for more than half a year, this person may be hiding an important secret from you. Be careful!

Vice 9: Being too open

Here's what happened to Susan. While on vacation in the summer, Susan met a middle-aged man named George, who was as handsome as George Clooney, but not as lustful as him. Their love at first sight was so beautiful that it seemed unrealistic; they talked sweetly for two hours under a tree in the park, and their eyes never left each other until the sun set. He said he was an architect, had no children, and was recently divorced…

How could such a good thing happen in the world? Susan had a hunch that there must be something fishy going on. Sure enough, when they were about to meet, George said, "Come to my house tonight. You might as well bring a good friend with you. I am very keen on playing threesomes."

Evil Deed 10: Not Calling or Calling

The situation is this: two people have been dating for a while, and one of them wants to break up, so he unilaterally decides to completely cut off contact. When you call his house, the answer is always a recorder. His cell phone number has changed, and he avoids any place you might go. How do you feel when you meet someone like that? It's sad enough to find out you once loved a jerk, but it's even worse when that jerk is a coward!

If not calling is an unforgivable evil, in some cases calling is even worse. There is a kind of person who is specifically persistent and will call you every time he passes by your house to say hello, or he will fill up your voicemail. No matter where you are in the office, on the road, in a restaurant, or even in the bathroom, he will find a way to catch up with you... Isn't this kind of person annoying enough? There is something even worse than this, that is, if he is your ex-boyfriend.