Why do men like sister-brother relationships?

1. Femininity

Compared to Chen Ming, who looks like her, Sandy Lam is more refined and more touching because she is more mature. Similarly, Gong Li is more attractive and charming than the smaller Zhang Ziyi. Among them, the key point is that they are more feminine, their eyes and body language are richer, and they can hit the nail on the head.

2. Elegant temperament

When a little girl breaks up with her boyfriend, she may throw things and cry as if the whole world has been destroyed and she is in agony. But I have met a mature woman who dealt with her own Chen Shimei so elegantly with just one sentence: "Go slowly and please close the door."

3. Independent beauty

This is the most dazzling dress of the new woman. She does not rely on others or on acting coquettishly to win a rose (because that is a bit childish, a bit pathetic, and even ridiculous). She should be a woman who cannot be "controlled" by men. She does not cater to others, but has an independent personality. She looks at what she has instead of what she asks from men. This is very popular among new men. The little girl who says “whatever you want” is a burden. For a man, hugging you for a quarter of an hour is a pleasure, but hugging you for a whole day is drudgery. A mature woman has her own interpersonal relationships and career, and she does not rely on men for a living, so her love seems more free and easy.

From the perspective of social psychology, mature women are more popular with men. Part of the reason is the Oedipus complex at work. On the other hand, men subconsciously need a member of the opposite sex who can take care of them and be considerate of them. This is a manifestation of men's inner fragility. Of course, most men still like women of the same age as themselves. So, it depends on the specific situation of the man.

If we only consider it from the perspective of pure female beauty, of course younger ones are better, but the experience, wisdom, warmth and even the charming fragrance exuded by the accumulated fat of older sisters make men yearn for them infinitely. Some people call it "the deep fragrance of ripe apples" rather than the superficial fragrance of flowers.

Men nowadays are too tired, and they are more eager for this kind of plump embrace. The sister's considerate tenderness can relieve men's inner stress and depression, and has a good therapeutic effect. Women are originally strong animals, and they will become stronger as they gain experience. Therefore, they will be more compassionate and tolerant towards men, and know how to be more considerate and caring towards men. Indeed, mature women are spacious, calm and sexy, which are what the naughty little "girls" lack.

4. Noble

If little girls try to act noble, they may become dull, sluggish, and dull, and appear funny. And mature women, with a little modification, can create a noble forehead or a noble bun.

Nobility is gold, but gold seems heavy to a little girl. Nobility is temperament, but the most beautiful temperament of a little girl is to look radiant and bright, rather than wearing a fur coat and pretending to be arrogant and cold, which is very silly.

5. Hot and caring

Mature women are more tolerant and caring. As a sister, they will naturally restrain their words and actions. This kind of gentleness is powerful, broad-minded, positive and heartwarming.

A little girl may just extend her hand to let others hold it, but a mature woman knows how to reach out, pat the dust off your shoulder, or straighten your collar for you. The action is simple, yet full of warmth.

6. Internal care

It has a rich inner world and a winning temperament, and is very worth reading. Flowers are to be looked at, but the beauty of a mature woman is to be appreciated. Those who cannot see her beauty are shallow, and those who can read her charm are happy.

And this feeling lasts forever. Penetration from the inside out will make a woman exude unspeakable charm. She is not artificial or packaged. She is authentic and forms an atmosphere that attracts you for a long time.

7. The most understanding of customs

Some studies have shown that most women will not experience true orgasm until after the age of 30. At this time, women do not have sex just for the sake of sex. Their sexual needs include a lot of emotional needs.

Mature women are more sensitive to capture every happy cell, combining body and mind, and better understand the various signals from men. Once you know the truth, you are less likely to make mistakes. More importantly, you learn to enjoy love. Love truly nourishes you, from your skin to your soul. This kind of "sexual" happiness is very full, not empty, long-lasting and lasting.

8. Flirtatious

This is an absolutely positive word, which is related to style and charm. Young girls may be coquettish, but coquettishness is a kind of fragrance that mature girls exude after years of practice. Can't imitate.

Learning is not like that, it takes time. Flowers fade easily, but fruits can be savored slowly. When you describe a woman as "very attractive", I believe that she is a mature lady.