Men cheating is easy to come back because of this

No matter which spouse cheats, it will destroy the foundation of trust and cause harm to the marriage and family. In the worst case, the marriage will break up. Since marital infidelity is difficult to avoid, studying the different characteristics of infidelity between men and women has practical significance for preventing and rescuing infidelity. It is generally believed that men cheat for sex, while women cheat for love, which makes sense upon closer analysis. Since there are differences in the motivations for cheating between men and women, the probability of returning to the family after cheating is higher in comparison. Based on this characteristic, married women can carefully evaluate the possibility of saving their cheating husbands and minimize the losses caused by the cheating. The saying that men who cheat have a high rate of returning to their husbands is mainly based on three basic judgments.

1. Men cheat in order to seek sensory stimulation but rarely show true love.

Driven by their nature of hunting for beauty and getting bored with the old and liking the new, many men cannot control their lower body and need too many reasons to cheat. In a social context where people are becoming more and more accepting of extramarital affairs, even men who are happily married have the desire to hunt for love, and it all depends on whether they can meet the right woman in the right situation. Since most men's motivation for cheating is to seek sensory stimulation and pursue the effect of making love in bed and leaving each other after bed, they rarely fall in love with women outside of marriage. Therefore, when a married woman discovers that her husband is cheating, it is best not to rush to confront him. After finding out his motives for cheating and the depth of his feelings, she should calmly evaluate and respond. As long as the husband is not dissatisfied with the current state of his marriage and does not want to endanger his marriage and family, appropriate rescue measures can be taken to help him return to the right path.

2. Men cheating to keep up with the trend will not let their extramarital affairs get out of control.

Men become bad when they have money, and women become rich when they become bad. This statement seems to be confirmed in the circle of successful men. There is indeed a strange phenomenon in today's society: whether or not a man has a beautiful "female secretary" around him has become a symbol of his ability and status, and those men who appear in public with their mistresses have attracted the envy of many people. Some beautiful girls also regard successful men as their favorites. They like his mature charm, value his ability and status, and are willing to bet their youth on him to become his mistresses. But most successful men are not as stupid as Lei Zhengfu. They know the importance of a stable marriage to career development. Although he brings beautiful women with him, he will keep her under control and will never let the extramarital affair threaten his career and family. At most, he will just use money to settle the matter. This is also an important reason why many original wives turn a blind eye even though they know their husbands have women outside.

3. Men will not abandon their families when they cheat as an emotional supplement.

Some men cheat not because of a bad relationship between husband and wife. They find women outside of marriage mostly to make up for the shortcomings of the marriage, not to change wives through extramarital affairs. They either abstain from sex for too long during their wife's pregnancy and can't help but seek out extramarital women to satisfy their sexual desires, or they are dissatisfied with sex after their wife's menopause and seek sensory stimulation from extramarital women, or they try to regain the romantic feeling when they were in love through extramarital affairs, etc. No matter what the reason is for these men to cheat, as long as the problems between husband and wife are resolved, they will return to their wives. Therefore, when a woman finds out that her husband has cheated because he is dissatisfied with a certain situation in the marriage, it is best to take the initiative to find out the reasons, find out the crux of the problem through communication, and jointly develop improvement measures to resolve the causes of her husband's cheating and restore normal married life.