Flirting or thinking about your ex? 8 things men want to do behind your back

There are some things that men don't want their girlfriends to know, and the more you keep

The more you try to control him, the more he wants to escape. In some cases, you may even find that you are lying on the same bed, but when you close your eyes, you are thinking of two different worlds. Perhaps it is not that you understand him less and less, but that all of him is not what you think.

Just as perfect as you imagined. You hope that he doesn't smoke, doesn't drink, and has healthy living habits; you hope that he will be devoted to you and only love you; you hope that he won't fool around or become depraved. But in fact, men always want to have their own space.

There are always some things that I don’t want my girlfriend to know. Let’s take a look at 8 things men want to do behind your back.

1. Develop an ambiguous relationship

Men are never satisfied, they always look forward to the pot while eating from their bowl. No matter how well their wives do, they will still think that their wives are not perfect enough and that other people's wives are better. So they will develop some ambiguous relationships behind women's backs, which may be between colleagues or between friends.

Although men have those thoughts of cheating, many men have the desire but not the courage. Even if they have the courage to take action, they only do it briefly to satisfy their desire, and they still want a complete family in their hearts. Therefore, many times men will only flirt with other girls through their cell phones or QQ behind women's backs.

2. Missing the good things about your ex-girlfriend

An ex-girlfriend is a wound in a woman's heart and is regarded as a love rival. Many men will say that they have no contact with their ex-girlfriends anymore. But if you think about it, no one can completely erase the memories of the past. After the two of you have a quarrel, he will quietly miss the good things about his ex-girlfriend and compare you with his ex-girlfriend.

Men never have only one relationship, and they always miss their ex-girlfriends from time to time. Some men will even go so far as to hide their relationship from their ex-girlfriends.

3. Save private money

Men become bad when they have money, so many women will not let men have enough money. The money that men earn with great effort must be handed over to women for safekeeping, or in other words, one person earns money for two people to use. Women all follow one principle: what's yours is mine, and what's mine is still mine.

However, men need to socialize and develop some ambiguous relationships, which all require money. Therefore, many men want to secretly keep some money that women don’t know about. Only by keeping some private money can a man’s private space become larger and larger.

If a man tells you that he will only love you for the rest of his life, then he is definitely lying to you. In this society, people believe that it is rare to have a man who has a red flag flying at home and colorful flags flying outside. Therefore, many men are willing to take on the challenge and try their abilities to see if they can handle the relationship between the two women at home and outside the home.

Men all want to have three wives and four concubines, so they will develop another relationship behind the woman's back and seek a romantic affair. It is said that it is men's nature to seek a spouse. There are always many men who have the idea of ​​having an affair even after they have a good woman. Of course, this must not be known to women, so you must be vigilant.

4. Find a confidante

When you are in love, you find that you can talk about anything; but after getting married, you will find that you have fewer common topics, you talk yours and he plays his, and there is no intersection.

Men feel that the women at home are too nagging and always talk about trivial matters, and they have no idea what they are thinking. So men need to find a confidante who can listen to them.

No matter good or bad things, you can tell them all out loud, turning them into your own mental trash can. She would listen quietly and give some constructive advice when necessary, unlike the women at home who would talk endlessly.

5. Thinking about other women

When he goes out on the street with a woman, he will secretly look at other women. When watching TV, he will stare at the sexy girls on TV... He will pretend to look around and always pretend that he is not focusing. You think he is doing nothing, but actually he is looking at other women.

6. Go out and fool around

You set a certain time for your man to be home at night, and if he goes out to play, he must call you to report... Under your strict discipline, he dare not do anything inappropriate, but in his heart he really wants to go out and fool around with his friends.

Men always like to go out in a large group to have fun, play rock-paper-scissors, drink, pick up girls, and do whatever they want. Because he usually receives your strict discipline, his mind is very depressed and he also wants to go out and release it. Go out and fool around, escape from your jurisdiction, and see beautiful women at the same time. You can kill two birds with one stone. Why not do it?

7. Smoking

Smoking is harmful to health, this is a truth known to everyone, but there are some men who, knowing that smoking is harmful to health, still choose to go there.

Many women don't like their boyfriends or husbands smoking, so they will desperately ask men to quit smoking. A more submissive man will say "OK, OK, I won't smoke anymore", but in fact he is still smoking.

end. No wonder he refused to have women present when he was with his brothers, because only when he was with his brothers could he enjoy masturbation. You are not a man, you don't know what smoking means to a man.

At that time, all the troubles will be put into the smoke and disappear.

8. Going on a date alone with a friend of the opposite sex

If you go on a date with a friend of the opposite sex and your girlfriend is next to you, it feels very weird and a bit ambiguous. So, when dating female friends, men will make up an excuse. Even if they are just ordinary friends, he would not bring women with him when dating his "ordinary friends". God knows what they do when they are alone.

In fact, as a woman you can guess what they will do, but it is not easy for you to expose them in person. Men are like this. They will always have a plan to deal with you. So, give him some space, maybe you will gain more. Why make him do everything in secret?