Newlyweds need to follow the steps step by step

Studies have shown that when two people communicate face to face, 70% of the information is transmitted through non-verbal channels. This is particularly evident in sexual life, especially for women. Because of the warmth and delicacy in women's nature, as well as the shyness that attracts many men, they display a subtle and hazy beauty in their sex life. When it comes to inner passion, he never expresses it directly, but rather expresses it through some actions and expressions. If the husband is not good at catching clues of his wife's inner passion from many subtle signs, or is ignorant of this, it will destroy the beauty of sexual love for both of them and lay the hidden danger of sexual disharmony. This requires us to learn to accept the communication of each other's body language in our married life. Non-verbal communication during sex can make sex more imaginative, infectious, and give people a subtle and beautiful enjoyment. Nonverbal communication is a silent transmission of information that uses touch, smell, vision, hearing, body movements, postures, etc. to express emotions and desires.

Specifically, what should we do in our sexual life?

First of all, the affectionate gestures, hugs, kisses, affectionate gazes and lingering whispers from the other person are all sending you messages of courtship.

Secondly, during sexual excitement, the intensity of the other person's hug can convey the severity of the action. To be more precise, when your wife hugs you tighter or her body moves closer to you, it means she needs stronger stimulation from you. When she slowly pushes you away, you should wonder if you were too rough with your actions.

Third, couples can also agree in advance on secret codes for conveying sexual feelings. They can use eye contact or, more often, gestures. For example, both parties can put their palms together and adjust the posture and amplitude of sexual intercourse according to the amount of force the other person applies on their palms.

Fourth, women’s orgasm comes slowly and often requires a longer excitement and plateau period. How to grasp the moment when women reach the late stage of sexual intercourse and orgasm, so that both of them can enter the orgasm period, is a relatively difficult thing, and not everyone can do it during every sexual activity. But it doesn’t matter. The husband can wait until his wife reaches orgasm before ejaculating, and both parties will get the greatest satisfaction. Here, you may ask, how can I know when my wife is about to reach orgasm?

It usually goes like this: the vagina contracts rhythmically and involuntarily, making the penis feel like it is being held, the heartbeat and breathing speed up, a blush appears on the chest and abdomen, and the nipples become erect. But not everyone's reaction is so regular and intense, and when the climax comes, you have no time to care about these. The best way is to prepare a sexual code in advance, which is both quick and accurate.