Women are confused: How bad can a man who always carries a condom be?

My boyfriend and I met four months ago and our relationship developed very quickly. He is my ideal husband, tall, handsome and successful in his career, and most importantly, he loves me very much. So far, we haven't had sex. But a few days ago, I accidentally found a condom in my boyfriend's pocket!

Do you think men who carry condoms with them are bad men?

If I find that this man always carries condoms with him, I will definitely think that there is something wrong with him. Not to mention having sex with him, it would be worth considering whether I should continue to associate with him in the future. Men who carry condoms with them cannot be trusted

I think it is impossible for a normal and good man to carry condoms with him all the time. After all, it is a very personal item and it can easily cause misunderstandings.

On the one hand, I would think that this man is very frivolous. Perhaps, he is dating me just because he has sex on his mind all the time. He is just waiting for the right opportunity. Because this opportunity is uncertain, he always carries props with him.

Secondly, I would doubt the character of this man. Does he have many women? Does he have many love affairs? Does he have several relationships at the same time when he is dating me? Or does he have sex with any woman at will?

I believe that many women have the same idea as me, not because women are naturally suspicious, nor because their thoughts are conservative and feudal. Apart from anything else, convenience stores can be found everywhere nowadays, right? Just take a few steps in the streets and alleys, and you can be sure that there will be a convenience store within 5 minutes.

As society develops, people's mindsets have become more open. Condoms can be bought in any convenience store. As for a grown man, does he carry condoms with him like a talisman every day? Could it be that he can't wait even for five minutes when he is in a hurry? In this case, this man either regards his girlfriend as a tool for venting his emotions, he must be a nymphomaniac; or does his passion fade away after five minutes? In this case, this man either has a psychological problem, he must have a sexual dysfunction.

Whatever the assumption, whatever the excuse, it is an abnormal phenomenon for a man to be fully equipped and ready at all times. Men always like to attribute the answers to all problems to the word "love", but the fact is often that not everything can be explained by "just one word: love".

Western philosophers say that a woman’s IQ drops to zero once she falls in love. I want to say that not all women are like this, I am not one of them. After all, for a woman, love is her soul and the body is part of her soul. The moment you give your soul to someone else, you must think carefully before doing so. A woman who is committed to love and responsible for herself will only give herself to a reliable man and will never be blinded by a sudden burst of passion.

A responsible man who truly loves a woman must give his girlfriend the utmost honesty and respect. For the final step of having sex, you must get the woman's permission and consent. This is the most basic courtesy of a gentleman.

I don't know whether wearing a condom at all times is an offense or indecent, but what is certain is that men like this are basically hard to trust. To entrust yourself to such a person is undoubtedly equivalent to pushing yourself to the edge of a cliff.

Woman, your name is picky

A long time ago, Confucius once said: "Only villains and women are difficult to raise." How prescient it was. I just don't understand why women are so picky.

Nowadays, there are so few men who are willing to wear condoms. Carrying a condom with you means that the man is gentlemanly and civilized, so why is he suspected? If you don’t wear a condom, you will be cursed by women, and if you carry a condom with you, you will be despised by women. It’s really not easy to be a man. I feel sorry for the guy in the letter.

Women always say that men don't like intelligent women. In fact, this is not the case. The key point is that 99% of wise women are suspicious, so, to be precise, men do not like suspicious women. For example, the lady who wrote this letter, you are too thoughtful, aren't you?! Women always have menstruation every month, right? In order to guard against the unexpected arrival of menstruation, don't women also carry sanitary napkins with them?

In fact, the reason why condoms are called "safety" condoms is that they should be carried with you to prevent accidents and ensure safety. What if your girlfriend dresses too sexily on a date? Sometimes we men find it hard to control ourselves. Situations can happen at any time. It would be too late to remedy the situation afterwards. It would be wiser to prepare for a rainy day.

To be honest, unless a man loves his woman very much, which man would be willing to wear a condom? The difference between the feeling without and with a condom is huge. Why should we put ourselves in a difficult position by having to put a layer of something between us? It is because we feel sorry for our women who are harming their bodies by taking medication that we will be more considerate and wear condoms consciously.

Our work pressure is high and the workload is heavy. We have to bear the suspicion of our girlfriends while enjoying love. If love is as tiring as work, how can we live?!

Sometimes, women always like to get stuck in a rut and will ponder over a small matter for a long time, which not only causes trouble to others but also makes them exhausted. Why bother? If your man has other women, why bother carrying condoms with him? Why not just go in directly? It's just for fun anyway. If he's just playing with you, it's even more impossible for him to wear condoms at all times.

If a gentleman loves his woman, he will be responsible, consider the unexpected situations that may happen at any time, and be ready to protect his woman at any time.

There is a song that goes like this: "Men shouldn't make women cry, at least I'm trying my best." If a man hurts his woman due to his negligence, he is not a good man. So from the perspective of a man, in order to be considerate of his girlfriend, he should take everything into consideration. Carrying a condom with you is a reflection of a man's rigor, responsibility and gentlemanliness.

What women are best at is "divergent thinking", and the result of divergent thinking is that they are unable to understand men's true feelings. Often, our men's gentle love is misinterpreted by such inertial thinking. Woman, your name is picky.

Not all men who carry condoms are bad men

When condoms appear in the intimate world of two people, they exude the color of warmth and protection. But it would be terrible if they were only found in a man's wallet or pocket. The word "safety" is hidden invisibly, and instead the half-noun, half-verb "condom" makes people think about it.

Condoms are not credit cards. Carrying them with you will inevitably make you feel like you are always ready to go into battle. But is it a bit arbitrary to label a man as "unfaithful" simply based on an unopened condom package?

I once had dinner with a male friend, a successful man with a loyal relationship. Our friendship of nearly ten years has given me a good understanding of his character. But just as he took out his wallet to pay, something in a blue package fell to the ground.

He didn't notice it, and when I lowered my head to take a closer look, I deliberately reminded him in a mocking tone: "Sir, your Durex fell." The waiter cast a surprised look at him, but he just bent down to pick it up as if nothing had happened, said "thank you" elegantly, and put it back into his wallet naturally as if he had picked up a coin.

This issue should be viewed in two parts. Among the men who always carry condoms, 50 percent of them have chaotic private lives. They cannot be sure when their next desire will come or the health status of the next person they will have an affair with. Unwilling to take risks or take responsibility, they had no choice but to start with themselves, carrying their helmets around like they were at a buffet.

The other 50% of men have many uncertain factors, such as he is on his way to his girlfriend's house with whom he is in a long-distance relationship, or he and his girlfriend are in the stage of passionate love and the passion is about to burst out but he doesn't want to face the embarrassment of losing the passion because of who goes to buy condoms, or he just bought a men's health magazine and put the gift into his pocket...

As an adult woman, you should analyze rationally, objectively, comprehensively and comprehensively the reasons why your boyfriend always carries condoms with him. If he was in the top 50 percent of men, there would surely be other clues in the details besides this. After ensuring that he is not a man with unrestrained sexual attitudes and a casual private life, why not accept the beautiful and human side of men?

This condom is not the same as that one. A man who bargains with a woman over the issue of wearing a condom during sex is selfish and puts his own sensory enjoyment first. But a man who can wear a condom will undoubtedly not lose his composure on this issue. He may very well be looking forward to your relationship entering a deeper stage. Out of love for Little P's body, I look forward to the day when our body and mind will be united soon, and I take the initiative to assume responsibility for the sexual safety of both of us, and prepare for a rainy day.