How many women does a man need to sleep with in his lifetime to be considered worthwhile?

When talking about the topic of cheating, there are always some men and women who insist on the rationality of cheating. In their opinion, a person should experience more opposite sexes in his or her life. In the eyes of these men, this means sleeping with more women, and in the eyes of these women, this means sleeping with more men. This view, which seems to respect human rights and humanity, is actually completely untenable. I remember that some people used to think that "a woman's life is worth it only if she sleeps with a few men". This is really ridiculous!

Of course people cannot live without sex

But people cannot consider the issue only from the perspective of natural sex. Essentially, there is no question of who sleeps with whom between men and women. Does the more men a woman sleeps with, the more worthwhile she is as a woman? When a woman thinks she is sleeping with a man, isn't the man also sleeping with the woman? The same is true in reverse. Sleeping is mutual. Have women ever thought that when you think like this, it seems that your life is very worthwhile, but in fact you are invisibly degrading yourself. It is not something to be proud of. The more you sleep, it only proves that you are promiscuous and that you are just an animal in heat, because the value of a person's life does not lie here. Men and women cannot live without sex, but they do not live for sex. The value of a person's life lies in love.

How many women does a man have to experience to be considered enough? How many men does a woman have to experience to be considered enough? How many opposite sexes does a person have to experience to be considered enough?

Life itself is a journey

"Experience" is always the main theme of life, isn't it? We experience family, friendship, love, happiness, hardships, joy, and pain. Without experience, there is no life. A life with experience is a rich life. Otherwise, our trip to this world would be in vain. We grow up through experience, we mature through experience, and we learn to think through experience. Men experience women, women experience men, and through this experience we understand what true love is and learn how to love. But experience is by no means equal to sleeping with more people of the opposite sex!

Some people say, who says that married people with families can't fall in love?

Some men change their lovers one by one, and some women also change their so-called confidants one by one. Of course, after all the changes, her home is still the same home, but the original home has lost its passion. In their opinion, experiencing a few more men is nothing to be surprised about. This is what life is, a rich and meaningful life. But is it true? Maybe, maybe not, I became a little confused.

That's right, who says married people can't fall in love?

Only through experience can one understand love, and only through wind and rain can one see the rainbow. But is this the kind of experience we want? Is it just for the sake of experience? I do not deny this statement: Only a woman who has experienced all the vicissitudes of life can truly love a man. But experiencing vicissitudes of life does not mean deliberately creating vicissitudes of life. Vicissitudes of life and experience cannot be created. What is the meaning of dating men countless times for the sake of so-called life experience and rich love? The most essential feature of love is not quantity but quality, which is length + depth!

Talk about love constantly

Women keep changing men, and men keep changing women. It seems that they are soaking in the honey pot of love every day, but they never taste what true love is. Maybe they have experienced a lot of the opposite sex by the time they die, but the sad thing is that they have never figured out what love is, and have never really won the heart of a person of the opposite sex. It is ridiculous to think that holding the hand of the opposite sex and kissing him/her is love.

People have always asked, what is the highest realm of love?

Of course, everyone has their own answer. But I think that there is no need for too many profound theories or pretense of sophistication. Love is something in human bones. There is no need to deliberately create anything. The heart will follow love. Without love, the heart is like a kite without a string. It flies wherever it wants. It seems to have experienced mountains, rivers and seas, but in the end it knows nothing and has nothing. It can ultimately not escape the fate of falling into the ground and the sea.

Love is simple and unadorned.

It’s just because there are always people who deliberately exaggerate or even create it, that love has so many flashy and superficial appearances. What is true love? What is the highest realm of love? In fact, it is not that complicated. Loving someone for a lifetime and growing old together is just like the song goes, "The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you." This is the true meaning of love, the essence of true love, and the highest realm of love. It's that simple.

But how many people can achieve such a simple love in real life?

When a woman asks, "How many men do I have to go through to be enough?", have we ever thought about how to love? Can we not think about the question of "how many men" but instead think about the question of what love is for? Otherwise, when we lose our inner essence, love becomes lost. We are human beings with too many desires. When we indulge in the quantity of love blindly, we have completely fallen into the trap of wrong love. After all, life is dull. "Sex" can satisfy us temporarily but not forever. People will always grow old. When love is drowned in the dull life, the passion buried deep in our hearts will always unconsciously want to find another emotional outlet. So we fall into an endless vicious circle, which also leads to endless distress and tossing.

Life can't stand repeated tossing, and so can love

Endless tossing and turning buries not only marriage but also love. Marriage may be able to start over, but when love is exhausted and buried, what do we have left? Tossing and turning makes us restless, tossing and turning makes our lives so pale, tossing and turning makes us miss true love again and again. When youth is gone, when love is dead, when we have tossed and turned enough, we will die. The fear is that we will not be able to smile in the afterlife, and we will not be able to explain to the King of Hell. How can we have the face to start a new life in the next life?

Women may inevitably experience several more men

It is inevitable that a man will experience several more women. Experience will certainly make you understand love better and learn to cherish love, but deliberate experience is destined to break the wings of true love. You must know that finding the person you truly love and holding hands with her for a lifetime is the true nature of love and the hard truth of love. It's just like that when lovers change, the smart ones are those who know how to cherish what they have and fully enjoy love.