6 secrets that women dare not tell in bed

Whether women are sexually active or not is different from whether they are sexually positive and proactive. Women are by no means passive when it comes to sex. However, women can only express it in a more obscure and implicit way, so men should be careful not to miss the shy moment of women and bring trouble upon themselves.

1. Lighting

Most women believe that in the dark they can feel a wider sexual space, can better think about many pleasant and exciting things, and thus be more excited. The eyes can't see - women are used to having sex with their eyes closed. Everything will be left to the body's senses, allowing them to focus more on sex. Another important reason is that most women are worried that their faces will become ugly due to excitement, and in the dark, these will be concealed.

2. Have a fantasy object

Most women admit that if a sexual intimacy is neither enjoyable nor successful, they usually wonder: how did it end like this? Otherwise, they may indulge in their own sexual fantasies. If they think of other men at this time, it is often the man they like or the male celebrity. Sometimes this imagination makes them very excited, and sometimes nothing happens.

3. Mighty Man

For women, what kind of man is the sexiest, most charming, powerful and brave. Women in today's society prefer men who are gentle, kind, proactive, successful in their careers and responsible, because such men can give them more sense of security, dependence and trust. Most women also admit that such men are truly sexy, charming and fascinating.

4 Patterns

Men are always not satisfied with the habitual sexual positions and caressing methods, and always want to try new things in order to pursue greater stimulation and pleasure. In fact, modern women are generally no longer averse to this in their cognition and actions, because they also have the need to pursue new and exciting things.

But one premise must be adhered to, that is, they believe that this sexual posture and caressing method is healthy, hygienic, safe, and can make themselves happier, and will never cause any harm to their physical and mental health.

5. Condoms

Men often don't like condoms, as they think it reduces pleasure. But for women, they don't have any special feelings.

However, sometimes women wonder whether the condom has slipped off. This is entirely for the purpose of contraception and prevention of sexually transmitted diseases. Of course, there would be no pleasure in having sex if there was a risk of an unwanted pregnancy or a sexually transmitted disease.

6 Active

Although people's concepts have become much more open, in people's minds, a good woman is one who is gracious, dignified and gentle, especially one who is calm, steady and restrained in sexual life. This makes most women unwilling to be so ostentatious and open about their sexuality.

In fact, whether women are sexually active or not is different from whether they are sexually positive and proactive. Women are by no means passive when it comes to sex. However, women can only express it in a more obscure and implicit way.