How to confess your love to the boy you like

They went on quite a few dates, and everyone who saw them said they were a good couple. You both know the truth, but you just can't wait for him to say "Let's date". Are you also troubled by this kind of ambiguous relationship that is not yet a lover? An article on a Japanese website on April 14 classified these boys and taught you how to deal with them effectively and defeat them one by one!

The three types of boys are:

A. He has no interest in women and only goes on dates to be polite;

B. Want to be a couple with the other person, but afraid of being rejected and unable to speak up;

C. I just want to marry the beauty, not her love or affection.

Men like Type A, who have no interest in women, may also flirt with women in the workplace, but then continue working as if nothing happened. They seldom attend parties, unless they are dragged into it by someone else.

This type of men are always not very enthusiastic about women, and may even say things like "I have something to do today, I have to go back first" during a date, and they don't have the ambition to win the other person over during a date. Type B men often get nervous and their hearts beat fast, but Type A men have no idea what is nervous, and they don’t know everything about women like Type C men. Because they don't try to catch women's attention, they don't know how to be considerate, and they won't make flirtatious glances, say nice words, or hold hands.

Once you master these, you can identify whether the other person is type A. We will talk about how to deal with type A next time. This time, let’s first look at how to test the relationship between the two and how men of types B and C should deal with it.

1. Proactive approach

Regardless of whether type B and C men are humorous, they definitely have their own way of humor. Also, regardless of whether what they say is funny, you definitely want to have a fun conversation. Why not start by praising them from the bottom of your heart?

When dealing with type B and C men, it is completely fine to be appropriately proactive. For example, when you take the initiative to ask him out, when you look at the menu together, you consciously get closer to his face, and when you go to sing karaoke together, you sit close to him. There is nothing wrong with intimate skin contact.

Don't say anything negative, not only to him, but also to the artist, because your behavior will make him feel scared. What you need to do is to treat him like a kitten, with love and understanding.

When he's passionate, it's okay to get closer, whether it's texting him all night or talking on the phone for a long time. But when he is not very enthusiastic, don't be overly active, and make sure you contact him less frequently than he does. Even so, keep it fun when you meet and chat. When he becomes passionate again, don't respond to him immediately. It's better to take the initiative slowly.

2. Learn to guide before confession

Never take the initiative to confess to type B or C men, and it is also necessary to keep a certain distance when establishing a romantic relationship. "He hasn't confessed his feelings to me yet", "He is always passive in relationships", "He doesn't make any loving gestures", "He won't try to keep me together even after we break up". Even if you have so many complaints, never take the initiative to take that step. Even if the other person has the same idea about you, you don’t need to do anything, just say “I won’t confess either.”

And when he finally musters up the courage to say it and breathes a sigh of relief, you can just respond with "I'm glad to have you."

Not only should you let him know that you will never confess your feelings, but you should also let him know that "you will not reject his confession." Because he can't speak out of fear of being rejected. As long as he understands your efforts, the day of confession will not be far away.

3. Break up if there is no progress for half a year

If he doesn't show any intention of getting closer to you after you have followed method 1, then you can determine that he is a type C male. Men who don’t go on dates and don’t reply to text messages are probably type C men. Next, if there is still no response after you try method B, then he must be type C. Men like this are not worthy of your relationship at all.

The reason why he is judged to be type C is that he may already have a girlfriend, and your appearance and age may not be to his taste at all. If you are dating someone who doesn't want to treat you as a lover, you will not get a response even if you try your best to implement methods 1 and 2 to the fullest. Type C men may confess their love and start a relationship only after they decide that "after having had a relationship, it must be a formal relationship."

On the contrary, when you take the initiative to confess your feelings, he is likely to use some sweet words to evade the question. This kind of interaction that is only based on physical relationship will only evolve into sexual partners.

After that, he might say, "I'm dating you because you confessed to me at that time," which is nothing but a lie. His sweet talk to so many women was nothing more than a pretentious deception.

Finally, our advice to women is not to get entangled with type B or C men for more than half a year. No matter how warm and sweet the relationship between the two of you is, as long as he doesn't show any expression within half a year, choose to let go and leave him. These are the coping strategies we have summarized for type B and C men. I hope they can be helpful to you.