Why do men have to bring a female companion when they socialize?

In life or on the screen, we often see many men asking some "lesbians" to accompany them when they go out for social events. If they go out for dinner or a cocktail party, they will bring their wives or girlfriends. In short, they must bring a woman. Women are like a necessity for men in social activities, a companion.

Men need listeners

Men have a strong desire for control in their hearts, and they are good at using interruptions to express their desire for control and dominance. Therefore, in many social gatherings, you can see that men like to interrupt more than women, reflecting men's stronger desire for control.

In interpersonal communication, no one really likes people who like to interrupt. Most people like to have a listener. In social gatherings, the other party is also a person with a desire for control and dominance. If two men with strong dominance meet each other, it will be like a collision between Mars and the Earth, and will not produce good results. When listening to the other person talking about long and tedious principles, men usually can't help but interrupt the other person and interject to express their own opinions. Women, however, often force themselves to wait patiently for the other person to finish speaking before expressing their own thoughts. At this time, a woman who knows how to hide her inner desire for control within the scope of "politeness" can always win more favor from the other party.

Lively atmosphere

Socializing requires a very good atmosphere. If the atmosphere is not good, many big deals will be difficult to close. Generally speaking, the way men are best at livening up the atmosphere is to get everyone drinking, which is a headache. But women are different. They are born with the ability to liven up the atmosphere. Singing a song or dancing can liven up the atmosphere at the negotiation table.

With a woman around to liven up the atmosphere, conversations between men don't sound so tiring. A smart woman usually knows how to speak and listen. She knows when to listen and when to speak. This greatly satisfies the negotiating partner's desire for dominance and control, allowing the other party to feel their leadership position, and their activeness makes social occasions full of laughter and joy, without any dull moments.