How to caress a woman more effectively

1. Hairline Landing Battle

The roots of a woman's hair (hairline) are a psychological erogenous zone, which is very sensitive to external stimulation. It is best to give her a surprise attack when she thinks you are focusing your attention on other parts of her body. When touching her hairline, be careful not to scratch her fragile scalp with your fingernails. Use the pads of your finger and try not to touch her skin directly. Instead, give her a subtle touch like a dragonfly kissing the water to enhance her psychological excitement. If she still doesn't understand, you can compare your hands to soft feathers. If you want to enhance the effect, when the woman is enjoying having her hairline touched, you can say something like "You are so beautiful!" to make her mood even better.

2. Don’t miss the opportunity on the lower back

This area can also be attacked, for example, you can suddenly ask your female partner to lie prone and then massage this area. Sari Locker, author of "The Complete Idiot's Guide to Amazing Sex," said that there are many nerve endings and many places where pressure accumulates. Massage can help relieve stress and feel good. The proper way to massage is to use your fingertips to massage the area with moderate force and steady rhythm. If the woman enjoys it, you can increase the force slightly. If you like, you can give her a few kisses on the back to make her body relax naturally and gradually eliminate her resistance to sex.

3. No need to snap your fingers to achieve magical powers

There is no other innovative way to play with the fingers and toes except sucking. However, you can try kissing or sucking the woman's fingers while having sex. Dr. Lonnie Barbach, a psychologist and sex therapist, points out that the combined touch of the hands or feet and the genitals can produce incredible pleasure, and some women can even get orgasm just from toe massage.

4. A stronghold that is not affected by hard forces but by soft forces

There are some parts of the body that women desire to be gently touched by caressing, light kissing, licking or even blowing. These parts include the back of the knees, the inside of the arms and thighs, and the neck. Because these areas contain very soft tissues, they must never be treated roughly. As for one of the offensive methods, you can use your fingers to caress from top to bottom, stimulating in a straight line, which can arouse a woman's sexual desire, especially from the calf to the thigh. Then it is a good time to take off her stockings and underwear!

5. The kiss that will take her to the seventh heaven

Kissing is almost an inevitable action for lovers to be intimate, but people take it for granted and often kiss casually or even insufficiently, ignoring the effect of kissing on sexual desire. It turns out that there are many nerves concentrated in the tongue and mucous membrane of the lips, which are areas of high sexual sensitivity. Therefore, the lips are called the "second sexual organ". If the mouth is successfully attacked, it can increase women's excitement. Dr. Bernie Zilbergeld, a sex therapist in Oakland, USA, pointed out that women love kissing, but many of them complain that their male partners do not spend enough time kissing them. He also pointed out that the man should not only increase the quantity (duration), but also improve the quality. For example, he can kiss his female partner gently at first, then gradually become more intense, and then slow down in the heat and return to the gentle kissing state. Repeat this process over and over to vary the intensity of the kiss.

To give the woman a satisfying kissing process and conquer the fortress of her mouth, you can first start with light kisses on her cheeks and hair to make her get used to being kissed. Then, start again lightly with a touch of lips. Before kissing, you need to moisten your lips to give the other person a gentle feeling. Of course, you must be careful to eliminate bad breath beforehand to avoid losing your sexual desire due to nausea.

Then tilt your head and face so that the contact point between the lips is deeper. From the initial light contact to pressing the woman's lips, then gently sucking. Gently clamp the woman's lips with your own lips, lick them with your tongue, etc. If the woman's lips begin to move, gently slide your tongue into her mouth and lick her upper gums and the inside, or lick her tongue.

In this way, the female's sexual desire will be greatly increased. Not only her lips but also her entire body will be tightened. At this time, you can hug the other person tightly, kiss him and then grab his fingers. The palms of your hands will begin to sweat, which can also be said to be a sign of the wetness of the female's vaginal love fluid. After kissing her lips, you can move on to her cheeks, eyelids, forehead, earlobes and nose bridge. The caressing hand can take the opportunity to move to the back, hair, buttocks, breasts and other more erogenous zones. Then you can caress while removing the other person's clothes in a leisurely atmosphere.

Although breasts and buttocks are important erogenous zones for women, their male partners will not let them go easily. As for these two areas that excite most men, what other ways are there to make them feel better while satisfying their own pleasure?

6. Don’t be too rough when you’re on a mountain top

Caressing may not be the main source of female orgasm, but it is definitely an important key to enhancing the overall feeling. but. The biggest mistake men tend to make is to only care about the feel of their hands. Giving too much pressure and not knowing how to treat women's breasts gently.

Overstimulation of women's breasts around the time of their menstrual period can cause them to feel numbness or pain. Linda DeVillers, a sex therapist in California, believes that it is a more desirable approach to touch gently first, then deliberately stop for a while and let go, so that women have greater expectations.

Michael Seiler, another sex therapist in Chicago, reminds us that breasts are full of nerve endings, so don't just focus on caressing a woman's nipples. In addition, don't stimulate the nipples directly if the woman is not sexually aroused. Also, avoid always using the same way of caressing. Once they get used to this kind of stimulation, they will become numb to it, so you should use a variety of different stimulation methods. For example, you can first use the pads of four fingers to draw circles, rubbing and massaging from the inside to the outside, and then start spiral caressing for better results.

When caressing, the rhythm should be constantly changed. The technique can also be changed from making circles with the fingers to gently kneading with the whole hand, and the fingers can lightly pinch the nipple and caress slowly, like playing a musical instrument, sometimes louder and sometimes softer, but still remember not to use too much force. Of course, in addition to using your hands, you can also use your tongue and lips. Use your lips to gently suck the nipple, and then use your tongue to rotate there.

7. Buttocks can speed up sexual intercourse

The last checkpoint before the genitals is the buttocks, known as the "15th of August". As long as you conquer this part, you will be able to enter the forbidden area. Compared to the chest, the buttocks can bear greater pressure, and many women also like their male partners to apply a little force to this area. Dr. Zilbergeld pointed out that we don't apply pressure to the hat, but we can use it on the buttocks, which are not as sensitive as nipples or clitoris, so we can pinch or squeeze the buttocks without any problem. Of course, this does not mean that we can do it with brute force.

For the buttocks, we can also use the circular method and imagine that this area is like two balls of white and tender flour to rub, especially near the center of the buttocks. This area is very sensitive, so use the index finger and middle finger to press from the anus toward the waist. The feeling produced will make women desire sexual intercourse earlier.