There is a time period for men to change their minds

As the phenomenon of extramarital affairs becomes more and more serious, "mistresses" are becoming more and more "not to be underestimated" and even "extremely arrogant". Many men who cheat after marriage tend to have the idea of ​​"getting tired of the old and loving the new" and abandoning their "stubborn wives" to stay with their mistresses forever. There are as many temptations for men as there are women in society. Men's love of beauty is like taking drugs. Once addicted, it is difficult to quit. They may even forget the nature and responsibilities of their marriage and do something immoral. A smart woman will keep men away from the poison of beauty, while a stupid woman will only keep men away from herself.

Love shelf life: seven months

When you are in love, a day apart feels like a long time, and you want to stick with you every day. But when they really entered the palace of marriage and faced each other every day, they found that distance creates beauty. They felt annoyed and loved to find fault with each other every day. Just as food has a shelf life, love also has a shelf life. Scientific research has found that the shelf life of love between men and women is only seven months. From falling in love to the honeymoon, the honeymoon period is also only a few months.

After getting married, the way they get along and their relationship have undergone a qualitative change. From lovers who met several times a week, they have become a couple who spend every day together, and their mentality has also changed. Even if you loved each other madly at first, time will make everything calm. Who wouldn't get bored in a peaceful and dull life day after day? At this time, if there are some beautiful temptations around a man, who can resist?

Therefore, after the shelf life of love has expired, it is necessary to appropriately create some romance and surprises to brighten the man's eyes and bring back the sense of freshness, which can extend the shelf life of love.

Average time to change one’s mind: 3 years

A survey shows that the average period for a man to get to know a woman, from freshness and passion to boredom, is three years.

Psychology believes that it is human nature to get tired of the old and love the new. The monkey picked up sesame seeds and lost the watermelon, Chen Shimei abandoned his wife for fame and fortune... Maybe you will say that if there were not so many external temptations, you would definitely not get tired of the old and love the new. However, people have thoughts and feelings, and many people will use their reason and emotions to overcome the inherent weaknesses of human nature and remain loyal. Even though they were tempted, reason eventually overcame emotion and they pulled themselves back from the brink, thus avoiding the breakdown of their family and marriage.

3 years, generally couples will have children three years after marriage. When the once lovely girlfriend becomes a nagging housewife who is out of shape due to childbirth, the man’s good wishes for the woman are shattered. She no longer has only herself in her eyes, and the focus of her life shifts more to the children. The feeling of not being valued pushes men to take risks and cheat.

The Seven-Year Itch

The seven-year itch is the biggest test for a marriage. If your marriage can successfully pass the seven-year test, then congratulations, your marriage will continue to go on peacefully. However, countless marriages stop at the seven-year threshold.

In today's world where extramarital affairs are becoming more and more rampant, a marriage that can last for seven years is considered a remarkable marriage, and the man is a sensible and good man who deserves praise. After seven years, the man has gone through the preservation period of love, the honeymoon period of marriage, the adjustment period of marriage, and has entered the period of cheating. In the first few years after marriage, with the birth of children, although the novelty of the wife has worn off, the man has more responsibilities towards the family. Reason makes them accompany their wives to nurture the new life wholeheartedly and look forward to a beautiful new life.

Seven years have passed, and the child has grown into a toddler. From being cute when he was a child, he has become naughty as a toddler. The increase in family expenses, the contradiction in the way of educating the child, the conflicts between husband and wife and other issues have forced the man to change his heart.

In this complicated world, love stories are played out every day, and some people abandon their old loves and find new ones. Do you know what to do to understand the time period when men change their minds? If you nip the signs of men changing their minds in the bud before they change their minds, you can enjoy a happy love.